70: Train Your Brain to Orgasm FAST ft. Stella Barey 54:06

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I am back with my most favorite person in the entire world. She was on last week, Stella Barry. Stella, the amount of feedback that I got from last week's episode, people were obsessed with you. - I'm so flattered. - I kinda wanna make you a co-host a little bit. - I will happily. - You will? Will you? - Dude, I would be on anytime. - Please. - You have no idea that this is my dream country.

Okay, guys, there's a new podcast coming soon. Maybe let me just introduce you again. I'm such a professional. Can you guys tell? Stella Berry, you guys, she is an OnlyFans superstar. And I mean superstar. I mean top 0.01% type shit. Okay? She's the anal princess.

She's a porn queen and huge social media following when she's allowed to be on social media. When I'm not deleted and banned on everything. But now the people know who I am even when I'm literally wiped off the face of the internet, which blows my mind. That's insane. And like even after I was deleted on TikTok, people were still messaging you like to have me on, which makes me so happy. Oh my God, that is kind of crazy. I know. So last week we...

could have talked for 12 hours. We just didn't get to talk enough. And, um,

We had to continue. I was like, I am not letting this bitch go back to Puerto Rico, which by the way, why do you live there? Did we ever cover that? - No, we didn't. - Okay. So I was living in California when COVID hit and I had just paid taxes on like the first six months that I did OnlyFans and I was devastated. Like all my savings were just depleted. And then so I Googled like how to pay less taxes.

And I start listening to all these financial podcasts and I learned that Puerto Rico is the only place in the world right now that a US citizen doesn't have to pay federal taxes. So I literally moved that month. - You don't get scared, you don't get lonely, you don't get-- - I just need a thrill. I need that. I also love, when I moved to Puerto Rico, I brought my boyfriend.

So at least I had him and he's an ex-Marine. So I felt very safe with him. - Right, right, right. - I think I probably wouldn't have moved there if I was just like a single girl alone. - Yeah, okay, so that does help for sure if you have a partner and you're moving around, but. - And now I just like, even if I'm not exclusive with him now, I still, if I move somewhere, I'll just like bring him and he can just take care of the property. - Right, right. - He's like my personal security and my assistant and like gives me sex.

Which I prefer men that don't have a job because they could just focus on me. Wait, you sound like those like fucked up husbands that like don't want their wife working so they never leave. And they can just keep them. A little controlling. A little bit. Ha!

No, I'm like, do whatever you want. Like, don't do anything at all. Like, just live your best life. I just it's not that I like to, like, take jobs away from men. I just love men that just don't want to work. They don't have that. Yeah, just like broke and hot. Yeah, guys, reminder, Stella's boyfriend is a homeless person. I guess now he's not homeless anymore. He's now homed with a porn star in a penthouse.

Damn, he got it made. Yeah, he's like, wow. I mean, before me, he had a sugar mama for eight years that was like a billionaire.

Like so rich. Yeah. Was she sexy? Was she older? Yeah, she was a redhead. He was 22. She was 44. She was bipolar like him. Okay. And they were just like wild together and they were horny as fuck. So they would like, they have the craziest sex stories that I could never even imagine experiencing. Like they would fuck everywhere. So do you think that

like that has something to do with the bipolar? - A lot of bipolar people I know are like super fucking sexual, especially when they're manic. - Oh, that's what I was gonna ask. - It's like, they're the horniest people on the planet. - They just go wild. You know what that's making me think of is,

Do you ever like fuck on drugs on your OnlyFans or just in general? No, because, well, there's two reasons. The very first is that you can't do anything on OnlyFans. And I think probably a lot of main porn sites if you're under the influence of something. But you don't have to tell them. You don't have to tell anybody. Yeah. So then the second. But if you like to market it like that, no. Second of all, like I don't really do drugs or drink drugs.

ever oh you don't like I drink really rarely um like I drink on a trip right now when I'm here with Sawyer my manager oh you'll be having fun yeah or with my mom she always makes me drink wine like I am not allowed to not drink wine with her okay but then when I'm alone at home for like four months at a time I never drink I've always dated stoners so I've gone through stoner phases but I don't

weed makes me anxious and I'm just not, I'm like a pretty, I need to have energy. And my sober self loves life, is so productive, is super kinky, really confident. So I just like being sober. - Can't relate. - That being said. - Can't relate. - I did microdose Molly the other day on accident. I didn't know, like the person told us that it was shroom microdose chocolates, but then the woman came up, she's like, they're actually Molly chocolates. And then I had a threesome on a rooftop at the hotel,

the whole, like I did an all nighter fucking on the hotel rooftop. I did feel like one, the lights looked really pretty, but two, I was so fucking horny. Like horniness took over. Every, every time anybody like kissed me, like touched my vagina, my whole body was just like,

I've had, I think the longest I've ever had sex was when I was on Molly and I'm not kidding. It was like, it was eight hours straight. Oh my God. And it felt really, really good. Last episode, we kind of ended off with you giving tips on how to feel more comfortable with yourself in front of a camera, whether that's, you know, taking a nude or doing a video. Have you always felt that? Were you just the boundaries? Like you really have no boundaries. Yeah.

I actually say the same shit about myself, not sexually, just in life. And the drugs and partying is fucked up. But you know what I'm saying? Were you always like that? I have always been a very curious person. So it wasn't always on camera. I never was always comfortable on camera or showing things to other people. But I've always been so sexual. And that's just part of my curiosity. I ask questions about a lot of things. And I'm...

I'm just a curious person. So when I was 13, I lost my virginity and it was so cute. Like we were both curious. It wasn't like this, like we weren't acting anyway. We were so comfortable with each other. We just wanted to see like what it was like for him to like try and put his penis inside me. Then after that, I was really curious about what sex looked like for other people. So I started watching porn and I would look up like

really sweet porn so wait you're trying to tell me that at 13 you were watching porn that's on like a dial-up computer oh no you're oh wait you're young you're very young oh yeah you're 23 right yeah okay see i'm old and i'm like damn if i was doing that at 13 and be like a dial-up i had a computer dude i swear at that point i had a laptop because i remember watching it in my bed

So I honestly think I had a laptop at that point. Okay. And you lost your virginity at 13. I've always been curious. And like from then on, I was that way sexually. I just wanted to know what people were like in bed. Did you? And this is too intimate. You do not need to answer. You guys didn't have an orgasm.

No. Oh my God, I don't think I had... It was just... I had orgasms... It was like two kids just trying things out. He didn't even have an orgasm. Right. Even the first times I gave him blowjobs, I remember he wouldn't orgasm. I'd be like, am I doing something wrong? Right. He would have to jerk off at the end to come because he didn't fucking know what to do. He was 13 also. Right, right, right. He didn't know...

like how to cum in a girl's mouth, he was terrified. - Yeah. - So it was just like us exploring our bodies together, which I think is adorable. But I was in my shower like every night holding the shower head on my pussy. - That is the go-to. - And orgasming. And I did that one time 'cause I was washing myself and I started to feel crazy and I thought I was having a seizure.

Like I thought I was about to faint. - Oh my God. - And then it passed and I was like, oh, this is what an orgasm is. This is what my mom told me like happens to women when they touch themselves. - Isn't that crazy your first orgasm, how it feels and it's like, what the fuck? - I will chase that feeling for the rest of my life. - Forever. Yours was the shower head, mine was I was in a jetted tub. - Yep, the water.

My mom actually told me when I was really little that I started doing that, like in the bath with her. And she like told me like, there's a lot of girls I meet. They're like, yeah, I used to like when I was in first grade, I used to hump the tables and chairs in school. And like the teachers would be like, what the hell is she doing?

What was she doing? I actually, I was hooking up with girls when I was really young. I feel like I've heard you say that before. Yeah. Why? I don't know. It's a curiosity as a kid, I think. Yeah, I guess. I think I must have met one girl who initiated it. And then I started just doing it with all of my girlfriends. I didn't, I wouldn't touch a guy. No, actually, I'm like, no, listen up. This is literally like, let's be all lesbians. Yeah.

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Your cash back really adds up. When did you have that light bulb moment where you decided I'm not going to work a regular job, quote unquote, I'm going to get naked and fuck on a camera? I think it was...

It was like a lot of different things at one time while I was living in LA and doing pre-med. It was going to the sex parties and meeting all of these girls that are in porn or are just like Snapchat girlfriends, like give girlfriend experience to men through Snapchat and they pay them, you know, $10 a month each, which is kind of the,

the model before OnlyFans blew up. And just seeing how they made an okay living. I wasn't meeting anyone who made crazy money, but I was like, their lives look kind of cool. And I'm very curious to know what it's like to be in that world and to succeed in that world and challenge myself. And I was just so curious about it. And I was also very bored with what I was doing. - How old were you? - I was 21. - Okay. - And I just graduated college.

And at the same time, I'm going to those sex parties. I have a friend that is introducing me to other porn people too. And then I'm with that 44-year-old guy that's like, the first time I've really been with a super perverted guy. I've always been with men that are more sexually knowledgeable than I am because I like learning. But this guy was a perv. But he was, I mean, he'd been molested when he was young and he was a sweetheart, but he was like, had very interesting personality.

things he wanted me to play. Like he wanted me to be mommy and he wanted to be baby. There were times he like, I never did this one, but he wanted me to potty train him like truly on like a little toilet and like make him show me his poop and stuff. I've actually heard about this before. It's a king for some people. It is. And it was just, and then there were other times like he wanted to be daddy and I would play baby. And that taught me a lot about what I'm into because I loved that dynamic of him being so...

authoritative and masculine and telling me everything to do. So he also just showed me my, this like deeper perverse side in me. - That had a huge influence on you though. - Yeah, it gave me a lot more confidence knowing what I'm actually into. 'Cause when you're young, there's like things that feel good and whatever, but you don't really know what it is. And then as you're getting older and trying new things, you find stuff that actually

sets off something in your brain. And you're like, I'm fucking addicted to this. Yes, yes. And so it was all of that at the same time. And I was like, I'm good at this. Like, I'm confident in this world. I fit in with all these people. Like, these are some of the people, best people I've ever met. Like, I don't get along with a lot of people. And I, at the same time, did not like...

the majority of the kids in my science classes. I was like, these people are judgmental and like stressed out about nothing. And I just don't relate to them at all. - You've always been very open-minded it seems like. - Yeah, I've been really open-minded and I've just always wanted to challenge myself. If I get stuck into something, it's so boring to me. And I'm like, this is gonna be my life. Like I'm gonna look back someday and be like, wow, like great job pushing yourself. I just wanna do crazy shit and see what happens.

So that's the tagline. I just want to do crazy shit and see what happens. You know, I'm going to be screaming that all night tonight in the back of the Uber. Because I feel like there's so many people have this pressure, especially all the people I witnessed in at UCLA doing pre-med. There's so much pressure to do things right. Right. And it's like,

what is really gonna happen if you don't? Like people think, I actually did think this for a second. I was like, what if I post my porn online and my life just like, I feel like my life ends. Like what happens after you make your life fucking end? Like what do you, after you make that decision, you can't come back from? Because people kind of think it's like,

the end. But it's not. You wake up the next day and what do you do? And I love that type of thing. So you were never scared. You were never scared. Oh, I'm going to do this and I had I had panic attacks for like three months every single night when I first started doing this because I was like, I know what's right and I know what I want to do and I know what makes me feel alive. But do I need to take an account

what society thinks. Like, does it matter what society thinks or does it not? Am I destroying my whole life or am I making the best risky decision of my life? It turns out I was making the best risky decision of my life. And it was a calculated risk. But I had to justify that to myself every single night for like three months. And it was terrible. But now it made me realize like,

- How worth it. - It made me justify it to myself every night and just see what happens. - Yeah, I totally relate to that on some level. When I started my first podcast and it was so explicit and so sexual,

I remember the night before an episode would drop, I would just be sweating, having the biggest panic attack. Whereas now you probably wouldn't at all. Now I don't bat an eyelash. Because you know like nothing bad is going to happen. But in the beginning, even if you like your content and you know it's right, the internet and the world is just an unpredictable place. And they're mean. Yeah.

They're fucking mean. Yeah, now like I have the thickest skin. Like I don't give a fuck what anyone says. Yeah, I know. And I think that having those three months of being terrified made me that way. Like I'm like, you can tell me all you want about how you think the sex industry is bad if you're not in it. But until you've gone through the fact of like doing it and being yourself in it and realizing you're a great person and this is an amazing industry with amazing people and actually helping a lot of lives, then like I'm not going to take what you say seriously. Right. It just doesn't matter to me. I already know like

that a lot of people don't, my mom's a doctor. A lot of people don't like what she does. A lot of like her neighbor tells her the doctors are the devil. So like no matter what you do in the world, whether you're the president of a country, you will find haters somewhere. So like you can't aim for everybody to approve of what you're doing. No one will. Yeah. I,

I think that I got thick skin when that whole fucking blow up happened and I was dragged through. I still don't haven't been through something like that. Like, yes, I've canceled myself on a certain level to certain people that think sex workers are demons.

But I've never, like, by people I thought were my fans or, like, my demographic been totally, like, put through the mud. And I just can't imagine. I can't believe you're sitting here today. It was so traumatizing. Sometimes I don't know how I'm sitting here, too. It was the feeling of misery.

millions of people hating you is a wild fucking feeling. Yeah, it's not just a couple TikTok comments. No, and it was my listeners that I love. Do you look back though and just, are you so proud of yourself that you made it through? Because I look back at certain things like getting my first accounts deleted, like,

telling my mom I was doing porn and her at first being terrified. Well, the first day she thought that I was crazy. No, she was like, you need to go to a psych unit. Like, this is not my daughter. Like, what's happening? You know, so I was a really just goody two-shoes kid. Like, she knew I was wild and snuck out every fucking night to go clubbing in high school or like had sex really young. She knew that. But like,

- She didn't know that I was perverted enough to do fucking porn on the internet. - So to tell your mom, like one, it's just hard to tell a parent that you're doing porn because of what society thinks. But two, it's like a very intimate topic talking about what you're into in sex and that you like to film yourself having sex. That's so fucking hard. - My mom for the first six months was pissed.

And after every episode, she would have a list of things. You shouldn't have said this. Next episode, don't say this. She would come, the F word, you use that way too much. I'm like, mom, what the fuck? What are we, really? Yeah, let me stop saying the F word. Get the fuck out of here. But it's so, with parents, it's so hard because it's,

you're happy they're communicating with you still. Like the fact your mom was even still talking to you. - Yeah. - Like that's how I feel with my mom. She'll still message me and be like, "You've..." And I'm talking about her right now. She's like, she literally sent this two weeks ago. She was like, "You need to stop talking about me and your little brother. It is disturbing and affecting our health negatively." - You're like, "Mom, look at my bank account. Look at yours. Get back to me."

So, but I'm just like happy she's still talking to me. Like I'm just so, and she's really supportive of me. Now she is. Yeah. She doesn't approve of everything I do at all. It disturbs her a bit. Recently she said she might want to go to therapy to deal with it, but she still like knows I'm the same person and she knows I'm mentally stable and I'm happy and that's all she really cares about. Yeah. So she's really sweet. Also like,

Money does talk. So once you start making money, your family's like, oh, like they're not that crazy. Like they're making, you know, they can support themselves. Yes. And then I started paying like I've paid her rent some months. I just paid off her credit card debt. I paid my brother's tuition at NYU. So, yeah, I helped her a lot. That's really sweet. And and she's a doctor. But like they don't make that much money these days. Not compared to fucking porn stars. Wait, is she? Yeah.

The world's fucked up. It is so fucked up. Is she your doctor? Like, does she do your vagina stuff? She has put in... Vagina stuff. Excuse me, gynecologist. No, she does all my vagina stuff. She's put in all five of my IUDs and taken them out. Oh, amazing. She...

just check those checkups on me all the time. Like anytime I need anything, I actually have strep throat right now. I just figured out I had it yesterday. Everyone in this room is like, yeah, no, but, but this thing it's strep group B, which you get from the intestines. Okay. Okay. Eating ass. So it's not contagious unless we kiss. It's not airborne. So you're fine. It's not airborne. You get it from eating. Yeah. Cause strep group B is carried in the intestine. And that's why it's hard to have my mom as my doctor.

because I have to have to tell her again. Hey mom, like I think I have strep. She's like, what the fuck? You're eating ass again? She's like, what are you doing? And it's not even like just eating ass. Like it's usually going ass to mouth. Like when a guy sticks his dick in my butt and then into my mouth. Right. And I like going back full circle, no boundaries. I don't give a fuck about that until I have strep.

Like I don't, and then I've still had strep like five times and still every time I'm like, this is so fucking hot. Like I just want to look in his face while I suck like my butthole off his dick. Wait, that, I,

That is fucking insane. So you can get strep from the guy. No one knows this because no one does that. I had no clue. No one does it. I had no clue. So there's different types of strep. Yeah. Strep group A is the normal type of strep most people get. Okay. And B is you got it from eating ass. It's carried in the intestine. Kids sometimes get it from like weird things and whatever. But as an adult. No, they're eating ass. Yeah. Oh, they're eating ass. Everyone's eating ass. I'm just kidding. Everyone's eating ass.

Everyone's fucking eating ass. Five-year-olds are eating ass. 100%. Honestly, five-year-olds probably do like eat shit a lot. They probably fucking do, honestly. It's like not that crazy. It's probably why they get it.

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Speaking of eating ass and just ass in general, you are the anal princess. Okay. And it seems from what I've heard, you really, really enjoy anal. And we didn't really get to dive into it. Yeah. I could talk about anal forever. I've made a TikTok at least one TikTok a day for the last two years talking about anal. It's just endless. Every day for two years? Every fucking day. At least one TikTok.

- What position is best for anal? Is it you on your knees doggy? Is it you laying flat on your stomach? Like what's the best one? - When I lost it and how it just felt so good to me when I lost my virginity and how I tell everybody to do it, my anal virginity is laying flat on your stomach,

fully relaxed. Okay. Like a position where you can just relax your whole body and then he comes from above and like slowly slides it in. Okay. But then as you get better, you can do missionary and doggy and they're not as hard. I think getting into doggy and having him stick his dick in, it feels really good. No, it can feel really good, but not your first time. Not your first time. So startling thought. Think about how a big dick can feel in...

your pussy in doggy. Like it feels bigger. So yeah, laying flat, the way you can relax is best missionary. I think is a level up from doggy and then cowgirl fucking crazy. Like riding is so, especially like sitting on his dick.

- That's hot. - At the first position, if like the first position where he's going in your butt, you're sitting down on his dick, that is the hardest shit in the whole world. - Up on your feet, squatting and your pussy's like in his face. - Yeah. - Oh my God, that's fucking hot. - It is really fucking hard to do, but it's like the pro levels. - Wow. - And the first time I ever did it, I've ridden a lot, like I've ridden Drew a lot, but he would be fucking me and Doggy or something and then we'd switch and I'd be on top.

And what's fun actually with anal is like to keep his dick in you the whole time and have him turn you around on his dick from doggy to missionary and then have you sit on top. Right. I love even when a guy keeps his dick in your pussy. Yeah, exactly. There's something so hot about it. And same with anal. It's good. But the first time I ever did it where I was sitting down on a dick for the very first position was on camera with Alex Adams for my first live.

one of my first videos with him. I think my very first, I think it might've been on Pornhub, but I don't know. I don't, I think it was just for OnlyFans, but it was terrifying and it hurts so fucking bad. And I just, I just dealt with it. And you're on camera and have to act like, I,

You're crying. Dude, I was dying. Okay, so do you prefer anal to vaginal sex? I hate to say that I do because I love all sex. But you do. And there's different purposes. But I fucking love anal because I love it is the most intense, intimate, taboo sex I've ever had. It's like if you want to be fully dominated by a man.

you will not get anything like how you do with anal.

It's so, you are a puppet on his dick. Like you can't, you can't have one single thought except like survival and there is something in my butt. And like, you can't think to move your body. Right. He's in control. Yeah. You can't make hot. The sounds I make when I have pussy sex versus anal is completely different. Do you sound like you're in pain during anal a little bit? Not really, but I'm breathing through it. Like I am, I don't even know what the sounds are, but they're just coming out so I can survive like and relax my body. Okay. I'm thinking.

I'm thinking about the few times I've done anal and I do remember actually thinking in my mind like deep breaths. Yes. Deep breaths. Deep breaths. It's like the only thing for me at least I don't do drugs and shit but it feels like a drug. Like it makes you high because I think

one, you have to work on relaxing your body, which is just a good practice anyway. Like your body feels amazing when you focus on just fully relaxing. Yes. And two, you are, the moment he's sticking in your butt, you're like, fuck, this is real. Like this is the present moment. This is the challenge that I have to survive. Like there's no just getting by. Like normal pussy sex, you can think about your to-do list. You can get bored. Like you can just be

Think about other things, you know? Yeah. Anal is just not possible. Like, you're so in the moment. That's such an interesting take because vaginal sex, you don't, you really can just think about whatever the fuck you want. You can think about, so many girls are not like in the present moment. At all. Do I sound hot? Like, do I look hot? Blah, blah, blah. Exactly. Anal, you're right. It's like, how am I going to like survive this one? Literally. And then after anal...

You, one, are proud of yourself. Two, you've been relaxing your body for however long it was. It was probably two minutes because it's so tight that he comes immediately. But the rest of the day, I have no anxiety, no aches and pains. I feel like a puppy following around with googly eyes like, Dad.

I love you. And like, just no, no worries in the world. Why? Because you went through something so intense that the rest of the day is a breeze. Yeah. I feel like it's so intense that it's, it gives you this high afterwards. Everyone get your morning anal. Dude, morning anal is the best. I swear. And it's also just being so dominated. Like that's why people go to dominatrixes and stuff, which personally is not like my kink.

But I got that need filled through anal where you just feel so dominated by someone. It gives you... You know how they say like powerful women like to be the opposite in the bedroom? Because it gives them a break from playing that role. It's the same with anal. Like just to have time where you're not in control of anything and someone else is dominating you, you can come out of it and just feel more relaxed. I could...

I could totally see that. I mean, I needed, I haven't done anal in years. So I feel like I need to dive back into that. You need to dive in. But yeah, morning anal is also the best because you do it right when you wake up before you even get out of bed. And you like, I swear it's because you haven't stood up yet. So like your stool, your poop has not, has not shifted downward. That was going to be my next question. Every time I've had anal first thing in the morning before I even get out of bed, like right when I wake up, he just sticks his dick in my butt. It's perfectly clean.

Okay. Without any preparation, nothing. That's the biggest tip ever. And people are like, no, but I shit in the morning. I'm like, yeah, me too. Like I have coffee and I go to the bathroom immediately. But if you do it right when you wake up before you even like stand up, it's always clean. Wow. Okay. So that's a huge tip. Insider information for the anal sluts. For the anal sleuths. The anal sleuths. Wait, that's such a good fucking tip. Yeah. Do you ever use like an enema kit or anything like that? I used to. So I told you that...

I didn't prepare or use lube or anything for the first year that I did anal. Like the first at least 100 times that I did anal. But then I started looking up what to do and how to prepare. Because I was like, you know, I'm kind of tired of like shitting on him all the time. Like I'm starting to feel disgusting. And so...

I ordered like some animal things. Okay, so you have shit on a dude. Oh, I have shit on every dude that I've ever been with. Okay, I see. Thank you for saying that. I had a little situation one time too. I didn't fully shit, but there was some residue and it really freaked me out. That's what they get. That's what they get. But you know what I love about, Drew is my homeless friend.

boyfriend that took my anal virginity. - And he's the anal king also. - He pulls his dick out of my butt and goes immediately to the bathroom. He doesn't like say anything. He doesn't go ew gross. Like he doesn't do shit. Like if I'm messy too, like he'll bring a towel for me. It hasn't been messy though, like really messy in a really long time. 'Cause I kind of have a good system now. But for a while I ordered a enema. It was a little electronic one. So instead of like having, people have like squeeze bottles that they put up there.

but it's like an anal douche actually. But I had one that you just press a button and it squirts water up into your butthole. - Wow. - And it worked really well, but one,

You have to. So while they push all the water up there and then you have to shit it out and it makes the craziest fucking sound. So if you're like trying to do that before a guy, like make sure there's not one man there. Before he goes over guys. It is the worst, most embarrassing sounds ever. I bet. It doesn't set the mood. No. No. A lot of times when you shoot water up there, a lot of porn girls will tell you this too. Sometimes it gets messier because some of the water doesn't come out. Oh.

And you're fucking during and just, I hate to say it, but diarrhea will come out everywhere. Like I threw mine away and was done with it after that happened one time. I was like, this fucking sucks. And now I literally just stick my finger up there and just feel around. I know what the inside of my butthole feels like, like with the back of my hand. Literally, you just feel around. Like you can kind of feel if you need to shit or not. At least I can. And I'm really regular too. So like if I know I have to shit, I don't do it. Or if he's like begging to, I'm like, well,

Like it's your risk. And he's like, cool, I'm all good. I'm lucky to have that kind of guy. But if this was someone that you're really nervous about, like,

Just make sure you've shit that day and like feel up there before and it'll be fine. But also don't fucking try anal with a pussy. Yeah. Don't try it with a pussy. It doesn't matter if you get shit on them. They've already come. They don't give a fuck. Like he's a man. He actually doesn't care. Like I don't even care. Like I literally have sucked on butt plugs and put my mouth on dicks that have my shit or other people's shit on them. And I can see it. Hence this drug that you have right now. It is terrible and disgusting. But in the moment when you're like horny, like,

Yeah, why worry about the aftermath? Like we're in the moment. I get that. I don't think like if a guy is really rude to you about about shitting on his dick, he is the wrong guy. It's a great way to tell. Like you're really going to have a kid with that guy and shit while you're giving birth to his kid. And like he's going to be not OK with that. You should be with a guy that like knows that you shit and know that you fart and like I think you're cute for it. Do you ever use desensitizing gel? No.

Yes. Oh my God. I love it. I haven't used it in a really long time because I don't need it anymore and I like the intensity. But there were certain times where... A dick was too big. Or what's the biggest thing you've ever put in there? Two dicks? The biggest... Have you ever done that? No. And I want to though. Okay. Eventually. Okay. But the biggest was probably... I had a dildo that was pretty wide one time and it made my ass gape like wide open. Like literally it was this big. It was crazy. Damn. But...

I think the biggest was this guy. I flew out to Puerto Rico with Hannah to fuck. And he had like a 10, maybe 11 inch dick. No. And it was really girthy. He's a porn guy. I've never. And it was huge. And I was like so nervous. But.

I also kind of knew the butthole, once it stretches a little, it can stretch a lot. Like, it's not... It's really stretchy. So it's like a vagina, kind of. Yeah, it's really stretchy once you, like, know how to stretch it. So you're down with it, like, desensitizing gel, whatever? It works really well because people think that it numbs, but it doesn't at all. It just...

It kind of takes away that feeling of having to shit. And instead, I honestly think instead of feeling pain, I feel more sensation. Like it feels good. So I recommend that to so many girls that are like, it's just way too tight. I can't do it because not every girl has control of their body like how I do. Like I know that one, I have a really high pain tolerance. I like getting through pain. It feels good to me.

And like somehow I've just been blessed with a stretchy butthole. Like not everybody's going to be that. There is desensitizing gel that really, and I don't think like numbing ones or anything. If it says like anal desensitizer, that's the one to do. And it also functions as lube. So it's like, Oh yeah, it's a win-win. Yeah. What about, we need to talk about this scat play. Is that what it's called? Yeah. Okay. What, can you explain what that is? I mean, it's,

It's playing with your poop. Like, it's guys who are into poop. And I was always shocked by it. But, you know, it makes sense. Like, people are into the things that when you're not horny are disgusting. Like, the more disgusting it is, like, you're going to be into it. Whether it's incest or poop. Right. Like, it all is the same. How do you play? Like, what are we doing? Like, are we, like, rubbing it on people? Are we eating it? I didn't even know. Dirty Sanchez. Like, what are we doing with it? So many guys...

since I started doing this job, have asked me to shit on camera. Like so many guys. And I... On their chest? No, like just on camera, they want to see me poop. Like into a toilet, into a bowl, on the floor. Like so many guys have asked me that. And I've never done it because God forbid they leak it on the internet. Like, please no. Also, I'm just not into that. I don't feel comfortable making it.

But I never really knew like what guys were into or why. And then one time on Twitter, this website called scat.com messaged me and was like, hey, I think you'd really like to use our site because poop play is not allowed on like OnlyFans. Oh, it's not? No. Why? So there's...

They just don't allow. There's so many restrictions with certain things. I know. OK, it's just it's too kinky for them. Whatever. So, yeah, whatever. They have so many. We're out here bugging our cousins. We can't play with our poo. It's so stupid. But and you can't pee like you can't even get golden shower. Wow. Beside that, though, scat.com has a Twitter and I just clicked it to be like, oh, what's this? What's this like these people messaging me?

The first video on the top was a girl shitting into her hands. Like, real shit. Like, it was fucking... I've never seen somebody shit on camera. So she just... No, she shit into her hands. Like, she was standing up, kind of. She was, like, holding her hand under her butt. She, like, shit a ton into her hands and just rubbed it all over her body, on her face, like, everything. Okay. I was...

For me, it was shocking. Then I scroll down one for some reason and this girl's riding this guy in reverse cowgirl. He's like laying flat on the floor and she's riding and she lets out like a perfect like Hershey...

- No way. - Drop of shit. - How did she perfect that? - I don't know, it was crazy. I'm like, do they put fake shit in their butt and then like make it come out? I don't know. - Something. - And then I scroll down more and this boyfriend and girlfriend cover their entire bedroom in plastic, like clear plastic, like they're gonna murder someone. Like literally the walls, the floor, all the furniture. And then they just like shit all over it, like rub shit everywhere.

It's really, I think it's a very niche market. Have you ever done it? No, never. I mean, I have a lot of messy anal videos that I can't sell on OnlyFans now, but they used to not have that rule. So I used to have them on there where like we would fuck and when he'd pull out like there's a little shit on his dick and we'd film it on accident. Like we didn't mean to make that. But then guys like those would sell three times as well as the clean videos. Stop. Yeah. People love them because it's real anal. Like,

And I love showing that because it's like, it's not because I think poop is hot, but it's like, this is what real anal looks like. We get comfortable with it. Like we have poop in our butts. It's authentic. Yeah. We're actually fucking and like, I get it. I kind of get that. Do you cum super easily? You know, I...

I do orgasm really easily. But I didn't for a long time. Even last year, I remember calling my mom and being like, I have such a hard time orgasming. For so long, I just didn't know how to make myself cum. Like I was super horny, but I didn't know how. And sex felt amazing without cumming. Yeah. But I didn't know like rubbing my own pussy never really did it for me. Yeah. Until I found this one vibrator that when my mom was like, just keep trying like.

focus on stories that turn you on. And that's probably the best thing she ever told me. She was like, just think of things that like fantasies that turn you on. And so as I've been practicing, like trying to get better at orgasming faster and getting in that zone much easier, um,

I've gotten really good at it. I can come so fast. It's one finding a vibrator that really works for you. And I tell most girls like a lot of vibrators are really weak. So some girls that they work really well for, but other girls like they feel like I don't even have a clit. Like I don't even feel like this vibrator works. Right. You have to try a bunch. The majority are so weak and not that good. And then you'll find one that's like,

Just ask for the most powerful ones everywhere you go. I have one that's called New Sensual Point. I literally recommend that to everybody. Free promo. But that's my favorite vibrator in the whole world. I love that. I'll send you one. Yeah, send me one, please. Yeah, it sounds like you can just really train your body to over time. Like now I orgasm really easy and I orgasm like eight times in a row.

Like I just keep, yeah, I just keep going. Like one orgasm has never been enough for me. I do one and I need to lay there and have another and another until it's physically painful. I stop. I'm so fucking eight in a row. You can train yourself. Yeah, I have to. Well, can you give me the, you'll have to tell me like the manual to train. Just work on like your brain. For me, it's working.

on my brain, 'cause like girls can orgasm just by thinking about certain stuff. - Right. - But we don't know how to do that. I can't fucking do that. But I'm getting closer and closer every time. And like, I used to think, oh, I need to think about having sex with my boyfriend. But now I realize like, what my fantasy, this is actually kind of crazy, 'cause you've talked about on the show before, like the gynecologist fantasy. My biggest fantasy

I just read this story one time and it stuck with me about this girl going in for her first gynecologist visit and the gynecologist like just makes her orgasm. And he was like trying to teach her how to orgasm. - Oh, I'm into that shit too. - Yeah, he's like, so she didn't know what he was doing, but he's like, I'm gonna give you your first orgasm. Like, this is how you do it. And he did it. - That turned me on. - And so that turned me on and I was in the role of her for a while. Then I started being in his role and like I started being the man in it.

and like just in your brain in my brain I'd be like like how good it feels to stick my dick in like her pussy and stuff and like teach her how to orgasm when like she doesn't know what's happening to her kind of thing right which I don't know why that happened but my fantasies have just evolved but those turn me on so fucking much oh my god I think what it is though for women is like taking away the

pressure of feeling like you have to come or someone's like, come for me, baby, like come now. But instead being like, I'm going to make you come and I'm not even going to tell you that I'm doing it. That's what's hot about it. You're not going to know what's happening to your body, but you are going to orgasm. Right. I think

You're defenseless. And like, yeah, even when I open something in your brain, it does. When I was younger, I was into that. Like, oh, just me not even being able to control if I want to or not. And a guy's just going to force me to make it happen. We need that because so many guys are like, come for me, come for me, like your whole teens. And you're like, I don't know. I know. Save on Cox Internet when you add Cox Mobile and get fiber powered Internet at home and unbeatable 5G reliability on the go.

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- Is it true, you said one time that once you hit 500K followers on Twitter, that you were gonna go on tour where you fuck a fan from each state. - Oh my God, I love that. - Is that true? - Yeah, I love that you did your research. - I did, I did. And I was like, I was thinking like, fuck, I wonder what state would have the best dick. - Dude, I wanna do that so bad. - That would be so crazy. - And I know it sounds like the most like,

slutty shit ever. I don't know. It sounds crazy to add just like 50 to my body count. Girl, we've said a lot on this episode. I don't know. I think it would be so fun. Like, I just love getting to know people through sex and especially like picking one fan in every state and doing a country tour. Like, sounds amazing. That's my job. I think it would be

- I think it would go crazy. I wanna do it now, but I don't think it would get the press it deserves. - I think I need to do a world tour. - We're waiting 'til the 500K and I need to know what-- - I'm gonna be traveling around in a van. - And they just go in the fucking camper van and fuck you. That's fucking amazing. - And you said we need to get 500K on OnlyFans or Twitter? - Twitter. That was my claim, so it's actually coming up pretty fast.

Guys, if you're listening, submit your resume. Submit them now. I'm trying to pay it forward to my fans. That's that's it's charity starts at home. My fans have like like their messages to me every day. Inspire so many my videos. Inspire the sex I have in my personal life. And you need to give back. Yeah. Like they're they're way kinkier than I am. Half of them. And like with big dicks like and a lot of them are super hot. Like I would be happy to fuck like.

I kind of want to copy your idea and do it too. Like when I go on tour. Should we go on tour? Yes. And just give them threesomes? Yes. I would way rather do it with you too. They have to give a full, like talent testing is where porn stars get tested. So they have to give a full like talent testing panel of STDs. Right. A clean STD test. Right. They have to show us a dick pic. They have to like, you know, send us a whole application like saying,

what they're into, why they think they deserve it. We have to see if they're hot and we're into them. I think we can find 50 of those guys. 100%. I want to go on your OnlyFans. Would you ever let me? I will give you a year subscription for free. I'll give you a 12-year subscription. To go on it? Yeah. What would you have me do? Just us hook up? Oh, I would do anything you want. Anything? I do literally anything.

- I do anything. - If you ever wanna be fucked in the ass with a strap on, if you ever wanna just have a threesome, if you wanna do nudes, if you wanna be clothed and just, you know,

watch me masturbate if you want to masturbate side by side okay there's so many things you can do you can I can do like I've done a lot of anal training with girls where I train their butts and like put oh my god that's what I need nice I don't know I feel like we connect on like a spiritual level and I think our first we don't even need to film it we really don't actually we can just

Fuck. That's not even a lie. I was about to say the first video we do make, I would just want it to be you and I. Exactly. Scissoring, eating out. Literally. And just keep it like basic. Lesbian lovers. I've done that with so many girls. Like just like good lesbian sex. Right? I feel like our sex would be really hot. Guys, there's sexual tension in this room right now. Or you know, you can always come on live stream on my OnlyFans where we're like in a hot tub, you know, and we just like.

rub our titties together. - Oh my God. - Bounce our titties for people. - That's easy. - Yeah. - Is it more dudes or girls that subscribe? - Way more dudes. - But now girls are-- - The penis just leads men to that. - I know. - But now that I've been getting a lot more girl fans, there are a lot of girls subscribing, whether or not they just wanna support. One girl literally messaged the other day and she was like, "Hey girl, I just wanted to let you know, "I love you so much and I support you so much. "I'm gonna unsubscribe now, but bye." 'Cause she was like, the next video I sent was like,

farting on a dick. I love you. I support you. I gotta go though. And then other girls are like lesbian couples and they watch me all the time. Because I make very like

I don't make porn for women, but I make porn like of me being myself. And so a lot of women love it and a lot of men love it. Yeah. It's like very... It's not like just like... I hate when people say, is this porn for women? Because it's like if you're just being like a normal woman, men like that shit. Men fuck normal women. Right. Oh my God. We could just... We could talk for hours. We're running out of time, but...

- The last thing I wanna talk about is the fucking story that you were telling me. Your LA threesome shit just quickly, you need to let everyone know what the fuck went down. - So if my TikTok fans, like if you're a TikTok fan of mine, you know about the gummy bear boys because I went to a sex party one night in LA. - Crazy as shit. - And I go back to my hotel and it's like a topless rooftop. So you can be topless and go swimming and stuff. So it's really sexy.

I got back to my hotel at 3 a.m. and I'm like, I'm gonna go swimming in the pool with Hannah. And so I go in just like my underwear and no top on. And she starts making out with this other guy she met at the sex party. And I'm just there alone. And these two guys are in the pool I've never seen. And they're like young guys. They're really funny. I just hit it off with them so fast. And it wasn't sexual at all. So I take them back to the hotel room. And...

they're like doing all these skits and they're just being hilarious. Like funny guys just turn me on. Yes. And especially when they are not trying to get sex out of you. And so then we were watching a show. I think we were watching South Park and then another show. And I was like, can I put gummy bears in your guys' buttholes? What? Because there were gummy bears on the, in the like, uh,

What is it? The mini bar. Yeah, the mini bar. And they were like, yeah. And they literally turned over and bared their butts for me to put it in. And I was like, and I was starting to do it. I was like, guys, let me show you how to do it. And I got in doggy. I was like, first you need to get in doggy. And I started shoving them in my butt. And then they started shoving them in my butt. And then I had like 10 in my butthole and they started eating my ass. And then I was just so fucking horny. And we just had a full on threesome. What?

With gummy bears in all of your guys' asses? No, not in theirs. I never got around to putting them in theirs. I just fucked my ass during one of them did and the gummy bears just got shoved even farther up there. Okay, hold the fucking phone. How many gummy bears went up there? I think at least ten.

- They were a lot. - And did you just shit them out? - They all came out the next day. - Like, can you get an infection? So what? - It was just like shit. - What did your shit look like? - They were full gummy bears. - Did they like disintegrate or did they actually just come out like little bears? - They came out like this. - Stop it. - There was one in the bed when I woke up in the morning. - Stop it. - So with these guys, we like had sexual tension the whole time, but I wasn't gonna hook up with them because

Drew was fucking in the bed in the hotel room. Like, my other guy. Yeah, and, like, I'm allowed to sleep with other people, but I usually don't do it when I'm with him. Like, it felt more like cheating that way. So I was like, I'm not gonna do it. Then the girl gives us the Molly chocolates. And then you're fucked. And then we literally got butt naked on the rooftop after everyone left, because you can stay up there all night long. And we fucked on the rooftop, on the beds by the pool, butt naked. You just gotta tell your boyfriend it wasn't me, it was Molly. Yeah, and they...

- They fucking, they made me come. - That'll be fine. - Yeah, exactly. - They made you come. - They made me come. They went down on me and made me come and then-- - Both of them just took turns going down on you? - Yeah, and it was so good. - Fuck. - And then they both came like separately. One guy came in my ass. He like fucked my ass and came and then the, actually, and then I made the other guy come blowing him and then the other guy went back in my butt again and fucked me till he came again. It was, we were so fucking horny. - Wow. - But yeah, I love that. - He came in your mouth and then in your ass. - Yeah.

Oh my fucking God. I love them. They're so awesome. Can we go to LA together? Dude, if we go to LA together, I stay at this hotel that's literally... No, that scary shit would happen. No, it's amazing. I stay at this hotel that I just never leave. You can be topless on the rooftop and everybody always is. You can smoke weed up there. Can we say what it's called? Lots of porn girls are there.

Or no. I probably shouldn't. No, okay, don't. It's like a member's club where they try. Also, we don't want to ruin. I don't want to blow up the spot. No. But, you know, if you become friends with us, like, or if you see us there, say hi. Yes. I've actually met some really cool girls there that are fans of me. And, like, one girl came up to me last time I was there and was like, hey, I know who you are and, like, I'd really like to shoot you. I do film photography. And she just shot me. And they were the most beautiful feminine nude photographs I've ever taken. Wow. Okay. Well. If you see me, come say hi, please. Yes.

Yes. Okay. That story. Yeah, that was the spark notes. That is ending on a high note, you guys. The Gummy Bear Boys. The Gummy Bear Boys. Dude, they're in a band in LA. They're like grungy and really smart and philosophical and funny. And I just like...

I wish we could give them a shout out. We probably can't. Some men I just like that same night. Some guys you just want putting gummy bears in your ass. There was a guy right before him like that I was hanging out with the whole trip that gave me presents, had a great job, like so successful, really cute. And like I should have liked him.

and I just never wanted to have sex with him. And he wanted to fuck me so bad and I never did. And then that same night, I meet these guys in the pool and 20 minutes later, they're like in my ass. - It's really all about personality. - It is. - It is. It sounds cliche, but it is. Okay Stella. - The final thought, it's all about personality. - Yeah, after everything we just talked about. - This show will give you a good personality. - Yes, yes it will.

- Guys, Stella, thank you so fucking much again. - You're welcome. - You're gonna come back on again next week and next week and next week. - That was so fun. - We're going out tonight. Where can they find you? - You can find me, the best place is Twitter, @Barrybaby, B-A-R-E-Y baby. On TikTok right now, my ad is deliveries to the back.

which is my only account that's not deleted. And then Instagram is analprincess, the L is a one and the E is a three. You'll find me probably through Sophia. Sophia with an F, Franklin with a Y, and Sleuths, I'll talk to you next week. Bye!