One Thing About Hookup Culture, Gypsy Rose, and Pick Me Girls 01:35:27

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Anyways, welcome back to another episode. I'm Taylor. I'm Sam. Today, after all of our usual shenanigans, we're going to talk about hookup culture. Yeah. Just like spitball. Just shoot the shit. Yeah. I'm excited for it because I feel like we've never done an episode just talking about not sex, but like hookup culture. Yeah, hookup culture. It's not a topic that we've discussed and we've been talking for almost three years. We've talked about a lot, but not this. Yep. So someone's going to be like, no, you literally have an episode with that name. I don't remember. Yeah.

Or like we've talked about hookups in the past. But anyways, let's dedicate a whole episode to it. One thing about me this week is my hair. I got it done and this is really exciting for me because if you remember three months ago, I went freaking crazy about my hair because I didn't like it when I left the chair. And this time, I love it and I left the chair happy.

yeah happy for you I know and I realized moving forward like shorter hair is definitely for me like I tried for the longest like over a year or whatnot to grow it out really long but my hair is just so thin it gets so dead so quickly like I just needed to chop it off like I cut my hair on my own last week I walked into the house and I was like going through it on Friday and just cut my hair like two inches off and Taylor walks in and she's like

I'm just looking at her and go, Taylor, don't freak out, but like I just cut my hair myself. Yeah. And I was like, are you okay? Are you going through it? That's a wild thing to do. Yeah. I've never done that on my own before, but I knew I was getting my hair done. So if I fucked it up like Monday, it could have gotten fixed. I feel that next... My appointment's sometime soon. I'm cutting...

Yeah. Oh, God. Oh, yeah. Wait, did we talk about this last week yet? No. Last week, I got laid off. It was awful. But with every rejection comes redirection. I know I can just...

Get a better job, like a better paying job. That's why everyone tells me that they lost their job and it only led them to now they have like a way better job. And I get it. Just fucking sucked. And people were asking, or we're going to talk about it more on the pod.

There's nothing really to say. It was a budget thing. And they decided they wanted to cut their spend on social media. I feel like we can talk about layoffs a little bit, though, in general. I mean, people are getting laid off. It's crazy. People are getting laid off. It's also after the end of the year, companies are like, okay, how do we want to go into this year? Yeah. That might be without your ass. And I posted this on TikTok as a story. So you might not have seen it, but it got a lot of... I should have posted it as a video because people were really going off in the comments about how it's so true. Yeah.

I said, if I can give one advice to people in their 20s, it's that no one in a fucking business setting cares about you at all. They literally don't care about you other than... They don't care about you more than their own needs or the company's needs. They don't care about you at all.

at all they have no loyalty to you people were in the comments like if you died in a car accident your job posting would be up on linkedin yeah the next week like they don't care about you you know what i mean like they don't care about you they're not loyal you have to put yourself in the best position don't think that you need to be loyal to a company because they don't fucking care about you

Yeah and it's sad because it really is like that with every job whether it's like a corporate job or like the job I had that was a personal training job like it does not matter the type of job that it is all the CEO really cares about is the number signs that are coming in they'll say they care about you and then move on. They don't and I mean I'm very lucky I'm not some people were like what company so I know who not to work for it's not that they're awful people.

Even the best, most amazing businesses to work for still don't care about you. Yeah, they're going to put the business before you first. It's not that they were awful. They're very nice in the fact that they're obviously very well connected. They're very successful. That like any help I need, he'd be more than happy to help. So...

It wasn't really on a bad term. It just fucking sucks. Like, it's bad for me. I lost my fucking job, which is funny when he's like anything I can do to help. I'm like, give me my job back. Yeah, right. That would help. I'm like, there's literally not much you can do. That would help a lot. Give me my job back and I'll look for another job and I'll leave when I'm ready. Yeah, right. Like, keep paying me until I get another job. Like, you want to help? Give me my job back. Yeah. Yeah.

And like another thing too is I said this to you and for anyone else that's getting laid off is You're gonna learn so much even if that job you had it for a month two months You had it for a year whatever it is You're gonna learn so much from that job that's gonna now allow you to have a little bit more of like Leverage in the next opportunity that comes your way and I feel like that's something just to take advantage of like for example obviously I haven't really had like

of like the corporate life. But when I was like, when I had a job of personal training, like that's how I was able to do personal training on my own. I would have never been able to do personal training on my own as a business if I didn't work in a company and learn all the backend stuff. Even now I'm more comfortable like asking for my money or applying to jobs. Yeah. I have like proof that I did well for a company, which I did well for a company. All the haters saying I got firetails bad at my job can suck it because I was so good at my job. Yeah. So...

Anyways. Yeah, well, one door closes, another door opens. I'm going to figure it out. On the bright side, it came two days before I was about to sign a lease on a stupid expensive apartment. So now...

I didn't do that. I'm still probably going to get an apartment that's kind of expensive, but less expensive. So that is a plus. Yeah, definitely a blessing for that. It literally was two days before I was about to sign a lease. Yeah. So anyways, my favorite of the week is what I spent yesterday night doing or watching American Nightmare on Netflix. I can't talk about it because I'll spoil it. It's so well done. It's three parts.

it's so good it's an insane story it was so good it's like a roller coaster of emotions like you think you know where the case is going in the first episode and the second episode you're like oh what the fuck and then it all like comes together in the end and like it was so good you have to watch it so good you think this is something that would be up my alley it's like a true crime doc it's a documentary but like is there a lot because you know i can't do like no no it's not horror it's like

um basically it starts what it is it's like this girl gets kidnapped and it's kind of like no it's more about the people involved it's not scary it's like the people talking i don't know i'll have to check it out it's not scary honestly at night by myself not gonna lie hulu and netflix have been killing it with the releases they've had lately i just watched something it was it's in the top 10 of tv shows right now i can't remember the name of it fear fear something it's a tv series there's like eight episodes it's so good wait

with a girl and she finds her husband on a nanny cam her dead she finds her dead husband on a nanny cam i can't remember the name of it but i literally watched it two nights ago so i should know the name of it but i don't but it was so good i liked that um movie or show oh i can't think of what it is but yeah you would like it a lot the reason also a lot of things are coming out was because there was an actor strike for most of the year and that got lifted like

Two, three months ago now. So that's why a bunch of movies and TV shows are coming out right now. Because everyone was on strike. Gotcha. So they couldn't do anything. So not everything's coming out. Yeah. But yeah, that fucking documentary, you have to watch it. It's so good. Do you know what my... We just spilled it. What, your favorite? Yeah. Sorry. Yeah.

Guys, my favorite of the week is the board game. Sorry. I just bought a bunch of board games on Amazon the other day, which don't buy board games in any stores. When I was back home for Christmas break, I went to Target with my family to buy a bunch of board games to keep in the house. Each board game was like $30 to $50. I was like,

I got them on Amazon for $15 a piece. So never in your life go to Target and buy board games. They're really expensive there. And so I bought, sorry, because I was like, you know what? I'm going to be moving into a house and I want to like just change the way I am as a human when it comes to hanging out with people. I want to play board games. I want to have like wholesome night ends. I don't want to go out to the bars all the time. So I bought a bunch of board games and I brought them with us over to the Fredericksburg this weekend. And oh my goodness, the first night,

we were playing sorry i think for like four hours straight and then obviously the next day we played it for so long but i was like i love all the childhood games that like i used to grow up playing yeah you do love kid games i do no sorry yeah no the thing is my my fish maybe yeah no my boyfriend was like you love all the games that are just luck games you don't like i know he's like you don't like any of the games that are like you need to put some strategy behind i'm like

Who says that? Yeah, we're all like, sorry, luck. Like, it's whatever fucking card you get. Like, for like the last time we played, for example, to get out of the start, you need a one or a two. But you got like one or like 10 in a row. Yeah. And we got none. Like, it's like, okay, well...

Fuck us. Like, well, that's just luck. So we kept being like, it's luck. And you're like, there's... No, like, there is strategy because when you have all of your little people on the board, you got to think of which one you want to move to either knock someone off or keep yourself alive. Because if you're on the slide, you need to move yourself off the slide so you don't get knocked off the slide. Yeah, but like...

No, there's strategy. There's strategy. Like, don't come for me. Apparently, like, there's not really strategy. It's six and up, but, like, it's okay. Eight and up, Taylor. I swear the box said eight and up. She's check-checking. I am fact-checking because I thought it said six and up when it was on the table. I was looking at it upside down, but I don't know how. Well, eight, no matter what, is an eight. Six and up. Fuck. Whatever. The Child and Me really came out this weekend. Yeah. And you get so competitive with...

Sam does this thing when we play games that she just wants to keep playing until she wins a round. So like if she wins the first round, it's like, oh my God, guys, can we just like go to bed? But like if we, if she hasn't won yet, it's like, let's play again. Let's play again. And then we were playing for second place. And I don't know if you forgot that we were playing for second, not first. Yeah, I remember this. Yeah. So like you get second and you were like, yes, I win. And I was like, yes.

He got second. Like, we weren't playing her first. First already happened. Like, she just, like, it could be 10 rounds and she just needs to win her one round. Yeah. It's

It's so fun. You should have imagined what it was like with me and my boyfriend on Friday night playing by ourselves. I don't really want to. I literally was about to start throwing punches. Yeah. The One Thing About Us podcast is sponsored by Care Of. I want to talk to you about Care Of. If you've been following us, you know that we love Care Of. We are huge supporters of Care Of. Basically, it's a subscription service that ships high-quality personalized vitamins, supplements, and powders conveniently to your door every month.

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But like we had our own shit that we wanted to talk about. What is that? Specifically? Yeah. What was it? Well, you... I can't remember.

from three years ago that people want to post oh yeah yeah yeah dude okay i'm trying to think if there's any light-hearted stuff first before like jumping into it but like i don't think i have i have light-hearted stuff you have light-hearted stuff okay we could do that okay so i really wanted to this past weekend get a fucking orange at the store at hebe to do the orange peel theory but i feel like this is a great topic to bring up right now because you made a really good point about the oranges how like you're not supposed to peel an orange so are we supposed to be

using clementines or is the whole point of it because you're not supposed to peel an orange the the point is will they just do a simple task for you that you should just do by yourself like you know you can just do it by yourself it takes two seconds but the point is will your boyfriend go out of his way just to do the gesture for you of peeling the orange for you now you don't peel an orange you cut an orange that is just like a so people are just saying orange because like

if it's like a clementine you would peel it that's what i'm saying why aren't we saying clementine theory but some some people they ask their boyfriend like the boyfriend will bring it cut and it's like but the reason i the only reason i realized that is because in one of them the boyfriend said you don't peel orange she's like would you peel it for me he was like i'll cut it for you why would i peel it yeah i realized that after when you said that to me and pointed out i was like you're so right yeah so why are we not doing clementines people just people in their fucking

their fucking theories every day on the internet red nail theory grocery store grocery cart theory grocery store theory everything's a fucking theory i know well the thing is i think with the the orange theory i would be able to get my boyfriend to do it if i asked him like a little like like hey maybe like will you please peel this orange but like if i just like ask him hey will you just do this for me i feel like he would say no but i need to test it out

I some people do it in a good way where they say oh I really want an orange but I don't want to go peel it. Oh okay. Like they don't want. I need to do it though. Sometimes they're like oh I'll just do it for you. I think this goes up on Wednesday. I have two days. I hang out with him tomorrow. I gotta do it tomorrow. I gotta go to the store and get an orange. But for you to go to the store get it and be like I bought this and don't want to cut it. Well. Okay. I think the plan will be is so we're going to dinner. I'll come back after dinner. I'm like I really want something sweet right now. But like not like.

I don't know. I'll figure it out. And then I'll be like, oh, there's an orange out there. Like, will you go peel it for me?

Yeah. He'll be like, what the fuck? Like, when have you ever ate an orange? No, the other day. You said this. I don't eat, like, fruit like that. Like, oranges, apples, anything. And you were watching me eat an apple. You're going, are you eating an apple right now? I go, yeah. Yeah, it was weird. I was like, what the fuck? Why are you eating an apple? You just don't eat fruit. Yeah, because he brought apples over my house one day and I just... They were sitting there. So I was like, all right, someone's got to eat them. Yeah. But, yeah, so many theories. And then...

My other thing I wanted to talk about was, this is so fucking random, but girls that switch up so quickly, the second a group of guys come around. And I realized I have never really seen any of that before, but I could imagine getting so irritated by a girl. Like if we had a friend that like instantly like character changed up real quick when a bunch of guys came around. Yeah. I mean, I feel like that's pretty common. You think that's common? Yeah.

No, like I get it in the sense of like, oh, like like little things. But like, no, I mean, common, like I feel like people always talk about that. Like girls that act different around. Yeah, I can't pinpoint anyone that I know that. No, I don't. I don't know. And actually, wait, that's such a lie. We do. We definitely do. We were talking about this this morning. Yeah. No, definitely do. OK, what am I saying? One hundred percent. I can't pinpoint it. Maybe like younger. If I had to go back to like.

older yeah like younger me but like in the sense of a girl or a friend just like forgetting about you forgetting well some girls also change up in front of dudes the common way is like being kind of mean to their friend in front of guys oh yeah yeah to like make themselves leverage better yeah like to just like a pick me or like

like oh the boys are coming over and they need to like look all pretty like just so pick me yeah oh i have gossip what is that so i randomly got on this i don't know what it is if someone wants to be in the comments and like inform me i saw this like there's like this drama of these like 50 year old women kendra and katherine kendra and katherine and it's like it was like this slideshow and the song was like like she want my man but like

you like you lost like I got him like I fucking better than you and then like that was Catherine being like fuck you Kendra I got your man and then Catherine no then Kendra posted a thing like because Kendra said I can't take selfies and like

of all these selfies. And like, are these real? Like, they had a lot of likes. I don't know what this is. Like, if Kendra and Catherine, is this going to be like a new thing? Was it like a one-time beef that I saw? I don't know what it was, but Kendra and Catherine were like these 50-year-old women going at it on TikTok. And I'm like, I was kind of obsessed. Damn. I was like, I don't know whose side I'm on. Let me know if you've seen Kendra and Catherine because I saw it today. There's nothing better on TikTok than when a, like, account that's supposed to be someone's spam account drops.

just just goes on it and they just do her like maybe a get ready or a story time and they expect it to get no views at all and then it's like a like a big thing like the the one you're talking about and it just blows up and they're like oh i wasn't meaning for the whole world to see that is it real people is it like teenagers using fake pictures like who are kendra and katherine are they real like i don't know yeah but i wonder if it's going to become a bigger thing or if i just happen to see these two they had a lot of likes i think 100 000 likes yeah but

And I saw them, like, one after another. Like, my For You page knew what it was doing. Yeah. It, like, gave me both of them. It was so weird. Speaking of also TikTok, have you seen that everyone is now turning on Gypsy Rose? It was bound to happen, but I love Gypsy Rose. Yeah. But Gypsy Rose should not be, like, a celebrity. You guys need to let her fucking breathe. I know. I just don't understand why, like, for what she did, obviously, it's just, like, why is she a celebrity? It's so weird to me. Well, her case was always so famous. Like, I...

known who Gypsy Rose was for a long time. I had no idea. So she has like multiple like shows about her story and documentaries about her story. So everyone was like, oh my God, everyone has been like wanting her to be free. So now she's finally free. She's got like 5 million Instagram followers in like a day. That's nuts. Yeah. And it's kind of like everyone just like wants her to like live her best life and be free. But like this girl like

I saw the funniest shit today. I posted on my story. Like, I'm going to start reposting funny memes. Oh, I love doing that. Dude, I repost the best TikToks. And this one girl is always like, bro, your reposts are so funny. And I'm like, thank you. And she sent me a screenshot of one of them. She's like, this is the shit I'm talking about. This is so funny. I'm like, thank you. Like, I love my repost. But I'm like, fuck it. Instagram story.

fucking gypsy and her boyfriend and it was like ariana grande is dying to date this man because ariana grande just and her fucking ugly boyfriends or whatever i fucking cried and ariana grande is stealing gypsy rose's man in 2024 bingo card that's crazy yeah where is ariana grande at now dating spongebob yeah but still she's dating spongebob

And she posted and she like homewrecked that family. So she's dating SpongeBob. And then she just came out with a song that's basically like... About SpongeBob? No, like who cares what the haters say about you kind of thing. It's pretty good. You can't understand the words. I love SpongeBob. You can't really understand the words because she's just kind of like mumbling. It's good. It's got a good beat. But it's like, no girl, we actually... You should care what the haters say. You like fucked up a family. Yeah, I can't get by fucking people that do that. You fucked up a family for SpongeBob. Yeah.

Yeah. And you know what's crazy? I'm so... Let's talk about this for a second. I'm so happy that my boyfriend has no girl co-workers. Oh, yeah. Dude, the amount of affairs and shit I see and hear about in the work environment is nuts to me. Yeah. Like, I'm not an insecure person whatsoever. And my boyfriend is like the most perfect, precious man that I would never, ever not trust him. Yeah.

But for any other like girl that maybe has a little bit distrust in their man, that environment is scary. Scary. Like I could never. Imagine if my man had or your man, like anybody's man had like a bunch of female co-workers their age. You just set off the listeners because you said your man as if like I have a man they don't know about. Oh, yeah. Right. I don't.

My man, my next man, better work from home. That's all I'm saying. Yeah. And on those Zooms, turn your camera off. I even told him too because I asked him one day just out of the blue because like,

you know, the conversations we have on the back end with our friends. I've asked that. Yeah. I'm literally like, you work with girls? Yeah. I asked him, I go, so how many girl co-workers? He goes, literally none. I'm like, I like it that way. That's such a sexist. Yeah, literally. No, I asked my ex-boyfriend that. I was like, you? You work with girls? Yeah. He's like, no. And then...

I would just fuck with him because he'd always get emails from this girl named Kelly. I'm like, oh, who's Kelly? The 60 year old woman who's like his boss. But like, it'd be like every email. I'm like, who's Kelly? She's like my boss. Like this like old lady. I'm like, yeah, I think she's kind of obsessed with you. It's like, yeah, she's my boss. And I'm like, she's kind of obsessed with you. It's but like, think about it. They, my boyfriend worked with another female. He would see that female more than he would see me. Yeah.

That's nuts. And what if they had to like... Oh my god, I almost literally vomited because once when people from my ex-boyfriend's work came from out of town, like other... Which ex-boyfriend are we talking about? Most recent. Okay. My other boyfriends, they didn't have jobs. That's so true. They would come from out of town from their other locations, I guess? I don't know, to work. So they would send people that worked to pick them up from the airport or something like that.

To, like, get them. So you'd have to, like, pick someone up from the airport that, like, came. And I think one time it was a girl. And I was like, better fucking watch it. It might have been, like, a 50-year-old lady. I have no idea. But I'm like, watch it. Can I come? Well, the thing is, age doesn't matter. No. Because we've seen some really fucked up stories of, like...

A 20-something-year-old hooking up with a 50-year-old. Yeah, and I watched The Golden Bachelor. A lot of those girls were hot. Yeah. They were kind of hot for their age. Affairs, age doesn't matter. No. And that's the scary part. Yeah. And people get into their work crushes because it's something you can't have. Yeah, you fantasize it. You get so excited to go into work the next day because you're like, oh, I can't wait to see them. Oh, sorry. Sorry for any of the girls listening right now that have a shit ton of...

girl co-workers that they're they have to deal with with their boyfriend i'm sorry they're probably like cringing in their seat right now imagine going to your boyfriend's like holiday party and there's a bunch of girls like oh my god we love your boyfriend he's so good at his job i would literally jump off a bridge yeah i would too no i would show up to that holiday party looking

Like I'd get my hair and makeup done. Yeah. I told my boyfriend because, well, another thing is I really want to like tour his work because I just want to know what his day in life is like, because that's just a mysterious part of his life that I'm just not a part of. And I was like, oh, I want to tour. So he's going to try to set up a tour for me to like come visit. But I was like, in the meantime, I was like, what if I buy you the Ray-Ban glasses? The what? The Ray-Ban glasses. With the camera? With the camera. I go, I'll just, I'll just watch you. You're POV. Do you ever try to ask him what he does? And he's kind of like, doesn't even give you an answer. No.

Oh, no, he goes really, really detailed to the point where he's lost me. Oh. He uses like big words. I'm like, I have no idea what you're talking about. I'd be like, what do you do? It's like nothing. And I'm like, what do you do? No, he gives me detailed answers and I'm like, I just don't understand. I see. Another good example of this is one time I asked him how work was or like, or no, I

I don't know how the subject got brought up, but we were laying in my bed talking about something about work and he gets out of bed to stand and like visually show me it. And I'm like, okay, so this is what you need to start doing is like you need to visually show me what you do at work because if you just tell me word for word, I'm not going to understand. I'm a visual learner. So it was nice. He was using like the light switch and he was like,

Using these big words like this is this is what this means. This is what that means. I'm like, oh, okay. Nice. Cool. Yeah. Couldn't be me. I could never work that too. No, I'm kidding. I could never be like an engineer. Yeah.

Yeah. That's just not something I could do. I don't agree. Dude, if I was an engineer... No, if I was an engineer at some type of company, like, shit would be bound to go wrong. Buildings would collapse. Buildings would collapse. It would explode. We would be all fucked. Okay. I feel like sometimes people have a weird understanding. I wonder if they get from the screen when we say those little things about each other's personalities. Like, a few episodes ago, you said...

how like i'd be your maid of honor because like i know how to plan a wedding yeah like is that something people would expect from us like do they get that i don't know like i like i don't know how to explain it but i'm just like those little like nuances of like our personalities yeah is that making sense to you no i don't really think people understand our personalities too much because when it's like oh i couldn't be an engineer they might be like but sam's like smart and like likes business and stuff it's like yeah but she couldn't be an engineer yeah no no like

No, no, no, no. I'm not smart. Book smart. I don't know. Sometimes I'm just like, I wonder what parts of our personalities they really... Understand. They really get. Like if they had to do like a who's most likely to, if they would get them right. Yeah. I agree that we definitely maybe should... No. That wouldn't make sense to do a whole episode about that. Do you want to talk about the thing that was pissing us off? Yeah. I want to get fucking into it. I don't want to talk about it for too, too long because...

It's just like, this is like my safe space and this shit is disgusting. Yeah. So if you're newer here, you have no idea what we're talking about and that's a blessing. Good for you. If you're older, you know exactly what the fuck we're talking about. It's so fucking niche that you'll understand. Oh my God. So...

So beginning of summer slash spring of 2021. Yeah. This is me and Sam had met one time. She invites me to go on this trip with her and another girl on social media. Okay. I didn't know these girls, but I was like, you know what? I'm going to go.

So Sam knows this girl from online. They're going on the trip and I'm like tagging along. I'm like, okay, I'll come more the merrier. Like we're all excited. We're all so excited. We're going to LA. We're going to go to the zoo culture. We're just going to be fitness influencers and be cringe as fuck. That was our main crime. Dude, if you look at our YouTube videos from that, we were looking back on the YouTube videos. We're like, it's so cringe. If you want to give a shit or shade for anything on this trip, you can just tell us that we're cringe. So cringe. Agreed.

Like, should we delete all that content? Yeah, probably. It's awful. It's cringe. I agree.

agree no no fighting you there so we go on this trip and like it's so normal for 99 percent of it 99 so normal so normal but we get a post sent to me like through like last week sometime last week from the girl that we're on the trip with saying it was the worst trip of her life how we did things without her talked behind her back um called her anorexic y'all

And also saying that I was her best friend. Like a sister. Like a sister. That was my first time meeting her. Like, you can't throw around the word best friend or sister like that. I'm sorry. Like, I do not call many people my best friend, let alone someone I've never met before my best friend. So that's weird. We watch the videos. We can't find anything that we did wrong.

just us without her. Mind you, this was also my second time meeting Sam, so it wasn't like we were how we were now. We met once for 12 hours. Yeah, we met once for one day. Like, I didn't know Sam like that. We couldn't find anything that we did alone. We could only find something that me and the other girl did alone without Sam because Sam had...

a date sam had a date so she went on her date and we went to go do something we cannot find anything where we did it by ourselves and like we tried to both collect think of everything that happened on the trip can't find it um she said that we would like i don't know like talk without like talk behind her back and like laugh guys we were sharing like a 100 square foot hotel room if we were talking behind someone's back like

bitch you would hear and it'd be loud we were literally in another thing foot of each other for like three days and taylor is the one that slept on the couch yeah like i like i was the one that was maybe not gonna get a bed in sam's whole vlog like i'm barely in it yeah taylor does not talk which you were really quiet like back then like 2021 when i had a mental breakdown on that trip you literally like would not talk like the person you are now like

you're way more outgoing than what you were you were so quiet on that trip so quiet i literally had a mental breakdown on that trip because i was like i can't like this is too much yeah me so and i remember leaving the hotel room and like crying and you coming out and talking to me so she thought that that was us going off and doing something when realistically i was just like crying outside and you were talking to me maybe she thought we like went to go fuck around i don't know we were standing in the

We have no idea what the fuck this girl is talking about. And it's still on the internet. Like, what are you talking about? She's been bringing this up to the internet for three fucking years. Three years. And if we want to talk, she said that we called her anorexic. Never in my goddamn life have I walked up to someone and said, you're anorexic. Yeah. That's crazy. We saw not great food behaviors.

And as people that have dealt with that, we were trying to help. I can't just sit back, relax and watch someone do that without giving my advice, expressing concern. And we had like a heart to heart conversation in the back of an Uber on the winding roads of L.A., literally a deep conversation about how like we just want her to get back.

better to enjoy her life and if that's us calling you anorexic and being mean to you because we don't want to watch people suffer in silence alone i'm i i want to apologize for that because i went through a period of time where everyone close to me watched me not fucking eat and no one noticed or said anything yeah and i could have used someone to notice like i do we want to get into the little details or no of the part of me like doesn't even want to because i don't like

it's like sensitive and it's like i don't want to yeah like i am actually sensitive that you want to post on the internet and tell me i'm not but i am yeah so i don't want to air out things that i know because i was there are probably very sensitive to you and triggering to you i'm talking like to the person yeah triggering to you and hard for you to deal with i don't want to air out your fucking dirty shit online even though that's what you claim and i want to do but when you see things that are obviously obviously

an issue slash directly contradict what you post online, it's concerning when you see that in someone. Yeah. And it's like a, it's a prime example of like, we've seen so many people out there as content creators, um,

put such a different persona... Persuana? Is that the word? Persona. Persona out there for who they are on the internet versus who they are online. And it's really fucking dangerous. And so that was just another thing that we were looking out for is like, hey, you have like... Not even an audience. She had like 8,000 followers. But like at the time, like that's not something that you want to be putting out online is an opposite side of what's actually happening behind the screen. Like that's... It's not good. And we both come from paths like that. So...

Just being totally fucking real. We cannot be hanging around and spending time with people that act like that, eat like that, have those actions towards food because that's not fucking good for us. Yeah. Well, back then, yes. But now... Back then, like, we were still, like... Like, not recovering, but, like... We were still iffy. Yeah, we were still... So...

I can't be around people all the time that are like that. Yeah. Or else I'm, I'm going to fucking spiral. Like I will end up doing exactly what you're doing. Guaranteed. So it's like, yeah, maybe we didn't bond and get closer after that, which is fine. You don't have to leave and be my best friend. Yeah. But like, I'm allowed to put boundaries on who I can and cannot hang.

hang out with and the only reason that we're not that there's like not just like not close the only reason why it's like not friends is because what was brought to social media not because of the trip yeah that makes sense yeah and like lastly too one thing that she did also say in her little stupid video was they never asked like if i was okay or like never asked

xyz it's like how also it's like how are we supposed to know i just met you i don't but we did that but we did but how am i supposed to automatically know if i literally just met you flew off an airplane from across the country and just met you how am i supposed to know that you are really deeply struggling

but she would tell us it does sadden me that she wasn't exactly that's what i'm saying it's like how am i supposed to know i can't read read a read you like a book so it's just if you are clearly struggling with food around me to the point where i think it's like actually detrimental to your health and like who you're promoting it to or whatever like i'm going to say something again in like a heart-to-heart way it was like a deep conversation not just like fuck you you're anorexic like it's claimed it was like a

heart-to-heart conversation of like i care about you and like we want this to be better because i won't sit around and let someone treat themselves like that yeah then i just feel like you're like just like a bystander and you're guilty yeah and i don't know at the end of the day like this was three fucking years ago and it's been it's been dragged out for so long and this is the last time we're ever going to talk about it because i'm

It just needs to be zipped, nipped in the butt. I have reached out to this individual numerous times, whether it was giving her a phone call, giving her a FaceTime, texting her, and every single time it was completely ignored and never answered ever since the very first time she aired it on the internet. And I've never gotten a response from her. And the only thing she'll ever do is bring it to the internet. So I'm nipping in the butt now. I've tried reaching out to you

And if you're not going to talk to me in private and express yourself, then that's your problem. It's just so annoying that people put this narrative online. Yeah. For no reason. Yeah. Like, we would not be talking about you. Literally. We're talking about you now because you fucking posted it on Instagram. Yeah. But anyways. Anyways. That's like...

That's our final fucking message. Yeah. Like, that's what it was. Someone send it to her if she fucking... You can watch our vlogs on YouTube and see for yourself. I don't know what else to tell you. Yeah. Like, go watch all our content. Have fun with it. I don't know. I had a good fucking trip. Or, like, don't watch it because it's the cringiest shit I've ever seen in my life. Yeah, right. It really is. But anyways, we had a fun weekend. We did have a fun weekend. We had a fun weekend that we need to recap because we...

um so fortunate we got to work with this airbnb in fredericksburg and we got to bring our friends yeah so fredericksburg for anyone that doesn't know or is in the austin area it's like a wine country so you're literally in like the hill country there's nothing out there besides like a strip of one road with restaurants and shops and then vineyards every few like miles um so we were in like an a-frame

gorgeous airbnb it had a hot tub pickleball core it was a three bed two bath gorgeous um we posted about it on our instagram so if you guys do live in austin if you guys are looking for somewhere to stay when you go to fredericksburg just go to either of our instagrams we tagged them in like feed posts so you'll easily be able to find it and and if you book like dm them tell them that um

You found it from us. Yes. Facts. Well, she actually texted me saying that they're already getting bookings from us, which is nice to see. It was a lot of fun. We were looking forward to it for so long because we've had it planned for a few weeks now. Yeah. And it was perfect timing now because I like wine. This was my year of liking wine because I would have never last year wanted to go to Fredericksburg and go wine tasting. So me and my boyfriend, we went...

a day early to, you know, get it out of our system of being alone. And we did like a little bit of like an in Airbnb date night. We got takeout, takeout, drank some, not wine. We drank this like margarita mix thing, hung out in the hot tub, went to bed so early. We were playing sorry for hours. But when we got there,

It's just funny because sunset here is around six o'clock now. It used to be way earlier, but either way, six o'clock sunsets. And I'm like, I feel like it's literally 10 PM at night. And I'm like, Oh, I shouldn't be getting in the hot tub right now. It's so late. I look at my phone. It's like six 30. I'm like, Oh, okay. Nevermind. Like let's go in the hot tub. And, um,

Went in the hot tub. I got takeout from this place called Tubby's in Fredericksburg. I got like a sloppy joe sandwich. It made me growing up as a kid. Do your parents ever just keep sloppy dough in a crock pot?

i've had it before but not like frequently dude it's so good and i realized i was i brought this up to my boyfriend i was like why do i never really see people make sloppy joe anymore like that used to be such a big thing when we were younger and he goes it was because you were younger like i assume kids still at this a younger age probably are having sloppy joe all the time yeah but my sister has kids she doesn't make that that's what i'm saying i was like no i don't think that's what it is like

I just think sloppy joe is not as popular as it used to be, but sloppy joe is so fucking good. It was amazing. And then he got like chicken beers and a burger and stuff, which it just felt really nice to just grab out. Yeah. I went on Saturday. So Friday I went to the gym with my friend. We've been like working out together because we both like won't do shit if we're alone. Like we can't do shit if we're alone. So it's like, bitch, you have to come because.

we got to get this done. And like, we never want to do it. And then we finish. We're like, oh, fuck. Yeah. Like we did it. It always just sounds so bad, but then we get it done. And it was kind of fun. We stayed at the gym for kind of a long time and it was nice. There's like wholesome Friday of like, okay, coming here at like four and staying till like six, like,

a nice Friday evening. So many people we knew were there. So we got like got our workout kind of just like chilled. And it was like, wow, what a nice way to like not go out, just hang out at the gym. Then I went home and had a nice just like night to myself of reading everything shower. I love the everything shower loveliness. Just I posted a tick tock. I'm like, oh my God, I'm protecting my peace way too fucking hard because I literally just like took a melatonin and I'm laying in bed at like 830. What time did you fall asleep?

I'm probably 10 something. Oh, okay. I'm like... If I fall asleep before 9, like, I'm awake at 4 in the morning. I can sleep for, like, 12 hours. I can't. I... Literally, my brain just wakes up at the 8-hour mark. I could sleep for 12 hours. That's crazy. Yeah, it's ridiculous. But, yeah, I was like, oh, like, it's a Friday night, and I literally... It was one of those things where I thought it was so late. I'm, like, taking my sleep supplement. I'm like, bitch, it's 30, and you just took a melatonin. Yeah. I was, like, amazing, because on Saturday...

I had to get my two workouts in before Fredericksburg. So I woke up at 6 in the morning. We were leaving at 10. So I woke up at 6 to do my two workouts before leaving for the Airbnb. We left at like 10, had a fun little car ride over there, and we got to Fredericksburg at like 12.

Yeah, we so I woke up that morning and it was so cold. It was like 25 degrees. So cold guys. It's so cold right now No, but I didn't even realize it was cold because that night we blared the heat So I woke up all cozy ready to go And I was like, oh my god, let's go on a run two mile run. That's all I wanted to do I just need to do something really quick to Move my body because when I work out like I have more energy throughout the day if I work out If I don't i'm like super sluggish. So I was like two mile run. We got this like we can do it

And I like go outside to bring Mac outside to go to the bathroom. And I'm like,

It is cold. I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this. I literally like that nice scarf that I had, I bundled that up around me and I'm running with like a scarf around my neck. That's funny. I looked like an idiot. And you could tell when we were running through like the hill country of like the back end, cars were passing. I'm like, we'll stick out like sore thumbs. Like we just look like we do not belong here because I just looked like an idiot. So ran the two miles super quick, then came back. We were going to play pickleball, but we never really utilized the pickleball at the Airbnb because it was so cold. Yeah.

If it was summer, we would have definitely used it. But it was freaking freezing. And then we had breakfast. And by the time we were done with all that and going to the grocery store to get stuff for dinner later in the night, you guys showed up.

yeah and we went to lunch kind of like right after we got there um had to like change a little bit but then we went to lunch at a really cute place called hill and vine would recommend if you go to fredericksburg really great service also serving size insanely massive like big big serving size really good service like our waiter was really um

like really nice yeah we had so many questions and like he was kind of just putting up with their bullshit yeah i feel like it was so it was so funny because i was kind of giving him a little bit of shit for because like our friend next to us live was like asking a bunch of questions can i have me on the size can i have this this on the side can i substitute for this can i have thick bacon can you make it extra crispy i was like i just like was looking at him like don't worry like she's the only really complicated one everyone else here on out like just one thing go yeah

but we got lunch and it was so good like we were all so hungry it was just amazing got a mocktail it was all right oh yeah wait you got a mocktail what was it uh i don't know it was like ginger something mint it was called like a mint something but i got it was red and i was expecting it to be like clear like a mojito weird but i don't know what it was i just said do you know what cocktail would be good as a mocktail he was like i recommend whatever name it was and i was like okay

Yeah. I don't care. The plan was for the day to go from lunch to a winery. So I just knew going into it, I was like, I want to pace myself. And I was looking at the cocktail menu and they just s'mores like espresso martini. I was like, fuck, I really want that. But then right before that, I had agreed to the other girls that I was going to share a mimosa bucket with them. And I was like, dude, I'm literally...

Doing exactly the opposite of what I said last week on this podcast is I'm not going to do rounds with people. I'm going to go at my own pace. And I was like, fuck, like I just agreed to doing this bucket with them. But like, I want to go at my own pace. But I was like, you know, I'm at the bucket made sense. No, it did make sense. But in that moment, I was just like thinking to myself, like, I don't want to have to like keep up or like,

With people like if we stayed there or if we kept doing like if I bought the bucket and the next time they bought round Whatever it was like we did split it but at the end of the day just like I need to stop I just needed my own pace my own drinks my own like even if it's gonna be more expensive Down the road it will be better for me if I just drink on my own pace. So we got the mimosa Bucket it wasn't even that bad. We both got

We all got two drinks out of it, which was fine. And then the boys got a bottle of white wine. And when the white wine came out, they poured it. And then they realized they brought out the wrong bucket of wine.

white wine so then the waiter brought out another bucket of the correct white wine so then we had an extra bucket of white wine and we're like fuck like we have to drink this but it was so gross it was sparkling white wine i don't even know what it was but it was not anything good and we all got our food and honestly really didn't like i got like a little bit of buzz there but not too bad like two mimosas is not like y'all y'all were

Like noticeably drunk when we were leaving. I mean, yeah, drunk, but not like borderline. Like I'm like, I need to stop. No, no, not that you need to stop. But y'all were like on one when we were leaving. Because we went to a winery.

and then we show up i think it's because like these places like because it was cold they're not doing outdoor stuff like in the summer this place would have like a million seats yeah but no one wants to fucking sit outside so it's all indoors and they're like we don't have any tables and we're like oh well fuck us then like we whatever so like whole fucking fiasco what do we do and it was like well we could just go back to the airbnb and relax and

yeah which i'm so happy we did because thinking about it the next day it was nice i was like we didn't spend any fucking money like i love that the fact that we like had a good time it was a weekend of drinking and all i did was spend 40 on my lunch and two mimosas like that was amazing it was fun and it's also because like we didn't pay for the airbnb so it's not like we paid for this trip to not do anything like we basically just got to hang out in a

different nice setting house yeah like we just got to like do something fun like go somewhere new it's nice too because when you're with friends like that and like a small compact airbnb living together we just all like you bond you learn so much about people even though we already know so much but there's one friend in our friend group that just moved here my boyfriend's best friend from high middle school to high school moved here too and they're roommates now so like

My boyfriend's always known him, so he fit into our friend group really easily. But it's like we're still learning about him, and that was the perfect trip for us to learn more about him, him learn more about us. It was really nice. Yeah, I feel like now I feel kind of like...

pretty tight with him out of a lot of the boys. Yeah. Yeah. A hundred percent. We like did the weekend. It was just fun. It was nice and wholesome playing games. I'm kind of glad we didn't go to the wineries too because not drinking like being at a winery. I love a winery. I'm not gonna lie though. If we went to that winery I would have been

on my fucking ass yeah no for sure but like i just love a winery so i know like not wine tasting would have like yeah just hit me in the heart that's my favorite thing to do it just would have like hit me in the heart so at home it was totally fine like the not drinking wasn't even i wasn't like oh i want to drink we're just home yeah so we had stuff that we were planning on doing for dinner we just wanted to like cook and we

We did frozen meatballs, spaghetti, tailor-made a salad. Garlic bread. Yeah, garlic bread. We had... Caprese. Appetizers. Yep. We had it all, dude, now that I'm thinking about it. Well, because we go to the grocery store, me and...

her boyfriend's friend. He's like, fuck it. Like, cause I was going to Instacart food. There's a whole fucking fiasco cause he wanted more wine. And I was like, it's not going to come to like six, whatever. We're going back and forth about fucking Instacart. He's like, let's just go right now. Me and you will just go. I'm like, you know what? You're so right. Because it's literally only going to take a few minutes. Yeah. It's literally five minutes down the road. So like we just went, I was like, they're not even gonna notice we're gone. We leave. I noticed he's no, yeah. Notice. But like, we'll be back. So thank you for noticing. You miss me. Yeah. Good.

Um...

This man was efficient in the grocery store. Dude, he, I'm not even kidding. Like he is the best when it comes to like cooking, cleaning, being on his shit. He's on his fucking shit. He got that grocery run done. Like he was moving fast. And let me tell you, being slow in like a store or something really fucking grinds my gears. Like, and he was on it. Yeah. I was like, oh, oh, like I was like, we are moving. He was like, we should do like the tomato and like mozzarella. I was like, oh, okay. I was like, I feel like we have a lot of food. Like it was one night for like six of us.

I was like, I feel like it's going to be so much. He's like, no, let's just get it. And I was like, so like no salad if we're doing this? He's like, no, salad too. And I was like, one bag? He's like, two bags. I was like, okay. Dude, boys with the portion sizes drives me nuts. I was like, he was like, we need like garlic bread. I'm like, yeah, facts. And we need like these chips, whatever.

i needed an lollipop whatever so we like got all that we got wine but the wine though he got like two bottles i was like you might need a third like bottles of wine go quick yeah it's like four glasses i'm like two bottles might not be enough you might need three we were fucking in and out of that grocery store yeah the thing is though with boys and portion sizes they don't understand it i did the same thing when i went to the grocery store that morning with my boyfriend and i'm like there's only six of us and he's like i was like grabbing one box of pasta he goes no we need more i go i go

I go, no, we don't. There's six of us and there's gonna be a lot of other food. We don't need more. And then also with like, just like anything else. I was like, no, like this is the amount we need. And then the marinara sauce, we got like this massive tub and I'm like, we just don't need this much. He's like, no, we do. I'm like that too though. Cause my family's like that. Yeah. But so then we finish later that night and he looks at me and goes, you were right. I go, thank you. Trust me with this one. Next time. My family for every single gathering, are we going to have enough food? Are we going to have enough food? There's always food.

food for the next week yeah available like we could not and i told my mom i was like from now on whatever we're about to buy by half of what you were yeah because we just get so much the thing is when it's like at your house it's fine because you have leftovers for the week but we're at an airbnb we don't have to be like wasting all this shit like yeah but whatever it was still fine we like went in the hot tub we played a lot of games we were playing like

truth or dare dude we played that so long so long i kind of stopped and then live was like are we not playing the game i was like oh we'll still play the game yeah no it's fun like the dirty questions that we were asking each other are so funny yeah sam let the dirty shit rip yeah no and then i'm sitting on my boyfriend's lap and like he's like he's like squeezing me he's like that's not what i thought you were about to say what do you think i was gonna say that i like farted on him

gonna say that because i said you were saying dirty stuff i thought you're gonna say you were sitting on your boyfriend's lap and you were feeling no no but like we were like pinching each other because like we knew certain things we were saying we're pissing each other off so i was like shut the fuck up shut the fuck up yeah they were stirring the pot hard like the dirty like dirty ass questions like what's an example of something that was asked uh i don't know but like just example if it was like

if it was just like, what's your body count? I'd be like, what's your body count? Like her boyfriend. Yeah. How many? Yeah. I'm like, yeah, tell us, tell the world, tell the class.

oh, oh, this was a good one. I was like, how many rooms in your house have you had sex in? Because obviously, you know, the ones you've had and like he's lived there before you started dating. So I was like, what rooms? Yeah. Yeah. Have there been any other rooms that you've had sex in that I'm not aware about? Yeah. I'm just like, say it. And then another one. Answer. Another one was the, no, I think Dave asked this or no, the question was to him of like,

something about like or no we were just talking about like girls finishing like yeah the frequency of that and i was like i was like yeah i i do all the time like every time like and i looked at him i go yeah is that like common like that like like in your past like i'm just like it was just like so funny like airing out everything because it was just like free game like all the conversations it really didn't matter what it was like

Yeah, it was fun. It was a lot of fun. And then like in the hot tub, the hot tub felt so nice, but it wasn't hot enough.

wait it wasn't hot enough yeah you were freezing it was because you weren't drunk like we were all drunk so we were fine like i was totally fine but you were like i'm freezing i'm like getting in i was like holy shit it's so hot and they're like it's not that hot but just like my skin was so cold oh yeah out there for a long time that like the shock of my really really cold like leg yeah going in the hot water like burned yeah it was so like the shock of the temperature but then i was like oh my god it's literally not hot enough in here no yeah i remember you sitting down in the corner and being like

Like it's not hot enough. I go, what's the time you go like one Oh four, one Oh four. I go, Taylor, that's the highest you can go. I know it just like wasn't doing it for me. Yeah. But we ended up finding out not until the next morning that they must have shocked that hot tub the day we got there because my skin, the two nights I went in the hot tub both nights, my skin getting out of that hot tub was so fucking itchy that

Non-stop unless I showered. So the first night I showered and I showered not the best ability that I could have not knowing that I was going to be itchy the rest of the night moving forward. So then Saturday night when I went back into the hot tub, I knew that I needed to double cleanse myself in that shower and I did that and I wasn't itchy, but I

The next morning, I realized it completely destroyed my bathing suit. It destroyed my bathing suit, too. My neon orange bathing suit was now brown. It destroyed my bathing suit, too. Mine was a pretty blue color, and it just totally faded the blue color in random spots. I just threw it away. It was free, so I was like, you know what? Mine was like an expensive bat. It was probably expensive. It was a poutine bathing suit, and I really liked that bathing suit, but it was...

like the color was fucked yeah it's like it's just not worth it i got um i brought mine home i still have mine it's destroyed but i'm gonna try bleaching it and seeing what happens because like it's already destroyed if i'm gonna destroy it even more and like the bleaching doesn't go well then so be it looks ombre

it yeah but it hasn't dried yet to ombre brown no i gotta see what it looks like now after it dried because it was still wet when i was like holding it and showing it to you guys but yeah it was just kind of fucked it really did like i was so itchy that first night which luckily i wasn't but then one of my friends yesterday texted me and she goes i'm still itchy like what do i do i go girl you need to scrub in that shower like scrub your entire body because that's the only way it's like gonna come out yeah it was definitely tough and we had a pretty early night

yeah i was in bed by nine and you know what it's funny because me and taylor are the grandmas of the friend group all our other friends like they go crazy they like staying out super late they'll go out like three times in a weekend like we just don't and so i was a little bit worried that when i was like oh i want to go to bed they're gonna be like of course you do but everyone was like yeah i'm on the same page let's go to bed i'm like oh thank fucking god because like i just i can't stay up any longer my eyes are rolling in the back of my head because it was one of those like

It's a vacation for rest. Like, we're here to chill. We don't need to lose sleep. We don't need to lose sleep. Except I did lose sleep because my room was kind of like a loft. Didn't really have a door. So it was kind of open to the house. Like 2.40 in the morning. I swear to God, I think someone is breaking into the house because the like...

clang of things I'm hearing. I'm like, the front door is being busted open. We're gonna die. Someone is breaking into the house. But then I keep hearing and I hear the fridge and I hear ice. Guys, Sam's boyfriend is getting water. The loudest I've ever heard a human being in a kitchen ever. Like, I've never heard someone make that much noise getting water. Like,

I think he slammed like 10 cabinets. The ice was in like trays. He's popping out all the ice. It's Sam's steel water bottles. Like the ice hitting the steel. He's like shaking it. Shaking it. Shaking the ice and the steel. Like making so much noise. And I'm like, who is this? Who is... Like, I'm gonna kill him. Like, I'm literally gonna kill him. This is so loud. And then I hear a can open. And he loves poppy. So I knew it was him. Yeah. That's the only can we had in the fridge, by the way. There was no other cans besides poppies. Yeah. I was like...

this motherfucker of course it's him because that's the only person i knew would open a poppy at three in the morning by then because it was like a good five or ten minutes of clanging yeah so i was like the next morning i literally was like you were getting water at three in the morning he's like yeah i was like did you have to make that much goddamn fucking noise like do you think you're gonna break the house down i was like can you drink a poppy at three in the morning he's like i wanted something sweet yeah dude so he was like

tossing and turning like going like making it like Like so many sounds in the bed and I was like what the fuck he was keeping me up for like 45 minutes and then finally he gets out of bed and he goes to fill up my water bottle that he crawled over me and like across me to grab and

and walks out there and i'm like at this point i'm like wide awake so then i'm like looking through the bed trying to find my phone and i look at the phone and i see it's three in the morning i'm like this fucker and he comes back into the room and he gives me a kiss and his breath just stinks of fucking poppy classic cola and i'm like do you just drink a fucking poppy out there he goes yeah i go it's

the morning why do you need a poppy he goes i have caffeine in them don't yeah yes 32 milligrams and i go why would you do that he goes i just need something sweet like said same thing and i was like oh my god and i just like roll her i go just don't fucking talk to me right now i was like i need to go back and our other friend like he was sleeping on the couch in like kitchen living room area like same room so i was like did you hear that he's like yeah i heard obviously i heard it i'm like it was so loud he's like yeah i'm glad you said something it was like really loud i'm like you

Like, no, I thought we were getting broken into. I thought someone was breaking the door. I just don't understand what was going through his brain in that moment. I want to be as loud as humanly possible and wake everyone else up. He probably did. Yeah. Like, I hope everyone comes down here to like hang out. Yeah. Cause he was up for like an hour. Yeah. He was probably like, maybe like Dave will wake up. Yeah. So fucking weird. No, it was like, it was like actually like I was going to kill him. Um,

um but then we had like a pretty early like start early start to which we went to bed at nine so why wouldn't we yeah everyone was up and out and ready to go you know straightened up went to go get breakfast

um and everything was kind of just like little diners so we found this one and the little the thing said best food i've ever had and i'm like i don't know if this random little diner connected to a motel is going to be the best food i've ever had but this place has the most reviews yeah stars so i guess we'll go here like if this is the best food you've ever had you're living under a rock right like i don't i don't really think so

But we all just like chow the fuck down. Yeah. They had like a big ass...

I was like, no, it's good. It's just like best food I've ever had. Yeah. I just got like a plain ass omelet with bacon in it. Like it was, we got an omelet and then I got a side of pancakes. Yeah. Like it was just like any other diner food, which I did really like. So we had to sit outside, but the outside was covered and heated, which was nice. And we got hot coffee, which I never usually get hot coffee, but I had hot coffee the morning before that because it's,

There was a Keurig machine, so I was like, you know what? I don't feel like going out and buying a coffee. Just make a hot coffee here. But I didn't realize that it was endless refills. Yeah, when you get hot coffee at a restaurant... Like, when you want coffee, you can either get an $8 fucking latte or unlimited coffee for $2. Why is that the difference? Like, why do they do that? Because hot coffee is, like, free. They brew non... Like...

They brew coffee all day long. But why do they do that? Why do they willingly give free refills? Because it costs them nothing. It's like water. That's just like standard.

I was mind blown. It's like bringing like bread to the table. Like the water, coffee costs them like nothing. Dude, one of the waiters came over, filled up all of our cups and then not even 10 seconds later, another girl comes over and asks if we want refills. And I was like, I was like, really? I'm going to crack out right now. Maybe you might even shit my pants. I don't know. Yeah. That's one time. I forget that every restaurant place has that.

um because it's just my instinct to order like brown sugar latte for like nine dollars that's my instinct and i was at breakfast one time and i was like fuck do i want to pay for like a fucking like ten dollar coffee right now then i was with someone that just got coffee yeah hot coffee and i was like

bro i forgot i could do that i was like i forget that you could just get the free coffee did you you you called up my boyfriend when um he goes i'm gonna get an americano oh yeah because he's just turning into like a little me it's so funny he's like can i get an americano i was like you drink americanos because sam drinks americanos he's like no what are you talking about i'm like yeah okay bud okay

But anyways, he goes, I'm going to get an Americano. I go, I'm sorry. I hate to bring it to you, but this is not the place that looks like they have an espresso machine. Yeah. They do not have those fancy machines. Yeah, literally. But yeah, after breakfast, we literally just went back to the Airbnb, cleaned up and headed home. Headed home. And then from the rest of the day, we were just kind of chilling. I was so fucking tired. I was so tired too, but I had to go to the gym.

75 hardin' it but then I went to Trader Joe's saw my ex-boyfriend's friends in Trader Joe's told them to tell him say hi yeah say tell him hi that I still love him and tell that girl that posted that selfie with him that I'll kill her just spread the word yeah that was pretty much it for my weekend didn't really do anything else except I watched that documentary that you guys have to watch

Yeah, I totally forgot that I wanted to mention this, but on Thursday night, this is a... Like, shout out to any girl that lives in Austin, Texas listening to the podcast right now. If you are looking for a run club in Austin...

Unfortunately right now this run club that I went to on thursday only does it once a month Hopefully down the road, maybe they'll do it more than once a month But either way, it's once a month and it's a great way to make make friends make running friends Exchange phone numbers have just running pals if you ever need it It's your mother's run crew in austin. They did it first time this past month and they're gonna do it next month But it was so much fun. There was like over like 50 to 60 girls that showed up and it

it was a five mile loop, three mile loop, and then a walking crew. And it was just so nice. I've never gone to a run club and just talked the entire time I was running. And I did that and exchanged numbers with a bunch of the girls. It was funny. I was actually running with a bunch of you guys listening to this. And, um, it's just funny. Cause like they, they act like they don't like know who I am at first. And then I'm like, Oh yeah, that,

And they're like, at the end, they're like, oh my God, like, I love yourself. I'm like, so this whole time you just knew why? I was like, I was like, oh God. But anyways, so it's just, it was a lot of fun and I loved meeting you guys out there. And I ran five miles for the first time, which was insane. Like,

I was on a runner's high like hit that five miles and I wanted to run six seven more like I just I wanted to keep going so I'm gonna go on a run club again this week and do five miles again and I think I'm just gonna continue every Wednesday do five miles because I want to make it easier and easier and easier for myself amazing so yeah check it out it's on I posted a reel on Instagram and I tagged their Instagram in my caption so check that out and if you guys go

Please make sure you say hi to me at the next meetup because I love chatting with you guys. Yeah. Okay, now let's get juicy. Juicy. So I wanted to, I pulled up the definition of hookup culture. Yeah. So hookup culture refers to a culture built on the approved practice of being, approved practice of engaging in hookups or sexual encounters between two or more individuals where it's understood that commitment, relationships, and emotional feelings are not expected at all.

And that like hooking up is replacing traditional dating. I don't think that's true. I don't think that's true either. I don't see like an incredible amount of hookup culture. I don't either. But also I'm when we talk about this right now, I'm referring to like the girls end of it. Oh, yeah. No boys are little like their end in their perspective of hookup culture is way different than what I'm going to be like talking about with the hookup culture. Yeah.

But I feel like hookup culture has a time and place and you can use it to your advantage in a good way. Yeah, I would say for me, I'm not a huge hookup culture person because I just like I've never had a one night stand really. And it's just like not like...

It's just a personal thing. Like, I kind of, like, wish... Not, like, wish I was, but, like, I don't know. Like, one, I don't have many people that ask me to have sex with them all the time. Yeah, no. I probably could find them. They're everywhere. But, like, I guess... Boys are... I think also situations you put yourself in. Yeah. Like, I don't think I put myself in a lot of situations where people think I'm going to have sex with them. Yeah. If that makes sense. So, like, I just don't find myself in those situations often. And, like, I'm just...

like a relationship person and I only enjoy having sex if it's someone that I feel even something for even if I don't have feelings for them but like I've hooked up with people that were just like a friend like I have to be comfortable with you in some way yeah like some sort of comfortableness to enjoy it or else I'm literally not going to enjoy it and have no benefit to me yeah my thing with the hookup culture is I was single for five years before now dating my boyfriend and I think it came in like spritz of like

Being out in the town and like hooking up with a guy and that is it. But I realized I needed to experience that to realize that I hate it. Like, honestly, like, and then that's honestly how I started hooking up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend now is because I realized hookup culture just wasn't something that made me feel comfortable.

Good about myself, but it's also not to the point where like anyone should ever beat themselves up about it Like if you put yourself in that position of you're doing the hookup culture You're hooking up with a bunch of guys. Don't beat yourself up for it because

There's no reason to feel... You can feel icky about it. I definitely felt icky about it, but just don't beat yourself up too badly about it. Well, there's two different things. If you feel icky about it and you don't like it, stop doing it to please men. If you're doing it to please men, like you talk to someone at a bar and you think you have to sleep with them and you find yourself sleeping with people and you don't want to, stop. But I also know a lot of people... One of my friends is very sexually open and she enjoys that. And if you are like... If you like it and you see no harm...

I don't see anything wrong with having sex with people...

just for the sole purpose of having sex with people some people like hookup culture is so bad and i don't think it's bad unless you're letting it control you yeah like i think it's just painted that like obviously guys typically want it more like we said i'd say overwhelmingly but there are some girls that are also into it like not every girl's just a victim yeah some people just want to and i think the hookup culture is where you kind of realize what you like and what you don't like like sleeping with like different men seeing what they do in bed like just like

You learn so much about yourself through that and what you do and don't like. And that's why, honestly, like I didn't like it. Didn't really enjoy it too much. Didn't feel like the best about myself. But that is why I was able to find my boyfriend and find that sneaky link. And I found someone that I could consistently hook up with and not feel disgusting about myself. Yeah. I also just have way too big of a fear of like...

having a complication like getting pregnant yeah but like yeah i don't get how people do it because my anxiety can't do that so props to y'all no anxiety girls that can just live their life that way i can't it freaks me out and i don't think for like what i see obviously we're talking more in like a post-grad life a college i think it's different college like everyone's just like sleeping with everyone all the time but in more of this case i don't see hookup culture just like replacing dating

like I feel like all everyone we know like even that like have slept with a lot of people right now they're like way more they like don't yeah like every time we go out it's like every time we go out the guys we know are sleeping with someone no like no not at all I feel like they maybe did a lot in like college or like sometimes I'm saying they never do but I don't think it's replacing dating at all not at all because also think about it

In college, yeah, hookup culture is definitely a little bit higher. But these kids are in college, so they can't really afford to be taking girls out on a date. So it's just like... Come over. Yeah, it's just come over, hang out, whatever. Well, and it's the first time people are alone. You have a whole house to yourself with no parents. You can bring girls over and do shit with them all you want. You're just feral in college. You're feral. It just is what it is. And you just want to be cool. But I don't see... I wouldn't say right now I see a ton of hookup culture. I feel like it's very...

I mean, I guess there is, but I feel like hookup culture is such an extreme. People just are allowed to have sex without liking someone. But all the people that we know that hook up or if someone ever tells me to sleep with someone, they like the person a little bit. Yeah. We don't see a lot of people having sex with random people. It's very rare. It is very rare. In our society.

Maybe because in Austin everyone knows everyone. It's hard for someone to be random. Yeah, my thing with the whole hookup culture is that I feel like the girl is always the one that needs to be in control with it.

Like if you are in control with the situation and you know that you are literally going into that night as a one night stand and maybe even if yeah it's a one night stand but you do see potential in the guy like you're self-aware and you know like you have the control of where the next step will go with that person. Yeah only have one night stands because you don't want to see them again. Yeah. Not because they don't want to see you again. Yes. Like you have to like you have to be the one that

knows what page you're on. I think a lot of girls put themselves in situations and I see this is when I say a lot of girls, I'm saying what I see through like TikTok and story times and things like that. That's where I'm getting this information or our friends actually. Yeah. Our friends, they hook up with guys. I don't give a shit about them and you need to be self-aware to know if that's something that you can do.

You need to know that about yourself. Yeah. Like, you can't lie to yourself and be like, oh, I'm just gonna have sex with him, but I don't care. When you care a lot, like, you care a lot and you care deeply and it's gonna be the center of your life for the next year because you hooked up with this dude, you can't be doing that. Especially to... Like, you have to know. The bedroom is such an intimate and special place that, like, girls become so vulnerable in those states that...

You just need to be so self-aware knowing that, hey, this man, like maybe even just remind yourself, hey, this man might be hooking up with another girl tomorrow. Like you never know. So just going into that kind of knowing that and having no expectation puts you ahead for two weeks down the road and you end up hearing about him hooking up with another girl.

Because you don't want to hurt yourself of like, oh my God, I'm hooking up with him hoping that maybe next week he'll bring me on a date. But then you end up hearing that he's just hooking up with another girl. Like you don't want to hurt yourself. So just being self-aware and being in control of the situation to protect yourself. And also asking people things. If you think you are mature enough to be hooking up with people casually and multiple people, then you also need to be mature enough to literally ask them questions.

if they're hooking up with other people yeah the last time they hooked up with someone like i don't know ask them questions that are important like if they're hooking up with other people to me that's important i don't like sleeping people that are like sleeping with people at the same time i don't like that like at least give it like a few weeks in between like i don't want to like if you hooked up with one friday don't hook up with me saturday yeah like can you hook up with me like next weekend like we don't even be same weekend like i just don't want to like

at least just like tell me and if like that's not your vibe that's fine we don't have to like and it's like no hard feelings like we just not not my vibe like you just have to be able to like ask people yeah or like just like kind of catch the like sometimes there's things that you don't have to directly ask but you can yeah especially unless you're like someone that hooked up with me and asked me and just lied yeah also with like the one night stand thing like i feel like

If you want to just hook up with someone and not have any strings tied to it, that's your best bet. It's just finding someone out that night because you don't necessarily really know their name. Well, obviously, you're going to know their name if you're going to exchange and have a conversation. But you just don't know the history of this person, so you're better off just like if you want no strings attached, the one-night stand being someone that you met out that night rather than it being like a friend of a friend or...

a friend in your friend group. Like you just don't want a one night stand to be someone that you have in your close circle or outside the close circle. Or like when it comes to friends and people in your close circle, like I've done the like hook up with a friend like thing. You have to, again, self-aware. Like is it actually going to mess up your friendship or like is it not? And like it's a risky game you're going to play.

for me like it didn't really impact like it was very casual and like very chill it's obviously gonna eventually impact a friendship when someone like gets a boyfriend or something yeah that's kind of always the the downfall because they might get a psycho girlfriend um but like you have to be self-aware like you can't pretend that you like them if you like you don't like them if you do you can't be doing that because i know you're putting all your friends in a bad situation yeah like

I don't know. Like, I couldn't be like, oh, yeah, I don't care. And then, like, come crying to my friends. Like, this guy doesn't care about me. Like, you know. I agree. I think it's also knowing you have to start every guy at, like, zero. I think a lot of girls, like...

Which, like, I'll say, but, like, I'm half kidding. Like, I'll always say, like, he's in love with me, he's obsessed with me. But, like, I'm not being, like, dead-ass serious. I think a lot of girls, like, really are dead-ass serious. Like, oh, my God, like, he's perfect, he's in love with me. And then, like, when they're not, they're really disappointed. Like, you need to start that man at zero. And, like, he can build his way up to, like, having, like, points. But, like, you can't have him in your head as, like, the most perfect, amazing, in love with you person.

like no flaws because then when he has sex with you and doesn't call you for three days then you're gonna be heartbroken but if in your head he was like nobody loser literally me with my boyfriend literally and like you're the exception you guys started dating and now he's like in love with you but like if you put them up there then you're gonna be disappointed if there are nobody then you'll be fine where the fuck did i found it

And like if a guy is just hooking up with you and like never taking you out or never texting you like he doesn't like you. Yeah. He doesn't like you. And also if you are trying to find a boyfriend and like you're ready for that stage of your life. Why are you in the hookup culture scene? You know? Yeah. If you're trying to find a boyfriend, you need to be like exclusively talking to people or like not like switching off people like all the time and being in this whole thing. Yeah. You can't do that.

I've never started a relationship being in that scene of, like, multiple people. I've also, like, never been in that scene. This year might be my year for that, but also probably not. It's just not me. Like, I just... I'm just not... I'm not very, like, confident sexually. In bed? Mm-hmm. Why? Not, like, not confident. I'm asking why in a weird way because I'm like, I don't know if you want to talk about it. No, like, not, like, not confident in bed, but it's, like, I just...

I don't know. Like to me, like you said, it's just very vulnerable. It is. Like I don't like being with random people unless I'm,

absolutely wasted, which is not good. Yeah, definitely not good, Taylor. Which is not good. But it's like, I can't, like, it's just like a, like, it's like I'm not going to enjoy it unless I'm, like, really relaxed. Oh, well, obviously, like, any other person. Yeah, but it's like some people are just, like, like, some people can have sex with random people and, like, it's worth it and they enjoy it. Like, they wanted to and they enjoy it. I've only... I can't do that. Like, I don't know if this is, like, too much information, but, like, I've never...

Like finished with a like one night stand or just a one time person. I was prepared to have a one night stand in Nashville. Yeah. You can. Some people would say that's like kind of. But like we did like some stuff. We didn't have sex. To me, that would have been a one night stand. And I was actually like.

down to do that because I did fall in love with him. Yeah. But that, and I still am to this day, if you're listening to this, like he's not listening to this Taylor. If anyone knows who it is, get this his way. Yeah. Right. Sends him the link me. You would. Yeah. Literally you wish. No. Yeah. Like this man, like I am in love with him and you know what? It's honestly good thing we didn't. Cause again, self-aware, like that would have literally been

ripped me no literally he would have never have texted you and you would have been bawling your eyes out yeah like that's that's the one that got away like she's never even hung out with this man sober i was pretty sober like once it was nighttime a lot of hours okay nothing with the sunlight up she's never hung out with him with the sunlight up is what it like when you know you know she knows at our wedding you can you know what we need to do we're gonna go to nashville again oh my god i love

you're gonna find your husband in nashville yeah him i don't think he lives there anymore let's go let's plan it i love nashville all right but no i didn't mean like him specifically but you'll find your husband yeah hopefully the girl can dream yeah i hope i actually find someone that lives in nashville because you know what i actually do want now is like a long distance relationship really yeah after doing that for yeah you know why because i was the only one that could travel

yeah like that i can't fucking do we're only one it has to be me yeah like you get on a plane that's crazy of you that is so crazy i can't believe that just came out of your mouth now that i'm thinking about it i was the only one that can travel no that you want it you're looking for a long-distance relationship no hear me out i didn't realize like when you're in a long-distance relationship bro you have so much time and independence like i was in a long-distance relationship here like on the weekends like

I didn't have to see my boyfriend. I could do anything I wanted. But like you had a boyfriend and like that, and like if it's a long distance relationship where you're both more, can see each other more, we could see each other more than me and my last long distance boyfriend. Like we'd go months. Like if you did like a twice a month or once a month, like slay, slay. Like the, this is crazy of you to say. Yeah. But you, the thing is you can still have independence in your relationship. I could easily tell my boyfriend, Hey, I'm hanging out with the girls this weekend. No, no, no, no. But like, it was just like, I'm just like, damn, like it was kind of like,

the fucking move especially if they live in a place i like and i want to go to like if someone like dude the girls in the long distance relationships right now listening to this are literally like someone lived in miami and like once a month i could just see my boyfriend in miami like like i feel like i had my own separate like like i had i had literally my own life that like someone didn't even i don't know it was like kind of just like super sly and like i would listen to a

and like here and her boyfriend a long distance and i'm like yes this is what i say you do next time you're in a relationship just tell them hey i want to date you but i only want to see you two weekends out of the month and then you can like feel in like in yourself that it's long distance i don't know i just like can i think it's like it's like where i think my relationships thrive maybe i just get sick of people not even though because you want to crawl up that person like they're a fucking tree

yeah if i'm with them but if i'm not with you like you kind of like don't need to speak to me yeah i know i'm the same way yeah like if you're not within three feet of me like stop like why are you even calling me yeah like i don't care i don't know like i just kind of think like if i dated someone that lived in nashville like then i get to go to nashville all the time yeah it'd be sick

but sometimes your takes are so crazy that's why i have a podcast i know because what fun would a podcast be without being delusional take yeah we're supposed to get on the podcast and be like reasonable for an hour no that's lame that's so lame stupid um speaking of all of our topics i like put pinpoints down for like just things i want to talk about within hookup culture do you put anything else that you want to talk about

no that was kind of like my like stuff i was just gonna like go off you you know yeah dude um i know you already kind of talked about like the two people on a weekend you've never done that right no i've never done that because i am a saint and perfect so what am i a slut a fucking whore

No, yeah. Guys, I did do this once, but it was a Thursday and a Saturday. So it wasn't a Friday to a Saturday. So real. And I told you you should. Yeah, yeah. She told me I should. I told you you should. I for sure hyped it up. Yeah.

so and they were hot dude and both week and both times i slept at their house fully listen they were hot so i did walk of shame two times they were hot and also arguably some of the best people that you've been with yeah you're so right oh fuck i shouldn't say that cut it cut it cut it fuck dude i just got myself in trouble

No, you meant that are not your boyfriend. Yeah, not my boyfriend. You meant that are not your boyfriend. No, I know what you meant. You meant out of the people that you've like one night standing. Yes, yes, yes. That's what you meant. I know. It just sounds... But you meant out of your one night stand. Yeah. Not obviously the ones you picked to be your boyfriend. I know. You think are better than the people that you never texted again. Exactly. Obviously. I could never actually date those people. Obviously. Like...

holy fuck yeah no but it was a good time i think you needed it like i'll probably do it once no i won't are you gonna schedule without because i did it's not like i like predicted that i was gonna do that maybe let me oh i'll text my i'll text my people right now wanna wanna no i'm trying to fuck two guys this weekend are you down to be number one do you want to be one or two oh two perfect okay i'll put you for saturday or sunday let me know yeah

I've never... Yeah, that's crazy. I can't believe I did that. I think I know someone that had sex with two people in one night. No, people do that and that's nuts to me. That's crazy. Make sure you're wearing a condom, people, okay? If you're going to do that. That's crazy. And if you've done it, no judgment, but I am just like... I am in shock. I'm not going to lie. What? How do you do that? I'm in shock.

I don't know. I think it's also how do you find in one night two people like actually down like not just all talk like actually in the moment really down to sleep with you. Yeah. And like are you doing it back to back in an hour or are you doing it like the beginning of the night pregame type vibe and then postgame another person. That makes sense. Because I'm just not understanding how that can happen. Did you leave the bar at one sleep with someone till to get in an Uber go somewhere else at three. Yeah. Or did you do like I think the way you said makes sense.

yeah it makes more sense that way or in the same day let's say you go out friday you wake up in the morning with the oh and then later that night the person you have sex in the morning you go out saturday you hook up with someone else then you hooked up with two people on saturday damn see like i'm just like i can't tell in my head and be real if i'm judging or if i'm like

Just like, wow, how? How? I wish I could do that. Yeah, how? I can't tell if I'm judging or jealous. Yeah, I can't either. Because I'm like, I don't have that many people that want to have sex with me. No. No.

But then again, I'm not, like, making it known that I would, like, have sex with you. Like, it's definitely, like, I know I could. Like, when you're a girl. Yeah, dude, you could just stand there and the prey comes. But, like, how are you guys getting in that situation? I don't know, dude. It's so mind-boggling. If you have, can you, like, DM us your story time? Yeah, honestly, please. Because I want to know. How the fuck? Did you tell them? No, I wouldn't. But then what if you get pregnant? You don't know who's baby it is. Which, that's another thing. Let's talk about...

Getting tested real quick because y'all, if you're not getting tested at least once a year, please do so. I've never been tested, but my, well, I get, you get tested at the, for certain things that the guy know, but my body count is not even double digits. So yeah, but still, you don't know.

Yeah, I guess I don't know. But you get tested for some things at the gyno. Yeah. But yeah, my body count is not even... Remember that one time I got tested because I was so scared that I had like an ingrown hair on my vagina that I thought I had an STD? Yeah, she didn't tell me. I know, I didn't tell her. I literally... I scurried out of the house and went to go...

to the labs to get tested and got my blood work taken and then the next morning I was like, Taylor, I need to tell you something. Yeah, she's like, you know how I said I went to Target? I'm like, yeah. She's like, I thought I had an STD. I was like, what? And it came back negative and it was just an ingrown hair. We are all good. I'm like, probably should have told me. I probably would have just told you it was fucking ingrown hair, but...

okay glad you got tested but yeah yeah that's uh that was like most recently that was like the last time i got tested and like ever since then it's been my boyfriend so i'm like i don't need to get tested ever ever ever ever again because i'm marrying that man i hope you do oh god he thinks i'm fucking crazy

But then you're going to have a life of 3 a.m. poppies. Oh, no. I told myself when I move into my new house February 12th, I am not supplying poppy in my house. Why would you do that? Because he drinks them all. Hide them. I'm going to hide them. Yeah, you're so right. Keep them like...

in the pack like in your trunk or something yeah or i just every time i want to buy one it's like a treat i buy one i'll have so many at my house are you lucky my fridge is gonna have so many guys i need to sign the lease like yeah which actually speaking of i've been doing a lot of house updates on tiktok so make sure you guys are following me on there i am currently under contract on a

a home right now and I am in the option period. So the option period is basically my last week of being in full decision of if I want to move forward with this house because we're doing the inspection and they're doing like anything that I need them to fix within the home before I fully put my full fucking payment down. So yeah, exciting things. Very exciting. I think I found the apartment. Like I said, I just have to sign the lease. I'm just...

i just need to do it and like get it over with and i love it it's like furnishing it is going to be fun content even though it's very small so it's not going to be that much furniture yeah but it's still going to be cute and i'm very excited i went on pinterest last night and like saved save things i love pinterest for that yeah i um on thursday is thursday is the official day of like i'm basically like owner of the house and i get to do my walkthrough and all like last steps so exciting and so fun you got to come over but i don't know when that's gonna be i know

I can't wait to have an apartment downtown. I know. It's going to be so much better making plans and being more friends, not roommates.

It's just going to be like... It's so sad though because I've said like this is the last time I'm going to live with a friend. I know. Like living with a friend era is just... Like that whole phase of life is just... Over. Over. Which is like obviously it's like... It's not in a negative way but it's just like... Oh, like that era of life is just like done now. Yeah. I think the thing is I'm not super upset about it because I'm so excited for my next chapter. Yeah, I'm not really upset about it. It's more just like a... Like...

Yeah. I don't know. Like when you like graduate high school, it's just like, oh, like that era like is over. It's just done. Like I'm not going to do that again. Like all that, like, like the fun time of like living with like, even like not even with you, like college roommates that are girls, like just like living with girls and like in general, it's just like, it's just done. I know. But I mean, I'm just like, it's going to be so, I'm going to feel like such an adult. Honestly, I'm just going to feel like a city gal. Yeah. City girl era. I'm going to feel like an adult too, though. Like,

it's just gonna be a big flex of mine that like it feels nice to be like no i live on my own like i don't have a roommate like i'm grown like you know like oh you can come over to my apartment no one else is there yeah like with like boys or something like it's not like oh my roommate's like no oh yeah like like no more having to like check of like oh my god like are you home like i gotta like which we never did that but like no but like i don't know she's like no one's

yeah like with my like ex-boyfriend it was like he didn't like to go to his place like when all his roommates were there it's like obviously it wasn't like that for us because like that didn't matter but like literally no one's at my place yeah i can do whatever i think anything i want but also that might make me be more reckless in terms of bringing home guys because it's not like you'd be there in the morning to like judge me for but you would you have such a big mouth that you would tell me anyway so it's what you're not hiding anything but telling you is different than in the moment being like

There's someone here. You know, anxiety is flowing. There's someone here. Yeah. Yeah. Like, I could just do anything I want. You can. Interested to see how this year is going to unfold for the two of us. I'm so excited. More you, though. I mean, so far I lost my job, but I've been applying to so many jobs. Dude, yeah. Speaking of, 2024 is just fucking hitting us in the fucking face with all these negative fucking things. Like, what is going on?

I'm like, if anyone else has entered 2024 getting fucking bricks thrown at them, you're not alone. The only way it goes up. Yeah. You know, I lost my job now. I can still take on the whole year. I posted like 2024 was supposed to be my year. Like so fucking annoying. And someone's like, maybe you needed to lose this job for it to be your year. Yeah. You need to lose jobs. You're going to get like the best job ever and like make like double the money. And like it is going to be your year. Yeah. It wouldn't have been if you had that job. I'm like, yeah, I know. But like still. Yeah.

I didn't need a better paying job. Obviously, I would like if I got a better paying job, but I didn't need it. I was... It's just unnecessary obstacles that are... I was fine. I was fine. Yeah. So, you know, yeah, it's just like God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Yeah. Sure, let's think about it that way. Yeah. Yeah.

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