Bradley Martyn | Gym crush advice
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Hey guys, what's up? Happy day after Thanksgiving, but we are recording on Thanksgiving right now. Yeah, we are. I'm sitting in my bed with like a little microphone and ready to go. Yeah, we're both like, I'm like dressed, like hair curled, makeup on. I'm leaving here in probably like 30 minutes to go like with my family, but we're doing it. No days off. I'm pretty hungover. I went out last night and I went to like my hometown bar and

It was good to see a bunch of people, but I'm surprised I even got like a leg day today. I went to the gym. I was like, wow, Sam, you usually don't go to the gym. That's very impressive actually. Yeah. I'm hitting legs tomorrow and I hope I'm very strong after the food. And I knew like, cause I get, when I get hung over, I get like super anxious, but I needed caffeine. I was like, there's no way I'm going to be able to make it through a full day of Thanksgiving with like socializing. If I don't have caffeine, I had a C4.

And I know, but in a good way, I knew myself. Like I know what my limits are. I drink it so slow. Like it took me two hours to finish it. Usually it takes me what, like 15 minutes. So it was good. I was fine. I got caffeine in my system. No anxiety. We're thriving. I did the opposite. I didn't have any energy drinks in my house. So I had a cup of coffee before my workout and I was going to buy one at the gym. And then I was like,

I'm just gonna, I'm just gonna go for it. We did back day. Um, I've been working out with David and I kill him. Like I've been doing my same workouts, like the same push. I always do like basically our same back day with the bent over row. Oh my God. Frigging demolish him.

Dude, David finally came up on my For You page on TikTok. Like, he finally came up. I've never seen him on my For You page. He comes up, and it's you two doing mini golf. And I comment. I thought you'd comment. Yeah, I was like, what the fuck? I want to be third wheeling at mini golf. This isn't fair. Yeah, we went mini golfing. It was really fun. 10 out of 10 recommend going mini golfing. It was actually fun. How were you? Were you good? I wasn't horrible. Last time we played, I was, like, really bad. I really wasn't that bad.

Yeah. I didn't do terrible, which was kind of surprising, but I'm not that good either. I'm pretty, I'm pretty average, but yeah. What else was I going to say? Yeah. I'm just waiting to leave right now and trying to stay kind of on track this weekend, this week. Oh, it's been so hard for me. I don't have a scale. I went grocery shopping and bought a lot because I don't want to eat out. Like I've been out every day since Saturday. Yeah.

I didn't eat out yesterday. I don't want to eat out. I'm not going to eat out today. I mean, like eating Thanksgiving food, but I'm not eating at a restaurant. And then I don't want to eat out tomorrow. Like I might go to the beach and I might bring like, okay. Okay. Meanwhile, I'm wearing a frigging puffer. God. Well, it's, it's honestly, I'm probably not going to be like in a bathing suit. We're probably just going to like,

chill chill yeah the high is like i mean the high tomorrow's 80 all right my high is probably like 32 damn it yeah so i might go on my way um which is fun oh guys i got a new tattoo

Oh, yeah, we didn't get to talk about that because it didn't. Yeah. I just realized I posted on Instagram and I forgot to post it. People were like, did it hurt? It hurt so bad. It's a butterfly on the top of my finger. It was so painful, like so painful. Did you put the video in your blog? Yes. I was going to say the vlog will be up on Sunday. Yeah, it really hurt so bad. I was literally just cracking up the whole time to like.

I distract myself from the fact you hurt so bad like I was like this is hilarious what I just got myself into this is so painful and the tattoo artist was like yeah I told you it was gonna hurt like really bad and I was like well we're doing it but I love it and I thought my family was gonna hate it but my grandma my grandma was like I love it it's so pretty and I was like I was like really because it's like it's on my hand like I feel like a hand is like a controversial like

tattoo spot because it's really like out there but she was like so nice I was like oh wait you all like it I was like I thought that I was gonna I thought you're gonna be like why would you do that but yeah I love it and I want to get more I almost got another one yesterday so don't know I'm someday when I have a sleeve every time I've gotten a tattoo it's been like over the summer so I think my next one probably won't be till summer and I'm like shredded but yeah no with everything with like in terms of bulking it's been so hard because like

The way I like go about food and like trying to track macros without being able to measure anything is like so hard because like I underestimate. Like if I'm like, I need 80 grams of oats in my breakfast in the morning, I'm like estimating, but I know it's so under, like, I know it's not over because like, I don't want to go over. So I'm like trying to get as close to 80, but then I'm like,

And this like applies to everything. Like my bone marrow butter when I'm taking a spoonful, my blueberries when I'm putting like literally anything when I'm trying to make food. It's just so hard and I know I'm under eating. Yeah, it's tough. I feel like I've been under eating too just because my snacks aren't all there. Like even if I grab a snack, it's not like normally we have like a few things at once and we have enough stuff to make like a really like high calorie like balanced snack. I don't have that. Yeah. I just feel like everything is a bit under. So I'm ready to kind of eat a lot of food today.

Yeah, no, I'm definitely excited. My workout hasn't been the best, but I mean, I've been like socializing when I go to the gym more than like actually getting a good workout in. I went to the gym with like a bunch of girls yesterday on Wednesday, which was a lot of fun. And then today I was just hungover and I was just like, this is just, I'm just here to be here. I had really good workouts. My benching was a little terrible. Like I felt kind of weak, but it wasn't too bad. But my workouts were like,

all pretty decent. Like, my back day today was really fun. I rushed through it. The girls from my gym are so damn strong. Like, Maddie, Angela, Danielle, if you guys are listening to this, literally, they were, like, repping out, like, 135, like, no one's issue. And I'm like... Well, for real. You guys...

for her bed no for badge and I'm like I look at Angela I'm like Angela do you need a lift off she's like no I'm like you don't need a lift off for 135 I was like do you at least want a spot she's like no I was like okay rude she's gonna be there for moral support what the heck that's it I know I'm just like one day one day get my strength back up I don't even know if I could do like a plate again it was just like just as being off like

Food being off, like, I can't. I can't do it. Yeah. 22 sets of three. I can't wait to be, like... I don't know. I like traveling, but I, like... I hate traveling. Unpopular opinion. I hate it. Like, I like being... No. No, I agree on that aspect. But, like, I like being, like...

I think it depends on the travel. I don't know. I like my family, but I would like much rather my whole family came to Austin. Yeah. And I was like still in my apartment. Like that, that would have been fine by me though. It's fine. It's just a lot. Like, it's so, I feel so all over the place, but we're, we're getting through it. I mean, I literally feel all over the place right now.

Oh, this podcast, guys, I almost had a horrible freak out because we recorded this one with Bradley at his place and we had to record it on an SD card. So we were in his studio. So he put an SD card. I had two SD cards at the time that both had different footage on them. And I had an SD card in my camera that I took home, but it didn't really cross my mind that the footage was on an SD card or not footage, but recording of the audio.

So randomly, I'm just sitting on the couch yesterday and I was like, oh my God, what if that SD card isn't the SD card with the podcast on it? And I was like, oh, oh my God, oh my God. And I like get the SD card and I put it in my phone and I was like looking, it had all these random folders. So I was like, okay, it's probably this one. Cause what are these folders? Like this, this is probably from his studio. Like, I don't know what this is. And I'm clicking through all of them. And I found one with like four recordings on it. And it was like all the mics and I was like, oh my God.

I was like, I literally was like, what, what, what do we do? Like, well, I was so scared. I literally, I was with David and I just got up and like went to my room and he's like, what's going on? I was like, I might not have the podcast for tomorrow and this has to be hard and I'm freaking out. But,

But I had... That would have ruined our friendship. Literally, I was very scared. I'm kidding. I was very terrified. We have it and we have the episode for you guys. This episode is basically just Bradley Martin giving you boy advice for your gym. Yeah. It's pretty funny. It's a goodie. Yeah, it's pretty funny. Just a little different. Something, you know, lighthearted, not so like educational, motivational. Yeah. Yeah.

We want all y'all to have the confidence you'll find your gym crush. Yeah, literally. So, oh, guys, merch still available. Oh, yeah, merch.

merch is still available um people are getting them already i know that's crazy i wasn't expecting i thought they were gonna do it in bulk and like ship them out but they're doing it by the order no you are getting yeah you guys will get them like asap so order it so you can get it you can give it to your friends for christmas whatever um we wear large and everything so it's big and oversized we get that question a lot um

yeah we have a large in everything I love it all so much and I think you guys will really like it too it's really soft really comfy and it's still available it's in the link in the box I think if I was wearing a small in any of the merch it would be skin tight on me yeah like the large is like small it is my dad was like I said I wear a large and he was like oh I ordered an extra large it's not gonna fit me and I was like I was like uh it might not because this large is kind of

Kind of small. Yeah, it's so weird. Yeah, so... Also be careful with washing it too. Hopefully it doesn't shrink. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, to be safe, I feel like I wash everything on like delicate. Yeah, me too. Yeah, so make sure you get the merch and we're at 19.9 on the Instagram. I feel like... I know. 100 more. I assume when this is out, it'll probably be 20.

Yeah. So be on the lookout for a big giveaway coming your way on the podcast page. Yes, definitely look out for that because that's going to be exciting when I'm really excited for it. So, I mean, with that, let's get into it. Okay. Hey guys, now we're here for the fun part of the podcast. We are in LA right now in the actual, actually in the raw talk studio, very professional compared to how we recorded earlier.

But we're here with Bradley Martin himself. Yes, I'm here. Hello. It's weird when there's no cameras. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, just us. Just audio podcasts. I mean, that's a thing that people do, so that's normal, too. Yeah, and this is our first time, like, doing it not in a studio. We'll just do it at, like, our kitchen counter or even earlier today. We did it in the air mattress. We were just sitting on the air mattress with our mic. Do you guys, like, record it on your phone or something, like audio?

No, we have mics connected to our laptop. And then you have mics, headsets, like the whole thing, but it's just connected to our laptop. Okay. Yeah. It's going to get one day. One day we will have it. It's actually not that complicated. No, it doesn't seem that complicated. It took us a good maybe like month to figure out the mics. I think it's just the investment part too. Like we don't want to do it in our apartment. Yeah, we want to get a space. We want to get a space.

So, yeah. We want something because, like, this is cool because it's, like, separate from the house. You guys can't see, but we're in, like, a separate room, which is, like, what we'd want. Yeah, like a back house. Yeah. Or we said we could get two townhouses that are, like, the ones that are connected by a garage. Yeah. And make the garage...

The studio. The studio. I would like that a lot. That's an idea. He's going to put, make sure you have like sound damage and stuff like that. Otherwise it'll sound. Oh yeah. We'll like do the whole thing. Yeah. Okay. But yeah, we're going to get, this is going to get so many, obviously people are just going to be like making comments about how like you're a drug dealer and stuff. That's all my TikTok comments right now. Oh yeah, yeah. Actually not a drug dealer. Actually not a drug dealer. I deal, uh,

Yes. Apparel dealer. So, oh, that's a really good point. All of you know we're sponsored by Raw Gear. This is the owner, everything Raw Gear. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do a lot of stuff. Yeah, so that's a good point to bring up. I didn't even think to say that all the Raw Gear we wear. Yeah, that is a fact. But we wanted, we've been saving this episode idea and we have a lot written down. We asked you guys to tell us

Like, your scenarios that you need advice on with, like, boys and, like, in the gym. Because we wanted a guy's opinion. Oh, okay. So I thought this was guys who needed advice. No, girls. Girls. Oh, this is girls need advice with guys? Yeah. Okay, I got this. But we could also just tell them how guys should... We could... No, I don't care. I like this. This is more challenging. Yeah. Oh, yeah. But we wanted a guy that'd be, like...

They needed to be, like, good with it and were like, you're the best. Like, you have the best advice to give. Perspective, too, yeah. Yeah, I got it. Okay, so we asked you guys on Instagram, so follow the Instagram if you guys want to be in any of these again. Yeah. Like, if you guys want to give a question, anything, when we do these, you've got to follow the Instagram. Do you know the demographic of this podcast? Is it mostly women? Women...

ages like 18 to 25. That's dope. Yeah. Like 90%, 80%? It's honestly maybe like 99%. Whoa, this is very rare for me. So ladies, listen, please follow me. Very, very rare. Number one, because my fan base is literally 99% dudes. Yeah. Yeah, but that's also why we want to branch out.

you know, like we want people from all types of the fitness. Like we don't just want to stay with like girls with the same demographic. But no, no, but I want to tell you, it's really impressive for girls to get a girl audience. It is much, much more difficult than girls to get a guy audience. Oh, of course. And vice versa. So, um,

It's actually impressive if you could have a female audience as a female. That's amazing. Yeah, we both, all of our platforms are like over 80% women. That's sick. That's like incredible. Yeah. Congratulations. It's pretty fun. Like we got a girl gang. But I like, my TikTok at first was dudes and I literally worked so hard to switch the focus of my content to switch. Like I switched my demographic from 80% dudes to 80% girls in like a few months. That's incredible. Flipped it. That's like unheard of.

It's a grind, but we got a little girl cult. We really do. There are people. Especially on social media, because even your guys will come attack us.

Like on our things. And then our girls will just like comment back at like the immature little guys that are just commenting on our videos. But I think a lot of our girls don't really know who you are. I mean, they probably know, but they probably don't fucking follow me because they probably see me as some like meathead guy on the internet lifting up girls. Yeah. Yeah, probably. You know. Which is fair. I'm not. It's like, I get it. Yeah. Yeah. But they probably don't really. They just probably know that you're raw gear because we wear it. But they probably don't know anything else. Yeah.

But yeah, we asked them to send us some of them are kind of funny. Yeah, some of them are short, some of them are long, but I'm just going to go right into it. Yeah, exactly. So first one is this girl goes to the gym at the same time as a group of three guys every single day and she can't tell if one of the guys is looking at her in the mirror or at himself. Seems like he takes his shirt off nearly every single time while they are making eye contact in the mirror. How does she go about approaching him? Whoa, whoa, whoa. So from this girl's perspective,

There's three guys. They work out. There's one guy that every time he takes his shirt off, you guys are making eye contact in the mirror. I guess so. It's always when he's near her. That's funny. I've had someone do that to me. The eye contact thing in the mirror while the shirt's coming off is the most hilarious part of this. I've had someone do it to me. It does happen. Really? I've straight up had someone do it to me. Well, I'm not the kind of gym bro that takes off my shirt in the gym. I've never really been that type.

But her question is, she's trying to figure out if this guy's... Yeah, no, she wants to know how to approach him. With being intimidated. Because we're a group of friends. Yeah. Okay. Like, can she go up to him if the other guys are there? So, this is hilarious because I'm assuming that there's some sort of like, you know, she maybe is somewhat embarrassed to go up to three guys, I'm assuming, right? Yeah, I guess. Okay, ladies, listen. No guy, whether it's three guys or five guys or one dude or fucking two...

No guy. One guy. They're never going to be like, what? They're always ready for that. You're not going to run up on a guy. Now, a guy might approach another guy and be like, yo, I'm working out. Give me a minute. But a guy is not... Especially if you feel like this guy's

constantly taking his shirt off in front of you and like if you're getting the eye vibe for like I don't know two three weeks at a time or like that's enough for a guy if you're gonna approach a guy listen if you approach a guy period as a female a guy is probably gonna be like yeah what can I help you with what do you need like it's

I feel like it's so much easier. Yeah. Girls, this is just a girl, like the girl has to be like, okay, I'm confident enough in myself to just go do it. But the guy's not going to be like, get out of my face, bitch. You know, like it's just not going to happen. I feel like it's with the gym. It's just because it's so guy dominant. It's very intimidating for the girl to ever go up to a guy. Yeah. But imagine this. Imagine you're, okay, ladies, most guys only get approached by guys. Right? So,

And it's a running joke that like you work out because you're like trying to get girls, but you pretty much only get guys who come up to you and talk to you in the gym. And it's like a real thing. That's funny. So imagine now...

A one girl actually comes to talk to you like you're fucking excited. That guy's excited. And I think if you're with your friends, he's probably going to be like really like his ego is going to be so big because he's the one that got spoken to. Yeah. I mean, he's going to love that. Because his friends didn't get spoken to. Yeah. It's going to be like, I mean, if this if you're interested in this guy and you've had enough of this eye contact, because I think it's the biggest thing you hear about this kind of stuff all the time.

Just like a girl, I know if a girl has given you enough eye contact over time, it's not like the eye contact that sees you and then avoids you. Then it's like, okay, that girl might also be willing to speak to you, probably at some time not during mid-set, but maybe when she's leaving the gym or as she's changing between an exercise or something like that. The same remains for guys, but guys, there's just so much easier to approach. They just go up to a guy and just like, hi, what's your name?

He's going to talk to you. He's going to talk to you. He might even be like, what the fuck? This is too good. This is too good to be true. But if you go and you say, hey, what's your name? My name's whatever. That's probably all you need. And you'll be in there. It's easy. Very simple. Let us know when you start dating. I know.

But if this guy's avoided you every time eye contact wise, then maybe he's like, maybe you're not the one. Maybe he's like, this girl's always staring at me when I'm taking off my shirt. Yeah. Well, it's like, which came first? Eye contact or the shirt thing? I don't know. Yeah. I don't know. I guess we'll never know. Well, I hope we got your answer for you. Just go up to him. Um, the next one is, um,

This girl and guy are on two different sport teams at school, and he suddenly stops talking to him. Yes, college. He ghosted her. Yeah. What does she do? Okay. So what does two different sports be? I think they go to the same school to play different sports. Yeah. Okay. So they go to the same school. They play different sports. They were talking. Mm-hmm. For how long? We don't know. She didn't say. Okay. That would be nice to know. Yeah.

They were talking and then he goes to her. Okay. I mean, this is, there's so, there could be so many reasons why this happened. Yeah. There's so many reasons. I mean, he could have a girlfriend, like he could be working out with some, working it out with some ex-girlfriend. He could be talking to a girl right now. Like there's so many reasons why. Has, my question to her would be like, have you asked the guy, Hey, what's going on? Or like, are you, is she sending messages saying like, Hey, what's up? Where have you been? Obviously not like blowing this guy up, but something simple. And then it's still no response. Yeah.

Then there's probably something else going on in his life that he's probably dealing with. Probably with a different woman. Yeah. I mean, that's just... I feel like massive red flag when someone just stops... Like ghosting you? You're talking about ghosting you? Yeah, ghosting. I think that's a massive red flag. But I feel like, why do you care? No, yeah, also... Like, he stopped talking to you, so... Yeah, also, if a guy's ghosting you, then, like, fuck that guy. Yeah, right? My point is, like, what do you... Don't waste your energy. I guess I want to know more. It's like, how much time was...

prior to being ghosted, you know? Because if she spent a lot of time investing in this person, spending time and he just ghost her, I could see why she's a little more like, what the fuck? But that also leads me more to believe like there's something other, some other situation going on in his life that he probably is like,

There's probably another girl there. Yeah. Yeah, probably. I also imagine if they're on two, like, college sports teams, they're probably busy people. Yeah. So it's like he also just may not be, like, caring a lot. No. He's like, nah. I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Okay. No. All right. Well, next one. This one's a little interesting. What if her gym crush is her best friend, guy best friend, of two years?

Okay. Okay. Let girls, let's talk about this. Ladies, ladies, girls, I don't know. Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. Okay. I have a whole conversation to have about this. Can women have guy friends? Yes. Yes. Okay. Yes. Yes. But do you guys realize that guys...

Are probably trying to have sex with you. Yeah. Right? Probably. I'm not saying... No, it's true. So, in my opinion... Listen, I don't think they can't. I just think it's likely that the guy that's your guy friend, he's probably waiting for his chance to have sex with you. I agree. Not that, like, that's all he wants. That's not what I'm saying. He's waiting for his turn. You know? Whether it's, like, now or later. So, I...

When you say guy friends, so what's the question again? About... They're just... It's... Her guy crush is her best friend at the gym. Sounds amazing. Sounds like you have a boyfriend. Yeah. It sounds like a boyfriend. That's my point. It's like... Yeah, it sounds like a boyfriend. If you have... But honestly, I just want to talk about to you two, like, do you think girls can really have guy friends? I think you can.

you can because he could have guy friends and be in a relationship because those guys are waiting for that guy to fuck up. I think you could have friends that you hang around in social settings, but by no means are you like Snapchatting a guy that's your friend. Yeah. You get what I'm saying? Like you can have friends that like, oh, you go to a party and you have a group of people in some groups. Some people in the group

are dudes, but they're not. But like, are you going and spending like going on a hike with him by yourself? No. Yeah, no. I would never do that with a friend. Here's the deal, right? I'm not saying you can't have a friend, but that guy's thinking, oh, I'm getting closer. Yeah. He's not thinking, we're just getting to know each other and we're great friends. It's not. I just, be honest. You got to be honest with the guys. I agree. Guys are, they're, no guys like, they don't see a girl and they go, wow, that girl looks like she'd be a great friend to me.

I promise you, guys are seeing a girl and they're like, wow, that girl's attractive. There's a few motives there. Yeah. They want to have sex with them. Or maybe they want to have sex with them and get to know them better and date them. Yeah. It's also guys are easy. Like, even if they're not avidly thinking at every second that they want to, if you wanted to as the girl, you can. So that's the crazy thing about all this. That's why I think it's having guys, girls having guy friends is just insane.

especially in a relationship is like... Yeah. If you're having a guy friend that you go to the gym with every single day, you spend two hours in the gym together every single day, you probably get food after. Like dating. Yeah. Yeah, you're kind of dating. Unless he like friend-zoned her without like... Yeah, so okay, that's an interesting point. Yeah, have you talked about it? If he fully friend-zoned you and like he has a girl and stuff, then maybe it's a little different? If he has a girl... Right, see, that's what I'm saying. It's a little interesting now, right? Yeah. If he has a girl, that's... No.

I cannot imagine dating someone who'd be like, I'm going to the gym with my girl best friend. That's a girl. People always say that like your parents, like your dad doesn't have a girl best friend. Yeah. Like think about it, like a married couple, your dad does not have a girl best friend. But that's why I'm saying, can guys have, excuse me, can women have guy friends? Yeah, I feel like it applies both ways. Yeah, no, I

I just think you can't have just a guy best friend and expect that there's never going to be like anything weird. Like, I feel like a lot of people that were my guy friends, we like, like he talked a little bit. Yeah. No, definitely. And then it ended up leading to something like way more than that. So, so to this girl, like that sounds like, you know, maybe you guys should date. Yeah. Yeah. I think you should like, yeah. It's like you both sounds like you're both into the same thing. Sounds like he likes working out. You like working out, like do it. Make it obvious. Yeah. Just get a little flirty. Yeah.

Or all you have to do is be like, what are you doing tonight? Literally, do you want to go get Chipotle after this or something? Yeah. Well, that sounds like a gym thing. That sounds like a gym thing. You could be like, you want to go see a movie? Yeah. No, come over and watch a movie. Oh, yeah. Okay. Well, then that's...

That guy's like, yes. That guy's like, yes. If he says yes, then at least you have your, then it's like, there's no question. Yeah. It's so interesting to me. That's actually good. If you text a guy, I want to come over and watch a movie. And they said, yeah. Like, you're instant. Like, are they into you? That's what I'm saying. It's so easy for girls. Like, cause they hold all the cards. Like,

That's almost the answer to a lot of these. You literally hold the power. Yeah, you're in control. Whatever you say goes. The guys are just trying to make it happen. Yeah.

They really are. I mean, it's like either one or not. I don't know. Yeah, girl, that guy's your boyfriend. This one goes like kind of like the same direction, but like there's another person involved. And it's I like a guy from high school and they all obviously go to the same gym. We go to the same gym and we have been dating or he has dated my best friend.

Okay. So what's the question though? What does she do? Yeah. What does she do? She obviously. Can she talk to him? So like he's dated her best friend. Oh, what does her best friend think about it? There's no context. Probably wouldn't be happy. We don't know. How long was the best friend dating him? Okay. But she did word it. If I think about the DM, she said her high school best friend. So maybe she doesn't really talk to this girl as much anymore. Yeah. So maybe she means like, maybe they were super tight, but now they're like.

Like, still friends. So next time we need more, like, girls, please give more context. We have some longer ones, but I think it's kind of fun. We could make our own story. Yeah. No, I'm down. I'm down. We got to make our own. So there's a girl, so there's a guy who dated her best friend in high school. Yeah. They're at the gym every day. She likes him. Yeah. I mean, they're not together anymore. I'm assuming. No.

Is she still good friends with the girl? I don't think so. You know what? Now that I'm thinking about it, though, if they were in high school, wouldn't they all be at different gyms because they go to college? No, they could still live in the same place. Not as likely. They could also go to the same college. Here's my rule as a guy. If my boy dated someone, he was actually my friend, not just someone I knew that was dating someone, then depending how long they dated, if it was a couple months, it's like, all right, it's not serious. They hooked up, whatever. But I would say this. If the girl dated the guy for like,

two years maybe maybe leave it alone for a little bit more i don't know how long two years ago or was it was it one year ago was it two months ago but she dated the guy for like that long then maybe it's like i don't know unless you don't talk to that person whatsoever at all because that's the thing right like if my boy dated someone i wouldn't i wouldn't try and talk to their girlfriend or ex-girlfriend if it's like super recent also if they dated for like five years i'd probably never talk to them like it's just kind of fucked up yeah if it's your friend

Yeah, and if you like the guy so much, like, if you're like, no, it was recent, it was five years, but I'm in love with him, you gotta be okay with the fact that she's never talking to you again. Yeah, you're gonna lose a friend. Like, you just gotta accept the fact that it's done. Forever. Yeah, because that's tough. Yeah, there definitely needed to be more context for that one. But also, if they were young, like, if they dated, like, in high school or something...

If we're talking like you're dating, you were like 16. Yeah, that's bullshit. High school's bullshit. Exactly. Like, then it's like... But if they were 16, they were like dating until like 22. It's like, that's fucking for real. Like, that's serious. Yeah, but if it was like a little bit like...

For a few months in high school, I think you can get over it. Yeah. That's fucking high school. She doesn't even count. Yeah. I say just do it. It's crazy how high school is so serious when you're in it and then you get out and two years later you're like, what the fuck was I worried about? I feel like I lacked out most of high school. I was in a relationship my entire time in high school and I was like, damn, that really sucked. I wish I was not because it's high school. I went through some... We've already talked about this in the podcast, our toxic relationships. I went through the worst shit in high school for a dude...

For what?

what? Like, for what? Because we're going to get married? You know, it's interesting though, high school in general, we're just like, because when you're in it and you're that age, it's all that matters. And you make it so serious. Like, or there'd be like, with boys or girls or like getting bullied or not, but like, it's just not that fucking serious. Like, none of that shit is going to sustain. You're never going to look back and be like, I wish I, it's like, just live your life and fucking have fun and learn shit. But high school's not serious. It's not at all. I used to think, I used to be so annoyed when older kids would be like,

Like high school, like none of it's going to matter. I was like, no, but it does matter to me. Yeah, well, because it's all that mattered at the time when you're in it. Yeah, no, I got it. But it's very like, it does not matter at all. I don't talk to anyone from my high school anymore. Yeah, me neither. Well, you're like more than me. Yeah, either way, either way, like straight out of, even into college, it's like no one. Nope. Some people hit me up and be like, yo, it's dope the things you're doing, but like it's, you know, oh, thank you. But that's it, you know. They love to hit you up when you're doing good. Yeah. That's life. Yeah. Yeah.

All right, next one is, never talked to him before, but we've made eye contact a few times. How do I go about giving him the hint that she's interested? Talk. So this is the girl. I'm assuming this girl doesn't want to be the one initiating the action. Yes, she doesn't want to be. Yeah, she doesn't want to initiate. She just wants him to come up to her. Oh, fuck, man. That's tough. Because here's the problem with this scenario. This guy might...

be so in his own head that he doesn't think that he has the opportunity or the chance to approach you. So like, I don't know the kind of guy it is. It really would depend on that. Some guys might feel just a little bit insecure that they're just afraid to even go up to you because they're afraid of rejection, which is a very common thing. Like everyone's afraid of it. Obviously, guys or girls, it doesn't matter, but...

You might as well just, if you're really that interested, just like I said, go up and say, hey, what's your name? My name's this. So simple. Yeah. You'll get the vibe right away. Because he also, I feel like it's very like, guys can't go up to girls in the gym. That's creepy. That's weird. Don't look at a girl. Don't talk to a girl. So the guy might not want to do it. Don't look unless she's not looking. Yeah. Yeah, I'm kidding. I'm going to tell you guys this. Girls, just so you know this. Yeah. When you're not looking. Right.

Every fucking dude is trying to look at you, okay? I've been in the gym for many, many years, okay? I promise you. And they're also telling all their friends, like, yo, did you see this? Look, look. They're like, no, don't look right now. Don't look right now.

You know what you should do at zoo? You should have Jacob low-key just be on the lookout for videotaping dudes every time they turn their head at a girl. Oh, that would be funny. You'd be violating people. It's fucked up. I feel like people walk into that gym and you are, like, signing away that you're okay with being on camera. Yeah, you are, actually. You literally are. Oh, so fuck it. Yeah, you literally are. Damn. You literally are. Yeah.

That's so you can film in there so someone can't come and be like, I don't want to be in here in the video. It's like, you sign these waivers, you actually agree. Because we're all shooting content in there. Yeah. That's actually funny. Yeah, you did sign it. That's actually funny. I feel like I was just about to say something. Oh, I...

I was going to say with the whole situation with like how to... The interested part. We had a scenario actually last week where this one guy came up to us and asked if we could film his set for him. I thought that was the smoothest thing ever. I was like, oh,

holy shit. Like now we have this phone with us. No, but I know, I know that. But like in a scenario, if a guy was trying to like hit on a girl in the gym, like asking to film, like you already have his phone in your hand. Like after that's done, you can just be like, all right, well like now like,

I don't know. Yeah. Give me your Instagram or something. Yeah. Cause it was his Instagram story. So like his Instagram was in my hand. Yeah. Cause I filmed it on his Instagram and he could have just been like, Oh, it was your Instagram. Like I'll look it up. I'm already in my Instagram right now. That's a fucking. It was so smooth, but I don't, the vibe we were getting from him wasn't like, Oh, I think he just wanted to, he literally just wanted us to film. Cause we had like our tripods and everything out, but I was like, damn, like he's like, thanks. Bye. Yeah. No, seriously. Yeah.

put his head boom right back in. But then I like, thank you. I was like, holy shit. Like that's like the way to go. I think you can, did you want this guy to hit you guys? I was there like, cause it sounded like it. I was recording her in the back. I was like watching. I was like, she made it. She fakes things for Snapchat, right?

She's really good at getting little content and it just looks. So she filmed me recording him and was like, had a hit on a girl at a gym. Like, and it's like, the guy was not hitting on me. Like that did not happen. It was so funny. So, so wait, did we finish this question?

Let's see. Like yes and no. I was going to say, if you don't want to go up to him and be like, even as like, Hey, what's your name? What's your Instagram? Just make a little conversation. Cause if every time you're there, you're like, Hey, are you using that bench still? Oh, Hey, how many sets you got left? Then maybe in a week or two, you've had those conversations. Maybe like,

like five times. Yeah, you know, this is actually a really good tactic. The whole like, hey, can I get this machine after you or whatever? Are you still using that? Then he'll notice like, oh wait, this girl's really kind of like talking to me. But at least then you're like familiar with each other and then you might be like, hey, because it's like, hey, that's a girl I've actually spoken to. Yeah, he might break the ice though even in one of those conversations. Yeah, because then you've come up to him so then he might not feel like he's like invading your space. Exactly. That's a really good point. Yeah. That's what I would do. That's a good answer.

Thanks. No, that's a really good answer. That's what I would do. All right. And the next one is going to be, I am scared he has a girlfriend. And if he does, then I'll be too scared to go back to the gym again. I think there's a really easy way to do this. What's that? Find their Instagram. Yeah. See if there's a girlfriend. The thing is, yes and no. I feel like that's easier or it's harder. Like I've tried to do that at the gym, like try to find someone's Instagram and it's like impossible. Yeah.

I think you could do it. So with that scenario of not being able to find Instagram. Or you could just go ask and be like, hey, are you on Instagram or something? Right? I guess. Is that hard for girls to do? Yeah. Kind of, yeah. I think it's easy. Like a lot of people will ask us because we're like filming with a tripod. Yeah. So like either they're actually interested in what we're filming or they're trying to get our Instagram. I guess we'll never know. I see. So they'll be like, what? Instagram because we're filming. I see. I don't think I'd ask someone out of the blue. Interesting. Yeah.

But I think you could find it. You go to the gym's Instagram. You go to like, let's say they're wearing. Well, okay. The finding it then is could be if you see him filming something. Yeah, you could ask. Right? If he's ever at any point filming something or like ask someone to film something, right? Then you could ask in a moment like that. Yeah. Yeah. And then he might just say, sorry, I have a girlfriend. Easy. Yeah.

I feel like you can find out if he has a girlfriend before you flirt with him and have to never come to the gym ever again. I know. I feel like she's making it... Also, like, why would you never go to the gym? I don't even care. Who gives a fuck? She's making it more of a bigger deal than it has to be. I had a guy come up to me twice, and I didn't even have a boyfriend at the time, and I just said I had a boyfriend, and then he came up again. I said, I have a boyfriend. He still goes every single day. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. I don't... I wouldn't... It's like, why would you change your gym situation just because, like, you...

You know? Don't, don't. You got turned down. Girls, like, please, don't do that. Guys are not worth, like, redoing your whole routine. It's honestly just not that serious. Not at all. You know, if a guy, you get some sort of rejection, like, who gives a fuck? And like you said, guys are just, like, all low-key kind of scumbags. And that guy's probably like, if me and my girl ever break up, this girl in the gym is cute and likes me.

Yeah, listen, I mean... He probably thought about it. I mean, shoot your shot no matter what. Like, obviously, if that's what you want to do, you might as well shoot it. I mean, it just makes sense to just try. Yeah. Yeah, but let's say you could just start with the small talk. And then maybe, what if he might just be a super nice guy and he might be like, oh my god, you should meet my girlfriend. Like, she also goes to the gym. And then you'd be like, oh, fuck. Yeah, no, never mind. Like, oh, damn it, girlfriend. Or like, oh my god, does your girlfriend ever come with you? Yeah. I don't have a girlfriend. Oh, yeah, I mean, you could find that out. Oh, that's a good question.

But you'd have to get to that question, right? And then it's like, oh, I thought I saw you with like a girl. Oh, maybe it was someone else. Oh, damn. Damn. Hey. I'm kind of good at this. Possibility. Yeah, I know. You are. Maybe just be like, yeah, have you ever come with your girlfriend? Yeah, and then you could be like, oh, I thought I saw you with someone. It must have been someone else. My bad. Yeah. That's what, yeah.

Guys are so simple, though. Girls, like, just listen. Just go up to them and say, hey, how are you? This is your name. They just don't care. They're not that... They're not so judgy in these kind of things. But it's also... It's literally what you said. They're just literally hyped that...

Yeah. That they got a guy, a girl to talk to them. Yeah, it's very rare. So you come up to a guy, he's going to be like, whoa, what the fuck? This is amazing. Well, even if he has a girlfriend, he's going to be like, whoa, man, this is incredible. Exactly. He probably, maybe, maybe he'll still flirt with you. He probably will. Oh God, Taylor. He probably will. Maybe. He probably will. Now we're just creating trust issues, but listen, it is what it is. Oh no. Your boyfriend's cheating on you. No, don't say that. We should only have another one that's like that. Where is it? Oh God.

Um, where is it? Oh, okay. Her gym crush is her boyfriend, but how does, so it's a little bit different, but her gym crush is her boyfriend. And how can she feel less insecure about other girls while she's there with him? Oh man, there's no answer to this one. Cause this is just a personal thing. Um, there's not, there's not nothing you can necessarily do. I mean,

This is your own kind of demons going on. Yeah. Your own ego. Yeah, it is. There's not like a specific... You can't like... What, are you going to create a barrier around your boyfriend? Like, that's not realistic. Yeah. No, not at all. Yeah, this sounds... I hate to be that guy, but this is like a... Personal problem? More of a personal thing that... Sounds like a you issue. Yeah, I mean, we all have those issues, though. Like, all of us are having securities, right? But...

You can't change a scenario in a gym so that, like, you feel more secure. This is more about you have to kind of sit back and talk to yourself a little bit about, like, why do I feel this way? Why am I insecure about this? Like, is there something else going on in the relationship that's causing that? Mm-hmm. Then explore that. Because, like, you can't change something in, like, out in the open in, like, a gym situation that's going to make you more, you know, comfortable with it. This is an internal thing. Yeah. So you have to kind of figure out what's causing that for you, like, personally.

you know, maybe even despite the guy, like what's going on, like with your ego and like, why would, why are you making it a problem? Yeah. And that's a hard question to ask because you got to look inwards. I feel like there's two different scenarios with that. It's like, you're either obviously very insecure, like not feeling super confident in other around other females, or it's like, there's something inside the relationship that's like making you not trust the guy. And like, I feel like at least for me when I was, this is like four years ago, but like I,

I was, there was stuff going inside the relationship that caused me not to trust him anywhere. And this could be a gym anywhere. So it's like those two different types of situations. Yeah. Yeah. So it's, I mean, looking inside yourself and then looking in what's going on in the relationship. Yeah. Cause if he's never done anything wrong, you can't just be like making shit weird. Then it's a very internal personal thing. Yeah. But obviously if there's other things going on, then like, those are things you have to address more directly with that person in that relationship so that you can,

feel more comfortable. Yeah. You could also, I mean, this is like a legit thing to do, like, maybe like, if you talk to the girls, maybe they're like just cool and then you could just like introduce yourself and be cool with them so you don't have in your mind that they're these like evil girls

girls trying to steal your girlfriend or your boyfriend. But then it's always someone new. Because this is not a person thing. True. It's an internal and inside relationship. True. Yeah, because then it probably happens anywhere they go. And it's also the gym. It's not that deep. You're not at a bar. You're not at a house party. It's the gym. But that's the thing. All these people are so in their own heads. Because I always tell people all this, like, he's looking at me. I'm looking at him. It's not happening. You're making that up. The person who you think, oh my god, he's always looking at me. No, he's not.

Yeah. I mean... Sometimes you might be. I don't know. Sometimes you might be. Sometimes, but sometimes it's like... It's hard for me to make a judgment because I don't know. ...really not that serious. Yeah. No, of course it's not that serious. Like, sometimes it's really not that deep. Yeah, but guys are looking at girls. I can say... It's safe to say that. Yeah, but I think... Yeah. Yeah.

But I think some girls think if a guy's like not being weird and is just like we were saying to be like, oh, can I use that as like flirting? But a guy may just be like, are you still using that? And they're like, this guy flirted with me. Well, this is the funny thing. Maybe he didn't. There's like funny memes about this when the guy's like, yo, he's asking, can you use him? He's like, she's like, I have a boyfriend. Sorry. Yeah. Sorry. No, I have a boyfriend. Isaiah's done that. Yeah. This has been a thing forever. It's just like, it's like, yo, I just want to use this machine. What the fuck? No.

No, but like, yeah, it's not always what you make it out to be. All these situations, we tend as humans, we just make things a lot more complicated than they really are. Genuinely. That's what this is. Yeah, and that's why a lot of girls are so scared to go to the gym. A lot of it because boys. That's why I wanted to do this because I'm so scared of the boys and what to do about them. I promise you, guys are not like looking at you being like,

Like, in a malicious way. No way. No. There's no... Guys are not out at the gym looking around at girls and being like, well, this girl, she's this or she's that. They're not doing that. They may look at a girl or maybe look at a girl that they think is attractive and that's it. They're not, like, out here judging everyone. It just doesn't even happen. We tell people that all the time. Like, how even, like, a lot of people are scared of, like, the big...

bodybuilders. Yeah. I'll tell you this. I'll tell you this. I swear. I even see a girl that like is, is like really trying to get in shape. And I'll be like, Holy fuck. Like I appreciate that. I'm not going to be like, Oh, she's, she's not in shape. She's not as in shape as this girl or that girl. Like it's fucking irrelevant. Like gym bros are honestly probably the guys who are going to be like, Oh, I like to see that more than anything. They're not going to judge you just because you're doing that. So I think it's safe. It's safe for girls to know, like,

Guys aren't out here just fucking judging you like assholes. Yeah, I know. They're really not at all. And I think that might be a lot of why they're insecure to go up to guys because they might not feel like secure in the gym. It's like, like they might feel like, oh my God, I don't know what I'm doing in the gym. I don't even look like, like I probably look weak. I probably look dumb. Like I'm not even in shape. And it's like, don't,

Don't care. Yeah, guys do not give a fuck about that, I promise. If anything, it's like, it's cool to see people doing it. Like, for me, even the perspective of seeing other guys do it who maybe, like, look like they're new or...

are doing exercises that they don't necessarily know, I still think it's cool if someone's just trying to get after it regardless. Exactly. I like to see new people in the gym no matter what because it's just... I know how much it's changed my life and made my life incredible. I'm like, I'd love to see other people get into it. Yeah. Exactly. Don't take it so serious. Don't make everything... I hate to say this, but don't make everything about you. Everything else outside is not... They're not at you, attacking you or thinking...

directly about you. It's not that serious. That's my motto for every advice. I'm always saying, I'm like, guys, no one cares. Also, this can literally apply to everything we talk about. We do so many like educational topics and like everything. Everything is so much simpler than it like needs to be. Everything with every topic is overcomplicated. And it's the gym, going up to girls, going up to guys. Yeah.

any like educational topic like humans yeah it's just crazy it's like just go go up to him so yeah you win something you lose something he gives a fuck yeah yeah and like you can still go back to your gym don't leave the gym that guy's also not going to be like that's the girl who hit me up and he's not gonna he doesn't give a fuck yeah yeah he's not bragging about this shit no so we have one more left and it's a little long not really long but um

So looks at this guy a lot at the gym and she ended up following him on Instagram. She posted a cute gym selfie with the timestamp on the story. And then ever since she posted that story, he has now been going to the gym at that time every single time. She wants to know if it's a coincidence. I can't say the word. Coincidence. No. Not a coincidence? Not a coincidence. 100%. 100% this guy's interested in it.

I agree. There's zero doubt. This is a literal thing that guys talk about. Really? Yes.

Tell us more. No, guys literally would be like, we'll find out. They'll figure out a time when a girl comes and they will go all the time to try and see that girl. No way. Like, I promise you 100% guaranteed. If you shoot your shot, you're, you're, you're hitting. Damn. I didn't think that guys would do that. I didn't think they would. I didn't think that they like, like would try hard enough to do that. 100% do that. Like I, I'm, I'm willing to bet every single guy. If you ever noticed that, I guarantee it's a guarantee. He's a shoo-in.

I promise. Oh my God, I wonder if that's why people go to the gym when we go. Or why they don't go when we go. Yeah, you know why? Oh, they're like, fuck. These girls are always fucking filming in there. Yeah.

No, it's for sure. This is a guarantee. Damn. Well, great news for that girl. Yeah. Yeah. That's dope. I love it. We better get some relationships out of this or just like some dates. That one at the end is. Yeah. If it goes on. I want people to like take a selfie, post it. Well, then you have to make like Instagram officials. Yeah. No. But if,

if it gets to the point where you're just an Instagram official, please tag us in your story. Or just send like a vanishing photo to the page you have, right? Oh yeah, you could just send it. Like if you guys are eating somewhere, like let me take a quick selfie. Like look, this is the boy we went on a date. Or just like DM us the little story update on like these scenarios that happened because we want to know. Yeah, we want to know now. That one at the end is 100% if she says what's up to that guy. Yeah.

Yeah. Hit him with the, want to watch a movie tonight? Yeah, seriously. Easy. I mean, Jesus. No guy's going to turn that down. Get the snap and you're in. No, but I'm saying, girls, if you ask a guy, hold on, we got to clarify this. If you tell a guy to come see a movie tonight...

he's thinking he's having sex. Yeah, no. I just want you to know that. We gotta say something like... Like, if you say, go see a movie, maybe not. But if you say, come watch a movie at my house, he's thinking he's having sex. I promise you. Oh, well, duh. Yeah. I just don't want you to run into that situation thinking, like, this guy was not... I thought they were, like, catching the vibe, but you're right. Some people don't catch the vibe. Yeah, no. No, any time... For some reason, I don't know why, I guess it's the whole, like, Netflix and chill thing, but if you ever tell a guy to come over at night to watch a movie at your house, like, his mind is there. Well, just because it's, like...

And it's fine. Look it, I don't care. Like, get it is what it is. But that's why I was saying it's a good thing to ask you. They're going to get instant. Yeah, he's into instant rejection. Here's the fucked up thing when girls will do that and then you'll come over and they'll be like, no, no, no, I'm not that kind of girl. It's like, then why did you do this? Here's a better idea. Here's a better. Tell him, like, let's go get lunch. Okay.

No, I mean this. Like, if you're the girl and you know that you're going to invite the guy over and you're just going to be like, no, no, I don't want to do that. I understand that. I completely respect that. But just...

For the sake of the whole thing, just be like, let's get lunch first and then build your report during the day. I mean, that might be hard because maybe you have work or something. No, but I agree because I think a lot of times girls are really quick to just be like, oh my God, like, fuck him. He just wanted to do that. It's like, okay, but think about the situation you presented. Yeah. That was kind of on you. Yeah, you got to create the scenario. Like if you say, oh, let's go out for a hike or let's do something on the weekend or let's do something like...

we're going to do something and then the guy's like yeah for sure then it's like okay now you're you're building that rapport you build that relationship if you if your first invite is like come over and hang out you can't be mad when that guy tries to come at you yeah it can also it can be like a group setting too like it doesn't even have to be like a one-on-one thing yeah that's fair like then i think that would help it out a little bit to not to get like that vibe yeah yeah yeah for sure i don't know why i thought you meant that the coming over to watch a movie would be like a group set i don't know no i was like what are you

No, no, I see. But if you're like, hey, me and my girl, my...

A bunch of us are going to brunch or something. I don't know. But that's what I'm saying. So if we're all going to brunch, that's fine. But if you say, hey, come over to my house and watch a movie. Yeah. They're like, the guy's going to try it. You can't be mad when he tries it. You know? That's all I'm saying. I feel like I'd be offended if he didn't. Right. Yeah. That's funny. It's like, okay, well. Yeah. I mean, maybe then he's a little shy. Maybe he's just nice. Maybe he's a little shy. Really nice. Really nice. Yeah.

Yeah. That gives me the ick. Yeah, that's funny. So that's the thing, right? So this is like, I don't even know the answer to this. Do girls, would they expect that then? You got to kind of expect that, right? I think so. Yes. Obviously, you don't have to do that. I'm not saying you have to do that. I think it's okay. Like, some people might have boundaries. Maybe you're not trying to do like every, like, you know what I'm talking about? Just sucking dick and not having sex? Where are you going with this?

I guess. It's fine. So maybe if you're like, not like right now, but if you expect zero and you're like, oh no, don't touch me. Let's have, let me ask, I got to ask a question now. Okay. Of course. Like, why would you, why would you have, why would you suck dick and not have sex? I'm sorry. Like my question, seriously, I just want to understand this. Would a girl be like, no, I'm just going to do that and not this. It's like, what's the...

I don't know. I'm going to get a little bit deep here. Okay, go ahead. It's because the way society... Then that seemed just like, oh, you just sleep around. Because imagine you told a guy, I'm not that girl. And he's like, oh, yeah, no worries. And he kind of just... He gives you enough to keep you around and you feel like, oh, he actually cares. But he's just maliciously doing this waiting to get... I think that happens 90% of the time. So that's what I'm curious about. It's like...

I'm not saying go sleep on the first night, sleep with someone on the first night, but you know, the girls, they mean like, oh, I don't do this thing. I'm not that kind of girl. I always find that interesting because there will be other guys who might just like,

Yeah. Yeah.

Having those conversations saying like, hey, this is what I'm looking for and this is where I'm at. And it's being forthright in that. And it doesn't matter either way, but sharing that is so important, I think. Because otherwise, guys, I don't know, they're just like, they're fucking scumbags, man. They're really shitty. It's crazy, actually.

Yeah. I mean, it's so funny though, because we're like, yeah, guys are scumbags, but you obviously know more. Like you talked more like, like, you know more about what guys actually do. We're just on the receiving end. Yeah. Yeah. Guys are scumbags. No, I know. Yeah. No, no, for sure. Girls can be scummy too though. Oh, of course. Definitely. Um,

They're more in control of the scum, to be honest. Like, they're the ones kind of like, the guys have to be allowed to be scummy. Oh, yeah, we were talking about this the other day. I forget what we were talking about. Like, the guy's got to be allowed to be scummy, you know? Yeah. You do hold the power. All the 99% girl. I am impressed. The 1% guy audience is like, damn it, I don't hold the power.

hold the power yeah please girls slide in my dms no no no seriously though uh please follow me because i don't have girl followers they probably well i think a lot of this one might get a lot of dude listens well you put my name in it yeah yeah they'll probably get a lot of a lot of guy listens they put i don't know if they'll care a lot about other episodes but yeah well we're branching the thing is we do a lot of like the fitness educational stuff but we want to do more podcasts like this that are more just kind of like this is really good advice for guys and girls it

Yeah, ghost or both. But it's like, it's still like we want to tell people on the gym because we wanted their stories about seeing people in the gym. But we also just want to talk about like stupid stuff about like our life. Yeah. Good mix. I love podcasting. It's my most, this is my most favorite thing that I do now. Yeah. It's the best. It's so much fun. I love talking. I like talking too. It's kind of bad. The people like to hear us talk. Yeah, they do. So,

They're like, podcasting is the most fun, man. I'm telling you. I love it. So, I mean, that's basically, that's basically that. I guess we'll link your Instagram so the girls can go follow you. Yeah, or follow Raw Talk. Follow this podcast. That's my favorite. That's the thing that I'm most passionate about right now. Us linking like your Instagram, that seems so stupid to me. I don't even care. Just follow my podcast. Because that's like making sure we give you a shout out. You need us. No, but yeah. But I have a female co-host on my podcast.

Oh, yeah. That's true. So, yeah, I'll link the podcast in the description box. Use our codes on Raw Gear. Oh, yeah. Wait, didn't you say you put it on Apple, too? Yeah, it's finally on Apple. It's been on Apple. I just finally updated artwork. Cool, cool. And I'm so proud about that. We're updating our artwork. I think we're number 45 on the top list right now, which is pretty cool, too. Love that. There you go. What is the category? Comedy. Comedy? Cool. Yeah. We like to fuck around. Yeah. What category are you guys in? Health and fitness.

Number 15, baby. We're doing pretty good in there. Of course. I mean, that's a little bit of a... That's an easier one to be in. Yeah. You'd be so... We started this podcast... No, I'm not saying what you're doing is easy. No, I'm saying we started this podcast...

Almost every single person that follows us has a fitness podcast now. All of a sudden, yeah. Yeah, but ones that are going to really succeed might be, it's like, you know. Well, because people don't realize how hard it is to get content week after week after week after week and have something to talk about for an hour. No one realizes that until they try to do it. And you have to be interesting. Yeah.

It's funny. A lot of people see it and they're like, this shit's so easy. And they're like, fuck you, you stupid influencer. Yeah. Like, holy shit. I spend, I literally work nonstop. But I love it. I wouldn't change a fucking thing. I love it. I absolutely love it. Oh, us too. Yeah. I fucking love it, man. I love working. Yeah, I mean, this is our work. It's pretty fun. Fun work. We just get to sit here and talk.

But I guess we'll close it out. Yeah. That was pretty long, I think. Yep. Sounded good. Keep us updated, guys. Yes. Send us your pictures with your gym boyfriends that are not your boyfriends. Yeah. Thank you, guys. Bye. Bye. See you. See you on Friday. Bye. Bye.