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It was like, good for you. You've clearly done well. And just like not impressed or like seemingly unimpressed by it. Dating is already this weird and vulnerable thing. We're getting to know people, sharing details from our lives, small things like the types of books and movies we like, to the big things like our family, our traumas, and of course, our finances.
For us, that part can feel like you're holding on to a bombshell. And it's not really that big of a deal if it doesn't change who you are. But money is weird and it makes people feel weird. So there are a couple of anxieties that come with sharing how wealthy you are. Like if people are going to take advantage of you or if the power imbalance will make things feel awkward. And then there's the anxiety that you're going to come off kind of douchey or braggy because of the way that you address it.
There is always in the early days that urge to like flex a little bit. And that my friends is what we're going to talk about on today's episode of Money Wise. I'm Sam Parr and this is Money Wise. Look, you can scroll through Instagram for just 30 seconds, you're going to see a ton of junk out there to teach you how to become rich, but not a lot that teaches you how to handle life after you've already made some money. I'm co-founder of a company called Hampton. You can check it out at joinhampton.com. It's a community of CEOs and business owners. Our
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Today's guest is my friend Alex, and he's worth around $133 million. Details in a minute. What's interesting is the majority of that wealth came from a company he founded with his now ex-wife. Right after college, I took a solar trip on my own for about a year, traveled around a lot of places in Central and South America, and then Southeast Asia for a while, and then came back to
met up with her, and then the two of us took off and we went and lived in a bunch of different countries in South America. And during that time, we started our first company that failed and then started our second company that failed. And then kind of at the tail end of all that travel, we ended up getting married, moving back to Springfield. And then our first son was born about a year later. During that time, we started our next company and that one was successful.
Part of the reason I wanted to start this podcast is because people are often lost when they go through that weird period of building something and suddenly being worth a crazy amount of money. Your lifestyle changes, your relationships change, your anxieties change. And for the most part, you're going through this all alone because only a few people out there actually get lucky enough to create this type of wealth.
But Alex is different. He went through all that with his life partner until things changed. It was like a very abrupt end of our both business partnership and marriage partnership. And it was not amicable. And it took a while. We have two kids as well. Took really two years to sort everything out. Figuring out how to divide up assets was very tricky with the company involved. And figuring out what each person's roles and responsibilities were going to be. Yeah, it was tough.
Now it's very amicable. We live close to each other. We have a great friendship. It feels good. And that means Alex is back on the dating scene. And this time, everything's different. But adjusting to his new single life hasn't been all that bad.
We're going to talk about his dating life and what he's learned. But first, let's get a better sense of his new lifestyle, starting with the details of his $133 million net worth.
So I still do own quite a bit of stock, and that's probably the majority of my net worth is still in that stock. That's probably about $100 million or so, is $100 million at the last funding period.
And then I did take some secondary as well. And that was like a big part of like the divorce settlement is figuring out how much secondary to take. So I took about $45 million in secondary. So after tax, it was about $33 million. That secondary sale, it was actually two different sales, one in 2021 and then one at the end of last year. Those two sales and then the stock is still the majority of money. My net worth, I own another company as well.
That's quite small. It's a SaaS company. It does a couple million a year in revenue. It billed to two million or a little under two million this year. And that mostly just cash flows. So I have a partner on that. We both take like pretty reasonable salaries from that. It has about 8% margins. Just the two of us, yeah. And no employees? No employees, yeah.
Damn, man, you're a hitmaker. Well, it's funny because both of these are companies that are 10 years or older. But I haven't been a hitmaker for a long time. The cash flowing one is 10 years old? Yeah, it was a side project. It was a tool that I originally needed from my previous company.
was like looking for options for it, reached out to a friend and was like, "Hey, I need this tool." And he was like, "Oh, that's funny. And I need this tool." Like company worked at a big tech companies. We were just talking about this. We need a tool like this as well. And I was like, "Oh, here's how I've been thinking about how it should work. What do you think?" And he was like, "Yeah, let's build a tree of concept this weekend."
And so it just started as a little side project that we used for our own companies. We had our own two companies were our first customers. And then it was a side project for six, seven years while we were working on other things and just kind of slowly grew. And then after we even had our last company, we both started working on it. And we say full-time, but we both probably worked like 15 hours a week on it.
Alex's life is incredibly simple now. And up front, it wouldn't be super obvious that he has the type of wealth that he does. His house in particular is very modest. It's a little under 1,000 square feet, two-bedroom house. It's pretty tiny.
And so I have like a proper backyard. - And so I imagine if that's where you live, your living expenses are quite low. - Yeah, I paid the mortgage off a few years ago on it. I'm just completing, might even hear a little bit of sound outside. I'm completing a full one year remodel, like gutted the entire place, redid the outdoor space. That was obviously fairly expensive. It's California, it's an expensive place to build. But now that that's done, yeah, my monthly expenses should be quite low after this.
Now, Alex is not a show-offy type of guy. And maybe that comes with the age a little bit. He's been married and divorced. He has some kids. And basically, he's not a 25-year-old who just made $100 million, which means he's a bit ahead of the game, even though he's new onto the dating scene.
I remember being young and goofy. And if I had a lot of money when I was young and single, I absolutely would have used that as a flex in order to meet people. Which, of course, I definitely would have came off a little bit douchey and attracted the wrong type of woman. And if the anxiety is that people are going to want to use you for money, being flashy with it is just going to make that come true, I think. But even though he's not being braggy about his bank account, it doesn't mean that he isn't using his wealth to give him at least a little bit of an advantage.
I think not by like talking about like specific financial status or success. I think like the flex is like talking about how I only work a few hours a week, take a lot of trips, like any talking about things that I've done recently. That's pretty obvious advice. If you don't want to come off as a rich douchebag, don't be one. And as a result, you'll attract better people. However, your wealth isn't something you can downplay forever.
So you will have to have a discussion at some point rather than keeping it a secret. The question is when. Here's how Alex typically goes about it.
Money doesn't come into it really in the dating. Like I definitely don't advertise that I have a lot of money. I don't think that people that I mostly have gone out on like casual dates with would really know. I mean, I talk about how I run a small software company. So maybe there's like some implicit level of income. But most of the people I've dated wouldn't know what my wealth situation is.
Dude, I'm shocked that you don't. This is just clearly the difference in your confidence and my confidence of not wanting to brag about it. I don't know if it's confidence. I wouldn't necessarily describe it as that. But yeah, I've never been able to. In fact, we were talking about our mutual friends at the start of this. I was at dinner with them. It was at a Hampton dinner. And everybody's going around saying what they did. And I talked about myself, but I omitted my big company and didn't say anything about it. And
Our friend was like, wait a minute, are you going to talk about the company you stuck her in? I was like, oh yeah, and I did that too. I don't know, I've just always kind of had an aversion to showing off, I guess. It's not in my nature. I don't know that it comes from a place of confidence necessarily, but it just never feels right to brag about myself. When do they find out, typically? Yeah, only one person has so far. And I was probably six months into dating or so.
It wasn't like an abrupt conversation. It wasn't like, oh, surprise, there's this big reveal. When you're dating for a number of months, somebody starts to get to know you, and they know a little bit more and a little bit more. And so by six months of dating this person, it was pretty clear like, oh, this guy doesn't work a lot, and he takes a lot of trips. So he's clearly well off in some ways. And then, of course, my previous company, lots of other people have heard of it. And so...
When a company like kind of has like a public profile like that, there's like some guesses probably about your level of wealth. So I don't think it came as like a huge shock to her. And it goes still a bit surprising, but not like a big reveal. Do you feel like maybe you have to be dishonest with someone early on? Not dishonest, but like selective in what I say. So let's say they go, hey, tell me about your background. Like, what did you do? How would that story look like?
One easy thing for me is I grew up in rural farm country, so I can always start with that. And then, you know, I'd say I started several companies that failed, eventually started a company that was quite successful, worked on that for a number of years, was lucky to be able to step away from that and now run a small software company with another partner where we are fortunate to not have to work full time and we're fortunate to not have to have any employees.
then I would refocus the conversation on my passion. So I spend a lot of time out in the mountains, I spend a lot of time surfing, spend a lot of time with my dog. So even though Alex really isn't flaunting his wealth, he's also not going to go out of his way to keep it a big secret. Yes, he's not having the official discussion until he's starting to feel like the relationship is serious. But like he said, the way he's going about dating means that the reveal isn't all that surprising.
Not hiding it completely in a way is great. He's not creating a big secret out of it. And he's also not building up a bunch of pressure to the point where it becomes a huge thing when he's honest about it. And then on the other hand, when you aren't fully hiding it, the anxiety of people using you can be more present. I've got a lot of friends who are single and wealthy. And this is a very common thing, which is do people actually like them? Or are they just being used? And it's a very, very, very big anxiety that a lot of these people have.
We'll get Alex's personal take on that anxiety in a moment, right after a quick sponsor break.
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get a sense of who the person is. If they like me, I hope that it's for the right reasons and not because they see dollar signs. Have you had people use you, you think? I will say there was one person I dated who I think had grown up pretty wealthy and then...
had like some big saga where her dad, when he died, was living in another country. She was supposed to be one of the beneficiaries and receive a lot of money, but didn't. So she like went from like this world with a lot of wealth to then having to like make her own way and not getting any of that. And when we broke up, I remember thinking like, that was probably a great call. She would have spent all my money within a couple of years. Yeah.
And so that was like, I never felt like I was used, but I felt like she was like, this is great. This lifestyle, this is what I want. We took some trips and she was like, we're flying business. We're staying in these really, really nice hotels. And I was paying for it. And I was like, yeah, this is really fun. What specifically did she do that made you think you're going to spend it all? All of her suggestions for where to stay, what to do. With like the rents or whatever. Cost a lot of money. Exactly. Yeah. Did she offer to pay? No. Okay.
The offer is important. The offer is important. Absolutely. Yeah. For her, like knowing her background and like her childhood, she was really accustomed to that lifestyle. And for me, I was like brand new. I was like, whoa, like I never do this. Like I've stayed at like a fancy hotel twice before. And now like we're on a 14 day trip and every hotel we're staying in is like $500 tomorrow night. This is different for me. This was a pretty big red flag, but it's not often that simple.
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Being cheap out of fear brings negative energy to any situation. And that is not nice for the people around you or even yourself. It's nice to pick up the bills when you can. And Alex enjoys doing that.
Pretty much as the rule, that's been the case. I like to just pay for things. Like I have a lot of friends who I hang out with who aren't making nearly as much money as me. And if we're hanging out, I'm like really happy to get the check. And I do not a lot. It's not specific to the dating context, but I do try to pick up the check. That means that what this really comes down to is the wisdom to understand people's intentions.
We'll talk about this in a minute. But one of the ways that Alex deals with avoiding people who just want to use him for his money is trying to find people who align with him on his lifestyle. This is all really complicated, though. Be wise isn't super specific advice, which makes you think about an easier alternative, which is dating people who already have wealth on their own.
When I started dating my wife, she worked at Facebook. At the time, I think I was paying myself like $2,000 to $3,000 a month and she was making $10,000 or $15,000 a month. And she also came from a family of entrepreneurs, which means that she kind of saw her parents start something and kind of rise to become a very successful family.
Because of that, she kind of understood the entrepreneurial journey. She understood that maybe what I'm doing is going to work out and we're going to have a lot. Maybe what I'm doing is not going to work out and we aren't going to have as much.
But I think because of her background, because of the way she was raised, because she already had a little bit of money, I think it made life so much easier for us, particularly once we kind of came into making a bunch of money. It was as if she had already experienced a little bit of that lifestyle and didn't take it for granted, but also wasn't incredibly impressed by it. And I love that about her. But Alex really isn't concerned about his potential partner's wealth. He wants to meet people purely through connection, and that means ignoring apps altogether.
This could change over time, but kind of a rule that I've had for myself these last few years that I've really enjoyed, this is a self-imposed rule, is I want to be asking people out in person. So I've gone on a few hinge dates, but really just a few, and it was in like a very short period of time. And other than that, the people I've met, like my rule is meet them in real life and ask them on the date. And so the people that I've like dated for like a few months at a time, the first person I met on the chairlift was,
The second time we were on the chairlift that morning together, I was like, oh, hey, like you want to keep skiing today? And then that just turned into dinner and dating for a few months. And we took some trips together. The second person I dated for a few months, I met surfing. And so it was like, hey, do you want to just like meet up and surf again? And then that kind of evolved. And I was like, oh, do you want to take a surf trip with me? The last person I dated whom dating right now, I met at a dog park near my house.
And instead of searching for people with similar wealth right now, he wants to focus on how his potential partner aligns with him when it comes to his future financial plans. Evaded people are kind of all over the place. I do think that it gets, maybe for like a long-term relationship, it could be a little bit more of a challenge. I think once you start thinking about how to like,
manage money and what you're going to do with it. I think a big thing that I'm going to need to figure out over the next few decades is how to give away a lot of money. I don't want it going to my kids or I want very little of it going to my kids at least. So no, I haven't had any sort of guidelines around who I want to be dating in terms of like what their background or their financial situation is.
But I do think in a long-term relationship, if I'm trying to figure out how to give away tens of millions of dollars, somebody who could be a partner in that is important to me. And that might dictate sort of the background that somebody has. How are you going to vet a potential partner to make sure that she's on board with that?
That's a good question. I mean, I think slowly, lots of conversations that are not like, hey, is this like aligned with your life philosophy? Because who knows what one conversation could lead to. But yeah, I think somebody who exhibits those characteristics already in their life doesn't mean is actively engaged in philanthropy, but is like,
about challenges in the world and some aspect, whether that's poverty or climate or whatever, and is thinking about it and actively trying to come up with ways to participate and either give time or resources to something that they care about. ♪
Aligning with your partner about finances, and more specifically, what to do with your money, is crucial, I think, to any relationship. Your lifestyle nearly completely depends on how and where you spend your money, which means finding someone with similar wants and values is a major part of any good relationship. But there is this power imbalance when one partner makes significantly more money than the other partner.
And even if you have this what's mine is yours team philosophy, which I think is the way to go, there's still going to be a little bit of an issue sometimes with money and that power imbalance. There will always probably be that imbalance, right? I think the ways it would show up the worst is if there's like a real mismatch in how...
you want to live your lifestyle. If I was wanting to spend a lot of money and bringing this person along and they were attracted to that lifestyle, there'd just be this imbalance where I'm paying for everything. It's totally dependent on what I say we do. It's a real fear I have. I think a couple of the ways that I'm personally trying to mitigate that is...
I'm trying to live a pretty low-profile life. I'm still living in this small house. Instead of buying a new big house, I just remodeled it.
My hope is that I'll meet somebody who is into the same lifestyle that I'm into, which is to do a lot of traveling, but not to be spending a lot of money on it. I'm happy driving up and down the coast, camping in a van for weeks on end. Yeah, I guess avoiding potential matches where that power imbalance would manifest more naturally. It's probably always going to be there, right?
Yeah. It's just a matter of how you adapt to it. I think you're right about that. And so thinking of the person I'm dating now, one of the things I really liked about her is that even when she knew I had money, like eventually knew how much money I had, like she just never seemed impressed by it at all or like didn't care about it at all. When we travel, like we've camped a ton together. That's probably the thing we've done more than anything else.
Alex is kind of lucky. The lifestyle compared to his net worth is incredibly cheap, which means footing the bill, it's not that big of a deal for him. And so for that reason, he's not too concerned about the power imbalance overall. But what if you want to live this extravagant life?
That imbalance is going to be exacerbated when you want to do something fancy like take a trip on a private jet and you constantly end up footing the bill because you want your partner to come. And even if you're totally fine paying for things, you want to empathize with your partner. Everything that you do together will ultimately be in your control. There are a lot of ways to address this, but there's one that I found incredibly interesting and that's this woman named Ann Maloum.
She came on Money Wise a few episodes ago, and she told the story about how she sold her company Solidcore for a couple hundred million dollars. It's an incredible episode, maybe my favorite of all time, and you have to listen to it. However, I want to bring to you a quick little bit about this relationship stuff that didn't make the cut for that previous episode. That right after a small sponsor break.
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So Brett is younger than I am. He's about six years younger than I am. So that means I've had more time to make money in my career. And it's also, I've exited my company. There's not a lot of people, let alone women, sitting in my position that have built $100 million of net worth for themselves. And so Brett, even if he makes...
$500 million a year, it's not really going to move the needle on our financial situation or what we can do. When we were going through our prenup, I was not going to feel good about if we ever get divorced, that I have to give X amount of money to this person I no longer want to have a partnership with or and or vice versa. I think prenups are completely stupid in that way.
If I want to make Brett feel more equal in our relationship and not that I have the power with the money and like I get to say because I have more of it, then I need to gift Brett money in our marriage when we are starting our life together that is his and that he can grow that money or do what he wants to do with that amount of money so that he feels empowered by that. And it's not like
Everything is, you know, he's got this much and I have a hundred million and I feel like a sugar mama. I didn't want that. He didn't want that. And so I'm gifting him money over the course of our first two years of marriage. And if we get divorced, there's no, I mean, obviously I never think we're going to get divorced, but you know what I mean? There's no payout. There's no ill feelings at the end of like, okay, well, Ann owes Brett this amount of money because their marriage didn't work out. I didn't get a prenup.
And I'm not envious of you for having to have that conversation. It honestly was super easy. And Brett is also like, yeah, that makes more sense. Like,
Why wouldn't we try to find a more equilibrium in our marriage when we are happy and plan to have our whole lives together? Again, who knows what the future holds? I shouldn't even say that. I never think we're going to get divorced. And I know nobody ever does when they're in love and in marriage. That's why you have a prenup to plan for whatever percent chance that may happen.
But we have things in our marriage, like when we go out to dinner, we have a shared credit card. Brett has his own money and I have my own money. And then we have a shared sort of pot on our life together and things that we do. I don't make a big purchase, Sam, without talking to Brett because I think I owe him that respect as my husband and vice versa. And that doesn't mean that I don't own certain property like...
I own this house that I'm in on my own. Like it's only in my name. There's a condo we own together. There's different investments we may do together. But I have been in many relationships where the masculine and feminine energy was off and I didn't want to take that risk with Brett. So we know we had to talk about money. And like I said, he'll put down the credit card when we go to dinner because it's a shared credit card that we have. And like, that's part of a masculine activity for him. Like, I don't really care.
Was dating a pain in the ass, being a woman that was just a badass? It wasn't a pain in the ass, but there are multiple men in my life that I have as friends who'd be like, oh, I would never be able to date you. Who knows if because I'm a pain in the ass or that's actually my money. But they talk about that, of like, I would be so uncomfortable feeling like I'm not the one financially providing myself.
And I get some of that. Like, let's be real. There is biology and like feminine masculine, what that means in society telling us what that means. So I know it took like a really strong, competent man. And that's, you know, Brett is that guy. Like he's super confident in who he is and he knows his value as a human doesn't just depend on how much money he makes. Yeah.
When it comes to power and balance in relationships, I think about this a lot because I want my wife to know that everything that I've earned is not mine. It is ours. I think there's a few ways to do this. For example, occasionally a spouse will ask the money-earning spouse, is it okay to buy something? And I think that the correct response is like,
I don't know, you tell me, it's your money. Is that what you want to spend it on? Little things like that, I think go a long way and it's something I do in my relationship all the time. But I'm not gonna lie, it's something I think about all the time because it's something I think about and I want to make sure that my spouse, Sarah, that she is incredibly comfortable in the relationship with money and knows that whatever I have, it's hers too.
Now back to dating. Dating doesn't always have to be a serious thing. It can still be fun and relaxed, even if the goal is to find a long-term partner. So yes, you are going to want to plan and think of all the things we've talked about. But you could also just use your money to have fun dating in crazy unique ways, sort of like my buddy Nick Gray. If you're not familiar, you should Google this. His name's Nick Gray, and he posted on Twitter a couple months ago asking if he could take a woman on a blind date to Tokyo for a weekend getaway.
He said he'd pay for everything. They just had to show up. He wrote and posted about the entire experience from beginning to end. So when he was going to pick her up from the airport to their first time out together, he did the whole thing on Instagram. It's Nick Gray News. And it's a fun and amazing story. And you guys have to check it out. Nick's very outgoing. He's very eccentric. And there aren't a lot of people who would do that. But I'm sure we've all been tempted or at least would like to live through Nick a little bit.
I want to end here by saying that obviously money brings some unique anxieties into dating. But overall, dating really can be just an awkward thing. Meeting people and putting yourself out there is always going to be vulnerable and full of ups and downs. Here's Alex's parting advice.
I think the thing I would tell myself would maybe just to be to like give myself some confidence then, which is that like, you're going to meet women. It's going to happen. Be patient. Do it in the real world. Like that is a good way to do it. Like again, of course, go date people online too. But like you can absolutely meet people in the real world. It will happen. It will happen when you don't expect it to. Be patient and do the things that you love doing and it'll absolutely show up in your life.
I definitely didn't believe that for a long time.
I don't know you well, but knowing what I know about you, I'm like, well, you're good looking. You got this cool kind of like outdoorsy vibe and you're really wealthy. Like you're going to crush. You're going to crush it. I'm shocked that you had a lack of confidence. I mean, you know, a divorce is like a big disruptor, right? It tears down things and you don't know necessarily where you're at. And I hadn't thought about dating in almost 20 years. And so it was challenging. Yeah.
Anything that you wish you knew then about like when to reveal or talk about money? Or do you think that your strategy early on was correct? I think it's been correct. I think it's still my strategy. I don't think I would change much about it.
Like there is always in early dates that urge to like flex a little bit. And so I try to be very thoughtful about that. Make sure that I'm not like, oh yeah, like I sold a company. I never say that. I never say I sold a company. That's like one of the things I try to avoid. You have to imagine they've all Googled you though, no? Yeah, absolutely. So they can draw conclusions from that. But yeah, try to like draw it out for a while.
That's just another checkmark about why you're probably just with amazing women. You got the mysterious vibe going. I think women might love that. All right. And that's it. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. And if you made it this far, I've got a few requests. The first, this podcast is not free. When you've listened to more than one episode, you are now in debt to me.
Thank you.
I put a ton of work into this podcast. And all I ask in exchange, if you've listened to more than one episode, just share it with your friends. It would mean the world to me. You can tag me @TheSamPar. Now the second request, if you are listening to this podcast, that means that you probably are a higher net worth person or you want to be and that means that you likely own or have started a company.
And if you have, check out Hampton. That's my company. Joinhampton.com. It's a community of CEOs and founders. We have over 1000 members. And the whole point of this podcast, it was inspired because I would see all these private conversations that we have about money. And I thought, dude, these have to be public. These are so good. No one talks about this stuff publicly. And that is where Money Wise came from. And in fact, most of the guests, like Alex, they are members of Hampton. So I've actually met them in Hampton.
So check it out. Joinhampton.com. We have hundreds of events throughout the year. We have a community where you can talk about all this crazy personal private stuff. And it is awesome. It has changed my life and changed a lot of our members' lives. So again, joinhampton.com. And the third request.
If you have an interesting story that you think would be good for Money Wise, email me. My email is sampar at sampar.com. You can be anonymous. You cannot be anonymous. It's up to you. But email me, sampar at sampar.com. And the fourth request, sorry, this is full of requests. You guys have to check out Lower Street. Lower Street is the company that has made this podcast.
If you're a company looking to make a podcast like this, you guys should check them out. LowerStreet.co. They make life so much easier when it comes to making a podcast like this, which by the way, it takes so much work. So check them out. LowerStreet.co. All right. We'll see you next week with some more episodes of Money Wise.
