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Hey, everybody. Welcome to Sophia with an F. I am joined by Lil Yachty. So I'm just gonna fucking plug him right away. We're recording from WTF Media Studios. As always, subscribe. I have a new merch collection out. Perfect.

Perfect for the fucking holidays. Sandra Martinelli, if you know, you fucking know. Also, just dropped my first vlog. It was a tour of my fucking mansion, essentially. My walk-in closet. It was rich people vibes.

And I really enjoyed it. I think I'm going to be dropping a lot more vlogs soon, which you know who else is in the room with us? Kiana. She did several guest appearances in the vlog and she fucking killed it. But Yachty, I am so happy that you're here. Thank you for coming on your day off with all your chains. Which people vote? Wait, can you point out all the chains? We have an owl. There's my OVO piece here. Okay. Okay.

It's my concrete piece. And that's my record label piece.

concrete. That's some rich shit. Yachty came in here. Well, first of all, you know who the fuck Lil Yachty is. So I'm not going to give him an intro. I'll give him a short one. One of the biggest rappers in the world. We don't need no intro. Really? I have like a paragraph. I'm about to go off about you. We don't need that. Let them think what they think. I like I like I rather people think what they think before they get

get told something. I like that. Also, it's fucking awkward when I'm sitting here with someone and they're right next to me and I just go off about who they are. Yeah, I agree. That's why I stopped you. Thank you. I just don't think it's needed. I think I have enough interviews. If they want to know who I am, they can look somewhere else. Exactly. No introduction fucking needed, but Yachty walked in here and he had a tag on his

On his? Yeah, on my jacket. On his jacket? I was like, what's that piece of paper? Jeevon Cheetak just rips it off. Yeah, I felt bad. You don't even use scissors? No, I felt corny. What? I didn't realize I had on. You said, you have a tag on? I was like, oh, that's...

That's embarrassing. Then you're like, are you going to take it back? No, I did ask him, like, are you going to return it after? You made me, like, go Hulk and, like, or yank it. You don't, I've done that shit before. I just don't have a need to. Right. I love clothes. And you make a lot of money. That has nothing to do with my love for clothes, though. Like, I love clothes. Okay. So you would never return some shit? Nah, I would give it to somebody else before I return it.

I got so many friends. True. So, yeah. Well, if you ever want to send anything my way, feel free. You're like 15 times smaller than me. I don't know. But that's the thing now is the oversized shit. Yeah, but you're not doing it. No, I'm not.

You're not. I'm just saying you're not doing it right now. I'm not doing it at all right now. Maybe you can teach me something. You keep looking at yourself. You're okay. The whole. This is the thing. The whole time. I'm going to spend a quarter of it. You just kept looking back. I look at myself. Okay. 50% of the podcast. I got it. That's nice to know. What do we feel about that? I think that.

Self-awareness is good. So I think that's a good thing. I think we should all be more self-aware. I agree. Of our appearance. Right. You care a lot what people say.

- Be honest. - You wanna start-- - I just wanna know. - You wanna fucking start on that? - I just wanna know if you care. - Do I care about what people think of me? - That's an honest question, that's first. - I care what people think of me. - That's fair. - Yes, I do. - Can you tell me why? - Can I tell you why? - Yeah, I wanna know why, I'm just curious.

I think because in the career that we're in, which is very different, but it's entertainment, it kind of boils down to how people feel about you is your success to a degree, right? Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, to a degree. But I think some things will never change, right? And I feel like at the end of the day, the most important thing is understanding that you can never please everybody, right? And I think obviously being an... I'm a rapper, you know, and you have your field. But in my field, it's much more negative, right? Since the day you walk in. So I'm so used to like...

being antagonized and shit like that, I'm like a brick wall, you know, to the point where like nothing can hurt me. Like, I don't care. Yeah. You know, like I just, I don't care ever because I've never really pleased everyone ever. Just right out the gate. Yeah. I mean, I think people would just always have something negative to say about me, you know, which it affected me at first, but I started to realize that like,

No matter what you do, people are never happy. Well, at least not everybody. Right? No. Ever. Like, we all go through our comments and you'll always find something. Yes. No matter what, if you change something people talked about last time, if you did your hair a certain way, if you spoke differently, there's always something. Yeah. So I'll stop like...

I stopped giving a fuck a long time ago because I started to realize like man it's just so much to life than like living up to the standards of people who fucking like probably live with their parents or like probably watching this from Starbucks right now like nothing wrong with that I'm just saying like trying to shit on somebody and you're like

Not really doing anything yourself. I think that's like a bully move. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I don't get caught up in like negative comments and shit. Because I mean, I've dealt with my fair share of fucking hate. I mean, look at my Apple reviews. Before I even released an episode, there were, I don't know, 70,000 comments shitting on me. Yeah. Which is how you know, right? That's a good thing. It is a good thing? That's a great thing. Because like...

That's like, it's like, it's just the, the force of people wanting to speak about Sophia, just because right like that, like I would much rather people want to speak about Yadi, then not speak at all. That's when there's a problem, because there's still a way to accumulate some kind of revenue, whether it's love or hate, right? Because it's still click.

Yeah. Like all those people talk shit. Definitely still check. Yes. You know, which is insane. Then you start to think and if you really get deep into it, they probably are miserable. Probably really hate life. And when I say being mean, being mean is different than hating.

What's the difference? I don't know how to explain it. Would it make any sense? It's not going to make sense. I swear it's not going to make sense. I'm not going to try to explain it. She knows what I'm talking about. I'm not going to try to explain it. But like being mean just to be mean, like publicly is one thing. Right? Like you got a group chat and y'all hating. I respect that. No, I fully understand what the fuck you're saying. I respect that. That's different. That's like behind the scenes. We hating like, damn, that nigga doing good. Yeah. He's hating. I said, niggas. Anyone ever said nigga on here?

I don't feel like it. I'm the first. All right, cool. Nigga.

Like, okay, cool. We hating on them. That's fine. We hating in private. We could do that. We friends. Friends locked in. We could hate in private. Yeah, Kiana hates on me all day long. And that's okay. Right? Because I hate on her all day long. And she knows that. So, like, it's okay. So, it's like a circle of life. Right. So, just know she's getting it too. You're getting it. Cool. That makes me feel better because I don't hate on her back. I feel like I just take it. You don't have to. No.

She gets it all day. Right? So, but what I'm getting at is like, that's fine. But like, when you like go out of your way to be mean to somebody, what's the point? Like, what is it? It's just so many more things in life that could be done. And I'm pretty sure whoever's hating has much more problems in their life than to be mean

pick on to pick something someone else is doing right or wrong or something you don't agree with yes because can you imagine ever in your lifetime leaving just like a nasty comment on no not even from my finsta i don't do it i don't like i don't do it what's your what you have a finsta for what just for fucking shits and giggles just to stalk people like you don't want them to know it's a harsh word

Stock is like a, that's a really aggressive word. Okay. I don't want to say stock. Stock, it seems like, like,

that's aggressive not stock you know they're just like sometimes you don't want to you never accidentally like something lurk yeah like you never accidentally like some shit you're like fuck trust me exactly we don't like that so like you know uh-huh but so not even from your fin so you've never felt absolutely not neither have i neither by no no my hatred is all private

It is. It is. It is. But I'm going to plug on my podcast. We're going to be doing some public hating on there, but it's going to be all good. I'm just plugging that. We're going to be doing some public hating. Plug it right now. Yeah. I'm doing it. I'm doing it. We're going to be doing some public hating on my podcast coming next year. Yeah. So y'all just look out for that. If you do like hating, public hating, we're going to be doing a little bit of that. But all in good light and good like good, good hatred. Because see, the thing is, it's like there's two different kinds.

You know? Yeah. Like we can hate on you because you're doing good. And it's like, damn, you're doing good. I love that. I'm not doing that good. Fuck.

Yeah. Type shit. No, actually, that's very fucking true. No, I feel that. It's like I love the fact you're doing good, but damn, you're doing good. Yeah. Type shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. There's this girl that I envy how she's ran her business from top to bottom, and I heard some bullshit about her, like her fucking up. Part of me was a little bit excited and happy. Amen. And I had to check myself, though, and be like. No, you don't have to check yourself. You don't?

No, no, no. I'm not that type. That's like, that's different. Really? I feel like if you're taking pleasure. They're not going to understand it. They're not going to understand it. But just trust me.

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Alright, okay, Yachty. So, this has been a long time coming, though. Yeah. Because Kiana, you guys know, Sloot Media on the team, business partner, also one of my best friends. You've been chilling with Kiana for a really long time now. And finally, we're fucking recording together. What do you say finally? I wouldn't say finally because it's not like we've been trying to do it. I think like, I don't think we've been trying to do it. I just think we've been known to do it.

I think Kiana's been trying to keep you away from me. I don't think so. A little bit. I don't think so. I just think it just kind of was like, it would be like if I was like, bring Sophia to the studio. It was like. Oh my God. Can I go?

I don't think you would have been there. How much shit does Kiana talk about me, Bjarne? Actually, not any, to be honest. Really? Yeah, I think. Yeah. I feel like you're a zero bullshit type of guy, unless she really trained you coming in here. Nah, I mean, a few things that I won't get into.

But it's not like. But it's hating. No. It's not being mean. It's just hating. I don't even think it's hating. I think it is honest. Okay. I think it's honest. I think it's honest. But it's life. Yeah. You don't need to tell me exactly what it is like on this episode because like we're about to. That's fair. We won't even get into it. Are you subscribed to Sophia The Nav?

Actually, I am. And I have never watched this shit. But I am. I am. Because she told me to. And I did it instantly. Instantly. And you're still subscribed? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're not lying. No. Okay. I swear. That was a year ago. It's the only podcast I even have a subscription to. I'm putting that shit in my bio. I am so subscribed. And sometimes I'll be like, oh, episode just dropped. Should I listen? And she's always like, no.

Yeah, because it notifies me sometimes. And you're like, what the fuck is this? I'm just like, new episode, girl. Yeah, like, oh, y'all working? Is Iced Cedar proof?

The proof is in the pudding. I fucking love that shit. Damn, you just made my day. One time I saw the merch, I was like, I need that. And she never got it for me. But one time you have some merch. I thought it was so sick. And she never got it for me. You tell me what you need and it will be at your hotel room door tomorrow. Yeah. If I could have you rocking that and then with this podcast and I put in my bio like. Yeah, you'll be like, you'll be a certified hood chick.

Mm-hmm. Yeah, you'll be good. You'll be good. I'm just going to respond. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Okay, I want to talk about your mom. Sick. I was looking at her Instagram. Yeah, my mom's. I just got the phone number before I walked in here. You're super, super close with her. Yeah, she just sent me a video. She was wearing one of my jackets. I'm like, that's my jacket. She's like, what are you talking about?

Okay, so same shit with my mom. My mom wears all my shit. Yeah, my mom lives next door to me, so it's worse, probably. She just comes, walks over and comes in my closet. Yeah. Well, my mom will live with me for like a month at a time in my apartment and just wear my shit. That's like close quarters. Very close quarters. But I would love to just have her next door. I love my mom. My mom is such...

a great person. I can't imagine life without her, so. Yeah, I feel the exact same way. Are you closer to your mom or your dad? Absolutely. 100% your mom. Yeah, but, um...

I love my father, too. He's a great man. Yeah. You know, absolutely. Cannot relate. Do not talk to mine. But you know what? My mom makes up for it. So we're good. That is good. So with your mom, though, she runs your business to a certain degree. Yeah. I mean, it's not a dollar my mom doesn't see. OK. I'm in or out.

So she handles like from top to bottom. Oh, absolutely. Every dollar. How does that like, because my mom has been trying to do that shit with me for years. Be like on some Kris Jenner shit. Well, me and my mother just share accounts. So she sees everything, you know. She never like oversteps, like gets too involved. I wouldn't care. You wouldn't care? Absolutely not.

My mom took care of me for 18 years. I know. So, yeah, whatever. Has she ever tried to like... Oh, she spins. Spins? With a capital S.

But she can. That's my mother. Yeah, I totally get it. I would let my mother spend every dollar if she wanted to. Well, yeah, she should. Yeah, a lot of people don't say it that way, but I do. I actually feel the same way. Yeah, my mom lives a great life. The thing about my mom is she understands at the end of the day, it is my money, right? Mm-hmm.

I do a lot of fucked up things, you know, and she she'll try and sometimes step in the way, you know, sometimes. But like sometimes it's too far gone. Like what is a fucked up thing?

Are we talking like a lyric she doesn't like in one of your songs? No, no, no. My mom don't listen to none of my music. She don't even watch my interviews. My mom infiltrated. I actually emailed the guy myself. I'm like, why did you think that was okay? That's crazy. Yeah, my mom just handles the business. My mom doesn't listen to rap music. Well, that's smart that she doesn't listen.

I just think she knows that I'm a rapper and I'm probably not saying the best things. Yeah. So she's like, I don't think she's, my mom's not that nosy. She's nosy, but like, she's like, it's like, it's my job. Right. She's very weird. I don't have like the rapper excuse though. So I think my mom's like. Well, the excuse is that like it pays the bills.

It pays for this little apartment that you share with me and are living your New York lifestyle, mom. Yeah. Are your parents still together? Absolutely not. Not? My parents divorced when I was eight. Does your mom, since she lives next door, like do you see dudes and shit like pop over there? No, man. My mom, this is the thing why my mom is so great. My mother has never, ever brought a man around.

I think my mom just never crossed that boundary. I think she just never felt, she never wanted us to see her in that light. And I don't think she just, I don't know if she ever felt like any man was worthy because I'm sure she dated. She just kept it so private. And I appreciate it because I have no image of my mother being anything other than just a wonderful mother. Like nothing, I've never seen my mother ever hug or kiss another man.

Which, I mean, I think is smart because I know my mom struggled with that, like bringing dudes home because my brother's 11 years younger than me. Yeah, my sister's six years younger than me. Okay. So it's kind of like you can't really be bringing dudes home because then, you know, like your little sister gets attached or whatever. I think it just depends on the love. If it's real love, I mean, hey, you know, but like...

I mean, I think it was a great thing and I also think it hurt me in certain ways because I think in certain lights that I didn't, I wasn't the best at loving. You know, I was never the most romantic.

romantic, open-minded, cuddly sometimes, but like I'm not the most, I'm not the best with it because I've never seen it. You know, like I've never, I've never seen my parents kiss, hug, and I've never seen my mother do it with any man ever. I just didn't really see any love. Like she wasn't mean, but like love and like relationship shit, I just never saw it. Right. Nor did we ever talk about it. Right. Ever. So like I didn't really get any advice or pointers or watch parents and be like, oh, that's what love looked like. None of that. So,

Like, it didn't hurt me, but I also, I don't think it helped me be the best romantic. When it comes like relationships. I was kind of a late bloomer when it came to that type of shit, yeah. Yeah. How old are you? I'm 25. You are a baby. Yeah. That's crazy. But I mean, I agree with you. Like, I never saw like a functional relationship either. And...

My track record is astonishing when it comes to dudes. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. It's no. Does it sound like I'm bragging? I don't know. Astonishing. The word astonishing could just sound. Outstanding. I'm like, no, no, no, no. I think it used to be funny when I was younger. Yeah. I mean, YOLO.

I think now that I'm 30, it's less funny and it's like, let's get our shit together. You know what I think? I think genuinely that no one can judge you but yourself. Right? Like, and I mean, honestly, like who's to tell you that anything that you've ever done in your past that is beneath you? I know realistically and all jokes aside, I'm a good person. Yeah. I got a good heart. I know my intentions are always pure. I may not do the best things. I may not always make the right decisions. But like,

So fucking what? You know what I'm saying? I do right by my people. And I do right by myself. I promise I don't give a fuck what nobody else say. Ever. And I've made a lot of mistakes. I've done a lot of fucked up things. I see so many things on the internet about me.

in my life that is just so not true, so wrong and just so not real. It's not who I am as a man. None of them are like connect to my character traits, but it's the internet. And I'm never going to try and prove to somebody who I don't know how I handle my life or what kind of man I am or what I do. I don't care. It is what it is. Because at the end of the day, when we die,

None of those people are going to be on a funeral, right? None of those people are going to mourn or celebrate or any of that on an afterlife. So why do I give a fuck what you think about what I do in my personal life with the door closed? Right. Or what I did.

Whoever I did, what? It's none of your business. So how have you learned that ability to genuinely not give a fuck? I think it's deal with, I've been hurt. Yeah. Right? Like I've had a few situations. I came into music at 17. Now I've had a few situations when I got my feelings crushed over some internet shit. You know, and just been like so depressed.

Just so hurt. And then I started to grow as a man and realized, like, I think it was just, like, loving myself. To be honest, I didn't come from this life. You know what I'm saying? Like, I didn't just grow up getting all whatever the fuck I want, you know? So, like, I be... My life is...

is a blessing for your I'm not even the most religious person for real but like the life that I have is one that many dream of so like no matter what happens whether it's bad or somebody talking shit I don't I still know like my life is so good yeah my mom is retired you know what I'm saying my daddy work because he he want to I don't know my daddy crazy but like like like my people all my people good you know what I'm saying so like give a fuck for real

I feel like you... And these bitches musty. I'm sorry, what? And these hoes musty, for real. So, like, I don't care. Me pretending like I know what that means for two seconds. Man, these hoes be musty on the net. Talking shit. Talking shit in the comments. They be musty. Next time someone talking shit, you probably musty. Okay. Like, you probably got ash between your fingers.

Funky ass. You got to talk to people like that because like, how dare you disrespect me? You don't know me. You don't respond to them, though. Fuck no. I don't even read it. I don't even read my comments. Yeah, I used to. I don't read it no more ever. Yeah, you know, because I'm just I just expect people to hate. Now, I actually be surprised when people are nice.

People say nice things about me. I'd be so shocked because I'm so, I've trained myself that people are just so mean. No, I'm actually on that same level. Yeah, I'd be surprised when someone say like, oh man, his smile was nice or man, that was a cool outfit or man, he actually said something cool. I'd be like, oh, interesting, cool. But I don't even look no more for real. I don't, I'm so used to hatred.

I don't care. I'm on that same wavelength. I know I said I care about what people think, but when it comes to haters and shit, it does not. Yeah, I don't give a flying fuck. Yeah. The people that love you, all of your fans, right? They love you because you are you, right? And they always will. Yeah. For real. You know what I'm saying? I'll be so true to myself as a person. I'm so true to myself. I'll never front. And I don't lie.

Mm-hmm. I don't lie at all. You lie when you're scared. Yeah. You know? And it's okay to be scared, but, like, I genuinely don't find many reasons. But you'll own that shit. I just don't find many reasons to be scared. Yeah. You know, like, I don't be scared of the truth. I don't be scared if... I think everything is divine. Mm-hmm. You know? So, like, whenever I find someone, I'm like, man, this is a good person. I keep them in my life. Yeah. You know? Because it's, like, it's divine, and, like, you don't come across many good people. You don't. So...

Anytime anything happened, if it's the cause of a split past and a friendship or relationship or some bitch or whatever, it's life. It was supposed to happen.

Also, you started dealing with this type of shit and being in the spotlight when you were... 17. Started at 17 years old. So you've lived 50 lives already. Yeah, it's like dog years in the entertainment industry. Especially growing up so young, I was forced to just deal with so many things, so many situations and see so much shit. Right.

Yeah, dog. Yes, for sure. You just you get bulletproof. It's like, all right, everyone's not like this, you know, but I just I've dealt with a different type of hate. For real. They got me like Iron Man. I want to like go toe to toe and be like, who's dealt with more hate? I guarantee you.

I guarantee you, you have not dealt with more hate than me. I agree with that, but I still, I want to compare. Because people are just so mean. Yeah. Like in hip hop, that's just like for shit that like for no reason. Yeah. Nasty. Like just over the top. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wanting to. Save on Cox Internet when you add Cox Mobile and get fiber powered internet at home and unbeatable 5G reliability on the go.

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Okay, so you obviously are confident as fuck, don't give a shit, successful as fuck. And a lot of people that listen to the show... But I'm not arrogant. I'm just kidding. You're not at all. No, I'm not. You know, I think it's... For some reason, people blur the lines between confidence and arrogance. You did not walk in here arrogant at all. No, no, no. You walked in here with a tag on. Yeah.

Yeah. To return it later. Yeah. Yeah. We're going to get that money back. No, but you don't. You don't come off arrogant. Absolutely not. I got love. You do. But you are successful as shit. And the reason I'm pointing that out is because a lot of the people that listen to the show, the sleuths, like constantly. The who? The sleuths. Explain that. It's like a play on the word slut.

And my listeners, sleuths. We're like owning our sexuality, owning being sluts, but it's sleuths because my mom can't pronounce the word correctly. So we just ran with it. The sleuths are just calling each other sleuths just because. Is it like, okay, I fuck three niggas a week. I love that.

Or is it like, oh, I didn't got my back blown out by a football team and I'm okay with that? You know what I'm saying? All of the above. Okay. So are you saying I am proud of my whole being blown out? A thousand percent. The same way like you're proud of fucking, you know, five, ten bitches in a night. I respect that.

women can do the same shit. Yeah. Are you one? Are you? Tell me, tell me if you're one of these dudes. No, no, no, no. I think that is fantastic. Well, is she, is she to us? Laura?

are we all mean girls sleuth she is she is she no she's not it doesn't matter how sexually active kian is i would not say it's a lot that's another conversation but that is not what a slew a slew has nothing to do with how many or how little that's what i'm asking you if a girl sleeps her way up to the top yeah i love it

I don't fucking judge that. I just like successful women. Thank you. I don't like broke women. I haven't been with a lot of them. I like that. And they suck. A, usually they're very immature. Broke girls are. Yeah, like usually extremely immature. And then B, they just aren't very understanding of men.

of things like if you have to work or if you have to be here or like just like certain things they're very non-understanding you know dating someone who is not as successful you it's very hard for them to understand like if you're in entertainment it's like yeah I gotta film or I gotta get on this flight and go to the west coast or they're not that understanding right yeah is there a difference between being broke and just not giving a fuck or a broke chick usually people who don't give a fuck are broke

Okay. Yeah. And it's okay to not be rich. That is perfectly fine. But like when you do nothing and you just sit around waiting either A for someone to do something for you or you just don't care at all. You're just like, just a slob. I don't have no respect for you.

I respect working middle class people all the time and I treat everyone with respect. I just don't respect people who walk around with a handout. So it's not like a girl has to have a fucking huge bank account for you to be... No, she doesn't need to be on your level financially. No, absolutely not. I don't believe in that 50-50 gender role shit. Absolutely not. That's weird. I don't believe in that shit either. I think men should pay for everything. Yeah, everything.

No, I'm just joking. I do too. You do? Yeah, 100%. But not when it comes to a broke bitch. If you love her. No, but we don't love broke bitches because we're not attracted to them. Well, I think like, not me personally, but I feel like if someone, if you are in love with someone and that is the woman that you call yours, you have to provide for that woman, you know? Yeah. Now all the internet shit, all the like...

Kelly's and shit like that. Like it's, it's up to you. Like I think personal choice, I think that's a personal choice. Like I think do what you want to do. If that girl makes you feel like I love you, I want to go spin on you, do that. But I don't think it's obligated. I think the obligations are, you know, feeding, mentally fueling and, you know, just stimulating a woman is a, is a job of men. And if y'all have a family, then,

Then, you know, to put a roof over their head to feed them and again, to motivate and stimulate them both are your job. You know, when you also don't want to be with somebody who suck you dry.

Who what? Who sucks you dry. Like me personally, right? I think I look for, like, just like, I don't need anything. I don't, you don't got to do nothing for me. Just like, I think I'm big on like, A, communication. Because I don't talk in my real life. I don't think I say too many words, you know? Like, so I don't just someone to talk to and...

and to relate to and to like laugh with, you know, I don't go don't have many sad times. I'm not really ever depressed. I don't talk about I don't really talk too much. So yeah, like just someone to be so a friend for real, but also supportive, right? I think that's like, like a friend, you know, like a friend is the most important just to be a good person, you know, that I that I can trust.

Yeah, could you date a woman who was more successful than you? Absolutely. I never have, but I would. You would? Hell yeah. And the table's going to turn. Why? Because she's going to boss you around type shit? Bossing around is such a... It's so... Like I said...

But it's just like I've thought about it. Like, I know for a fact I wouldn't change. Like, if I was like, if someone came around who was like their last boyfriend was buying jets, like, I'm not renting you jets. You know, I don't change. You know, like, if you like me, you're going to like me for me. But I'm not going to start doing shit I don't do.

What are some of the best qualities in a woman? We know we don't like them to be broke. Yeah. The way broke comes out of your mouth is insane. It's like, bro. Yeah, it's like, bro. Please do not start with me. Please. That's fine. Okay. Okay. They can't be broke. I don't want to say that because I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to sit and act like every woman I've messed with had money. I've messed with so many broke women. Majority. Yeah. Majority.

Not the same way I say broke. Just for real. I'm not going to lie to you. It's the truth. I don't go after... I've never went after celebrities. I've never went after... And not that I'm nervous or scared of it. I just feel like they have all these men just showering with all these things. I'm not really trying to compete. Wait, you and I are the same fucking person. Yeah. I feel the same way. I've never tried to go after an athlete...

And I've had, like, situations where I could, like, any type of celebrity. Why? Because they want me to, like, suck their dick and then, you know, throw me out of their room. Yeah. I mean, that's not really what I'm trying to do. That's crazy. Out here. I get it. It'd be like that, too. Mm-hmm. So I've never really understood women who, like, that's their main goal. Yeah. You know? Well, I think people who...

Who haven't experienced certain things will sometimes will do anything. That's true. To even get an inch. Oof, I'm being judgmental a little. I'm not. I don't judge nobody ever. I do not care. I actually love, like, I love strippers and I love sex workers. I respect them. I do as well. I respect sex workers because...

Because they own that shit. I respect strippers. I respect porn stars. Because they own it. Yeah. What about the girls who, like, don't own it? And they're like, well, like, I have this guy. It's just like, it's a shame. Live in your truth. Like, I really, really, really, really respect Teyana Trump.

Yeah. More than a lot of women. I respect her more than a lot of a lot of she's she's a good friend of mine. I respect her because she'll get in front of any camera. Yeah. So what? I did it. Yeah. Never seen her have her hand out. She ain't asking for nothing. Yeah. So what? She don't care. She happy to. She came in and switched up the porn like every single dude that I would talk to like she took over. Do you have a specific type you like or is that private? What? So the type of porn? Mm hmm.

This is a safe space. You don't want to go there? You don't have to. Go where? I feel like you're saying I'm pussy. That's what you sound like you say every time you ask me something. I'm like, oh, you don't have to. That's me being respectful. I'm just saying, if you think I'm pussy or something. Okay, then tell us what kind of porn. Go for it. You know, the porn type of porn. Okay.

The type of porn that be porny. You don't have a go-to? We can pretend. The type of porn that be all porny and shit. You like porn, you don't want to get into the details? That's okay. I like, I mean, I just like, I like, uh... Gangbang. Nah, I don't like gangbangs. Just one guy, one girl? I like, I like big boobs. Okay. Yeah. It's hard to get beautiful women.

Because sometimes I'm trying to look for someone who is actually attractive, but you'll be looking for a very long time. You'll be looking for a very long time if you're actually looking for someone that you're actually attracted to in real life. Right. Yeah. And then you find them and then the way they're acting in bed is wild. So you have to keep searching. It's a whole situation. Yeah. Point is...

Like, it takes me a long time. It actually has been starting to take me a long time, too. Yeah. I mean, when I was younger and I was really heavy on the porn, I just had my favorites. I already favorited. But I don't watch it like I used to. Not because I don't like it. I just be so, like...

I just like my schedule is so reversed. I sleep all day and I'm up all night. When I get up, the sun is down and it's time to go to the studio. By the time I wake up, the sun has came down. People are winding down. I don't have time. I don't sit in the bed much. See, I live a similar lifestyle, except I'm not a rapper. So there's no fucking excuse. And I'm not hitting up the studio late at night. I just have insomnia. I like that. I'll be up to like 10, 11 a.m. Same. I'll do all nighters. You ever do one of those? All the time.

Same. Yeah. Doesn't it fuck with your sleep schedule though later? I don't know. It's just my life. Just last question. What are, because you are a successful guy, what makes you keep a girl around for a long time? I don't keep many women around for a long time to be honest. I do not last long with women at all. Genuinely, they are very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very short lived. Temporary. Like,

Usually, the average is one visit. So like if I have kept on around, I think we are just like, I'm not actually the most sexual person. Right. So it's nothing sexual. You know, like I am so unsexual.

And I sound so boring, but it's the truth. I'm just such a not sexual person. I think it is just good conversation. I love to laugh. You know, I love laughing, you know, and just being silly and just being who you are. Right. So like whatever that is, it's like...

Because I deal with, as a rapper and in that industry, it's just so much pretend, right? It's so much pretend and so much fraud. So I think to absent around, if you've been around more than two or three visits,

realistically, you're in this for the long haul. Well, I think it's just like you're someone that I can be my I can do my things around because I usually like, I'm a type of person like I have a routine. So if someone wants to come around, like I'm still doing the same things I do. So you can adapt to like, me being in the studio all night or just playing a game or just like, I like I'm it's weird. I kind of like my space.

Right? You have to be alone? Not be alone, but just do my things that I do. A lot of women are like, why are we not doing this or doing that? Why are you not cuddling? Why are you just so distant? It probably don't work. You're in a block. You're in with a block? I need someone who is like, we could be in the same room, but we don't have to talk for real. That's the best. That's me now. Yeah, we could just like...

Like, we breathe the same air. We don't have to, like, be, like, fucking. Because a lot of times I won't, I don't have sex.

I think women probably think I'm gay. Because sometimes I'm just, I'm just I don't care that much. It's like I don't I think a lot of times women think if they fly on to you like that we have to have sex or like that's on my mind. Right. Sometimes I just like to see what someone is like, or even if I can be around him because I usually can't. I got such an interesting concept because I think women Yeah, they think that and then if a dude is not

trying to like get in their pants 24-7 they're like what's wrong with me he's not into me blah blah it's like no like maybe he's just not trying to be doing that 24-7 you know but girls put it on themselves to like feel bad about it I've just had so much sex that like it's diluted to me I understand that as well yeah like it's just it doesn't even it's not what it used to be like I get off more on just really laughing

Like, because laughing is so good to laugh and it's a real laugh. And it's like, yeah, we're laughing together at something. Or my way of showing love is also like I'm an aggressive shit talker. So like, like, it's weird. But like, I think one of my love languages is just I am always making fun of someone. Okay.

They need to add that to the five love languages is just talking shit. Yeah. Being bullied. It's anyone I love or care about. I always I'm on the ass. I love that. But also, I find that really, really fucking refreshing that you're like, I care about conversation. I think women around the world needed to hear that. Sex doesn't last that long. It doesn't.

I don't know. Some niggas might be in that bitch for an hour. Shouts out to you. I don't want to be that person. Do you have a job? I don't know. I don't want to be that person. I never want to have sex for an hour ever. I don't care. I say what you want. That's a lot. I don't want to be in the bedroom for 60 minutes plus. Like, I don't want a whole album to go by and we're still having sex. That means either you're not, something's wrong with you or something's wrong with me, right? So after the sex is done,

Unless it's paid for and it's like a hooker and they leave out there and you guys do have to be in that room together. Right. Or in that house together or something. So what happens then?

You know? Yeah. If it's uncomfortable, are you ready for this person to leave? Mm-hmm. Because a lot of times I am. Mm-hmm. So that's like already a sign. And how do you, do you just tell them to get the fuck out? I'm not a real person, but I usually make something up. Make, oh, you make something up. You're not just like straight up. Or I just go to the studio. People can't stay in the studio too long. Mm-hmm.

Take somebody to the studio, you just like make them feel it. And they're coming over after like... Oh no, they usually leave. Yeah. The studio is harsh. It is. Especially if I invite all my niggas. Bunch of niggas. Is it a party? Just a bunch of niggas. Okay. There's a bunch of niggas. Negroes. Mm-hmm. Bunch of gross. Okay. Thank you for the abbreviation. Yeah, a shit ton of gross.

It's a good place. Me sweating bullets like I don't know what to do right now. I'm fucking around. I'm fucking around. But okay, this actually been fucking great. So let's answer some of these questions. And the sleuths. So are you ready for this one? Because they're really looking for your insight. Mine a little bit. Okay.

Hey, Sophia, my boyfriend wants to have an open relationship on his end. Only one to two times per month. No emotional connection. We have been dating for a year and have a great connection, great communication, and are literally each other's best friends. We both can see the flaws in traditional relationships where things get boring and breakups become inevitable. He is a high-powered businessman with money and feels like he needs to keep that competitive edge.

Do you think it's possible for men to be monogamous? And am I dumb for agreeing to this arrangement? No, I mean, no. I believe in like whatever you and your partner agree on. That is whatever works best is the way to go, right? Like I never go off a traditional shit with your best friend is doing it. Like do what y'all think, right? But don't do it because he wants to do it. Right. I think do it because you guys both want to do it. As long as it is a...

on both ends. Mm-hmm. Not like, just like he wants, like basically he wants free sex passes and you like really don't want to do it. Right. Because then you'll just get jealous. Well, I just don't like how she phrased it, an open relationship on his end. On his part, right. Baby girl, that's not an open relationship. That's like he has... Yeah, you're giving him passes. Yeah. Mm-hmm.

So there might be a little delusion here, but what do you think about when she asks, do you think it's possible for men to be monogamous? Absolutely. Wait, like just be with one person? Mm-hmm. I can only speak for myself. And you think it, yes or no? I don't know. I don't know either for women either. I don't know. Forever? Forever?

That's what I always think about. I don't know. I don't know. I do not know. I like I know people from high school that are getting married now that have kids that were dating when we were in high school. I would like to check back on your friend 20 years from now. Is he still being monogamous?

I don't know. I don't know. My grandparents have been together for a long time. Mine too, actually. Really? But do we think that they've been monogamous? I don't know. I just think back in the day, you couldn't see the bitches over in L.A. The internet ruined it all, but we can't sit and mope about it. It is what it is. Well, I don't even think monogamy was ever like... Ever? I don't think it's natural. I don't. Hmm.

I think for a certain period of time, especially like if you're raising kids or some shit like that. But I think over the course of however many years. Well, some people just don't need, aren't interested in what other people are like. You know, like some people are. You know, like some people are like, oh, yeah, you make me happy. You know, and some people are like, this is cool, but I wonder what it's like with Joe. Mm-hmm. You know? I feel that. Or Phil. Mm-hmm. Does he feel me up better? Mm-hmm.

yeah so okay so to answer this girl's question i agree with you i think if you guys have come to a understanding and you guys both feel good about it do whatever the fuck you want like who cares what anybody says fuck what anyone else thinks yes do what you want we got work for you guys yeah i envy i envy happy relationships

Me too. That's just a fact. That's my honest truth. If I haven't said nothing true, I mean, everything I've said was true, but if I haven't said nothing true, I envy long-lasting, happy relationships. I do too. But I feel like we don't need to envy. We can get there.

One day if we want therapy, maybe I'm not sure. All right, girl. I hope that answered it. I think we did. Just don't just don't be delusional about it. Girlfriend. Yeah, because her saying like, you know, he's a businessman and like he needs to keep that competitive edge. What the fuck does that mean? Like, okay, take up cocaine. Like, I mean, there's a lot of different things this guy can do. Or codeine.

Yeah, take that one up to like whatever it's not take codeine or cocaine one in two C's. Yes, exactly.

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Okay, next question. Hey, Sophia, is it bad to fuck a guy that you know has a girlfriend? I really don't feel bad at all. I don't owe the girl anything and it's not my fault. She has a shady ass boyfriend. Gangsta. It's so crazy that she can call him shady and then be like, yeah, but I'm gonna fuck him. That's so crazy. Because she's just in it to fuck though, right? Yeah, but like, damn, you're fucking him and you still think he's shady? Yeah.

I mean, it's all about morals, right? Could you fuck a girl that has a boyfriend? Absolutely. But that's just because I don't give a fuck at all. You know? Like, I don't think nothing, I think nothing lasts forever anyway. Okay, let's say you are in a committed relationship. But I never fuck my homeboy's girls.

Okay. Facts. You draw the line when it comes to your friends. If they are my friends, absolutely. I respect that. Absolutely. I'm the same way. Yeah. But I don't know. Is it bad to fuck a guy that you know has a girlfriend? I know this is going to sound fucked up, but like, I don't really think it's the girl's fucking, it's not her shit. Gangsta. More women need to be like that.

I don't know. Yeah, I mean, maybe, but it's just like, you know... I hate when women try to be the bigger person and DM somebody. Oh my God. I hate coming to you as a woman as a woman. I fucking hate that shit too. Do not come to nobody as a woman. Absolutely not. That's actually the most annoying shit. If you, like...

Don't do that. Because why are they really doing that? I just don't get it. Like, I don't get the purpose here. What's the purpose? Snitch. If you ain't interested, don't be interested. It's because they got pissed that, like, the dude didn't end up, like, leaving their girl for her or whatever. Nah, man. People be trying to just, like, I don't know. It is stupid when girls do that, for sure. I feel like just don't do it in the first place. If you feel the need to, like, go reach out to the girl, just do it.

But I really don't feel bad at all. I wouldn't feel bad, honestly. And it's not like they're married. As long as you have no ties, like if you don't know her, right? Like that ain't your home girl. You don't owe her nothing. Basically, Slu, it is not. I don't personally think that it's your fucking cross to bear when it comes to that shit. Like he's obviously being shady. He's going to do it with you or someone else. YOLO.

YOLO. You only live once. YOLO. Okay. For real. This is our last question. Are we ready for this shit? Let's hear it. Here we go.

I'm not so stupid.

She's stupid as fuck. If someone is telling you that he like you, don't be a dumb bitch. But the guy isn't telling her he likes her. His friend is telling her. If he's being honest, I respect him. Because he's like looking out like, hey,

He likes you. That's real. Absolutely. I mean, talk about, I don't know. I can't only speak for myself. I've talked to my friends about liking somebody. Okay. All my friends, they know who I'm messing with. Right. And there's a chance that like one of your friends would maybe like say something to her like, hey, Yachty's really into you. No. Okay. No, they don't get out of place. That's how it is getting out of place.

But you guys talk about it. Yeah, but none of my niggas would go and be like, yeah, by the way, he really likes you. But that's some heist. That's like some heist bullshit. But I respect them doing it because he just, I don't know. They on that type of time. But none of my niggas would do that. Nah, because they don't know what I'm doing. And they don't know what we got going on. I could tell somebody I like somebody, but they're not going to know the magnitude. Yeah. You know, we're not sitting around all day.

drinking lean talking about women would there be an ulterior motive for this dude to go up to the girl and be like hey my my friend really likes you like for real just to make sure his friend keeps getting pussy maybe i don't know i don't know it don't help him none for sure i know so i feel like it's like an honest thing yeah he's probably just like fucking certified lover boy

This guy likes you, bottom line, and stop second guessing yourself. It's weird. It don't seem like she like him back, though. I think she might be putting up a front.

A little bit. But we don't know enough. You know what? If you're listening to this, give us a follow up with more details and Yachty and I will record an episode later and we will get back to you. Yachty, you're fucking hilarious. I love the fit. I love our chemistry. I can't wait for our podcast to come out. And where you have an album. God bless all the black people.

God bless. God bless. God bless all the black people listening. And not listening. And not listening. Just black people, period. Mm-hmm. We can edit like that. Look, God bless all. I hate plugging like music and shit like that. Okay, you don't want to talk about your album? Yeah, I don't care about that shit. Okay, fuck it. Because my shit going to do what it do regardless. Okay. Like God bless all the black people and white people, but black people first.

I actually fully support that. Black people first. All right, Sleuths. I will talk to you guys next week. You know where to find me. So we have an F, Franklin with a Y. I need to get on Yachty's level and not feel the need to plug myself. Next time it's going to be silence for me. All right, Sleuths. Love you so much. Yachty, thank you for coming on. Thank you. Thank you.